I’ve just returned from an incredible event called Thrive—and I’m still buzzing with inspiration and fresh ideas. There’s something truly special about being surrounded by like-minded people: those who refuse to settle for mediocrity, who are hungry for growth, and who constantly seek ways to evolve. That’s exactly why I love events like Thrive. They don’t just motivate me; they challenge me, stretch my thinking, and introduce me to new concepts I’d never considered before.

If you’re someone who wants more from life and your sport, I invite you to join me as I share the most powerful lessons I learned at Thrive—and how you can use them to elevate your performance, both on the field and in everyday life.

Below are a few quick insights but if you want a deeper dive make sure you hit play and listen to** Lessons Learned: Thrive Inspired Lessons Learned for Sport**

1. Embrace the Unknown

2. Surround Yourself with Growth-Minded People

3. Stay Curious and Open-Minded

4. Set Bold Goals—and Take Action

5. Prioritise Your Wellbeing

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So, let’s keep exploring, learning, and evolving—together.

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You know the feeling: some days, you’re unstoppable in your sport, your movements are fluid, your mind is sharp, and your game feels effortless. Other days, nothing clicks. You miss easy shots, you overthink and leave at the end of your competition frustrated.

But what if the idea of “good” and “bad” days is a myth?

What if the secret to consistency lies in letting go of this good day versus bad day attitude because the difference isn’t luck or you are just having a bad day it’s where you place your attention. Just think about this for a moment when you obsess over this notion of good days and bad days you also have this feeling that you must be perfect but when you tie your self-worth to uncontrollable outcomes you into believe that every game must meet an unrealistic standard. Instead of focusing on what you can control: effort, attitude, and the immediate task in front of you.

Be aware that sports aren’t about flawless performances they’re about adaptation. It is how you adapt to the situations that are thrown at you, it's not about perfection or good days or bad days, its how you deal with what comes before you in that moment.

In this episode Turning Bad Days In Sport Into Breakthroughs the key is to stop judging the day and start learning from it.

What you will discover in this episode are:

When you break down the big picture and narrow your focus, you anchor yourself in the present.

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Dreading competition doesn’t mean you’ve fallen out of love with your sport it means you care deeply but are trapped in a cycle of self-doubt. This pressure hijacks your focus, replacing instinctive skill execution with overthinking and self-doubt. The result? Avoidance. You might skip practices, you might procrastinate, or you even contemplate quitting your sport, not because you’ve lost passion, but because the mental toll feels unbearable. If you have this inward pressure you want to treat it as a challenge to outsmart yourself rather than a monster that you fear so that you can step back into your sports arena with clarity and confidence.

So how do you overcome the dread that you feel?

In this episode The Pressure That Is Crushing Your Confidence you will discover this method known as a Structured Reflection. This is a strategy to dissect and defuse inward pressure. This structured reflection moves beyond casual post-game analysis. It’s a deliberate, systematic process to identify patterns, celebrate strengths, and address weaknesses without self-judgment

Why this Structured Reflection works is because it;

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Constant inward pressure can create a cycle of negative reinforcement. If you repeatedly underperform in sport due to stress and self-doubt, your confidence erodes. You will begin to expect failure, which further amplifies nervousness and makes it even harder to perform at your best. This mental burden can lead to frustration, burnout, and even avoidance, where you will begin to avoid competition or even practice to escape the anxiety of underperforming.

To break free from the negative effects of inward pressure, you have to shift your mindset.

And how will you do that?

In this episode The Inner Struggle: How Inward Pressure Leads to Sports Failure the good news is that to build confidence and let go of inward pressure is a skill that can be developed and strengthened so you want to think of it as a set of skills and habits that can be developed with intention and practice.

What you will discover in this episode are:

Inward pressure is inevitable in sports, but it doesn’t have to control you. Instead of fearing it, you can sharpen your mental game, strengthen your resilience, and prepare yourself to face it head-on. With the right mindset and training, pressure becomes a challenge to conquer rather than a force that holds you back.

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Hit play because these simple yet powerful physical and verbal cues are more than reminders, they are tools for mastering the mental game. By combining concise verbal prompts with purposeful physical rituals, you can transform that inward pressure ensuring you execute your skills with clarity and confidence when it matters most.

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If you’re constantly fixated on how badly you might play, you’re already setting yourself up to struggle. When all your energy goes into worrying about mistakes, frustration, or not living up to your own expectations, you lose sight of what really matters, playing the game. That pressure you’re putting on yourself, it doesn’t push you forward, it holds you back and pulls your attention away from the game itself and places it squarely on your fears and doubts and the harder it becomes to actually perform well.

So how do you break out of it?

In this episode When Your Confidence Crumbles: How Inward Pressure Derails You for you to improve and play with confidence, you need to focus on how to execute the right way. Confidence and performing well in your sport comes from understanding the how, not just chasing the what.

What you will discover in this episode are:

When you fixate on the outcome, you create pressure.

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Success in sport isn't solely determined by just physical skills, the mental skills are just as important. While there can be external pressures from coaches, teammates, or competition that can influence performance, the pressure that you place on yourself —often referred to as inward pressure—can be even more debilitating. This self-imposed expectation to constantly excel, meet personal goals, or avoid failure can lead to excessive stress, anxiety, and self-doubt.

In this episode Your Silent Opponent: How Internal Pressure Sabotages Your Performance we will be uncovering;

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So often in sport, we start worrying about letting others down or holding up playing partners because we don't think we are good enough or letting our teammates down. But what if I told you that the worrying you have about letting others down is actually holding you back?

In this episode What If You Stopped Worrying About Letting Others Down we will be working on strategies to shift your worrying into a positive approach that could then free you to play at your best and not have that worrying about letting others down.

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When a sports competitor gets nervous before a game, their body and mind can go through a series of physical and psychological reactions due to heightened stress and adrenaline.

While these reactions are normal, unmanaged nerves can interfere with performance. However, nervousness isn’t always a bad thing—it can also act as fuel, sharpening focus and readiness when channeled effectively.

In this episode on Beyond the Butterflies: Turning Nerves Into Motivation you will learn;

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Performance anxiety in sport refers to the intense feelings of nervousness, fear, or self-doubt that can arise before or during a competition. It’s often triggered by the pressure to perform well, meet expectations, or avoid failure, and can be influenced by internal factors like self-confidence and external factors such as audience scrutiny, not letting team mates or themselves down or even societal expectations.

The good news is that performance anxiety can be managed to help you stay calm and focused under pressure. With the right strategies, you can not only overcome performance anxiety but thrive in high-pressure situations, unlocking your full potential.

In this episode on** The Nervous Factor: Understanding Performance Anxiety** you will learn;

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We are tackling a topic that affects every sports competitor at some point in their competition in managing anxiety in high-pressure situations.

The pressure to perform under pressure can be overwhelming. Anxiety can creep in, affecting your focus, your confidence, and ultimately, your performance.

But what if you could harness that pressure and turn it into a source of strength?

What if you could stay calm, focused, and composed under all of that anxiety?

In this episode on Calm Under Fire: Reduce The Anxiety in High Pressure Situations you will learn;

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