July 08, 2026

An honest conversation about marriage after a decade together

1 hour 24 minutes

We’ve officially been together for 10 years! In this episode, we’re sharing stories from our first date, reacting to some of our most cringeworthy old videos, and discussing the relationship advice that’s actually stood the test of time (and the advice we’d never follow). Thanks for being part of the journey with us. 🤍

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Chapters:

04:14 - 10 yrs together

08:44 - New launch! Big announcement!

19:36 - Relationship trivia

31:31 - Who said that?

39:25 - Best/Worst relationship advice

58:30 - What we've learned from a decade of love

01:02:13 - Make friends w/other married couples

01:02:13 - Prioritize your marriage after having kids

01:04:49 - Do not consider divorce for 2 yrs after having a baby

01:06:16 - You need humility

01:09:56 - Love people in their own love language

01:11:47 - Continue to date your spouse

01:14:01 - Choose your battles wisely

01:17:07 - It's okay to go to bed angry

01:17:48 - Don't keep score

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