Andy Wells

Day 8 of 365: A much more free-flowing episode with no script, discussing 365 projects and police states. Good fun.

Shownotes:

Melbourne Police State (Datasheet):
http://melbournepolicestate.com/

Rollo & Slappy Show:
https://www.mcfloogle.com/212

Imogen's Artwork:
https://www.fiverr.com/immydraws

My COVID Depression:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/my-covid-depression/

My Photography 365 project:
https://handyandypandy.com/365

The Magic Wand I'm always talking about:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/magic-wand

Want a question answered on the show? Send it to me here:
https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/

🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective

🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching

$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call

▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com

▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter

Day 7 of 365: Andy commits to 365 days in a row of podcasts. Join me!

The Takeaway:
If I can do this, you sure as hell can too. Some ideas:

• 1 approach a day (talk to one girl a day).
• 1 piece of content a day (art, Youtube video, write something, record a song or piece of music, draw something, do a podcast).
• Workout every single day (mix the workouts up so you don't fatigue any one particular muscle group).
• Email one celeb/influencer/famous YouTuber/Instagrammer a day and ask them if you can work for them or contribute a project for them.
• Tell 1 person a day how grateful you are for them.
• Email one person you respect or look up to every single day to thank them for their work, or ask them a question like "What's one thing you wished you knew when you first started?" etc
• Give 1 stranger a compliment every single day for a year.
• Take 1 photo a day.
• Do 1 volunteer community project a day.
• Write 1 poem a day.
• Anything else you've always wanted to get good at or practice; doing something for 365 days will absolutely make you an expert on that subject.

Shownotes:
My 365 Photography Project:
http://handyandypandy.com/365

🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective

🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching

$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call

▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com

▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter

Day 6 of 365: Andy & his guest Imogen tackle fear the best way they know how; head-on.

The Takeaway:

• Run towards fear - don't avoid it.
• The more you practice embracing fear, the easier it'll become.
• Exposure therapy is pretty much the only way to overcome fear. You can do this gradually one step at a time, or jump straight into the deep end.
• Running towards fear sucks in the moment; but future you will thank you.
• When you feel the fear talking; yell out STOP. Then use the "3 2 1 GO" technique. Stop overthinking and just jump in there and do it.

Shownotes:
My First Tattoo Story:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/andy-gets-a-tattoo/

My Vasectomy Story:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/my-vasectomy/ 

Aiming High Means Falling Far:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/aiming-high-means-falling-far/

Elon Musk on Fear:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YH1txRfa0oY

Give Yourself Permission to Suck (my first article):
https://killyourinnerloser.com/give-yourself-permission-to-suck/

How I Beat my Approach Anxiety:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-i-beat-my-approach-anxiety/ 

I Am Always Full of Doubt:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/doubt/

Comments by "Will" throwing himself into the fear:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/you-and-me/#comment-64

🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective

🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching

$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call

▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com

▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter

Day 5 of 365: Andy and Imogen talk about their open relationships, seeing other girls together, setting boundaries and being on the same team in a relationship.

This podcast comes from a listener question: "I would like to know your thoughts on open relationships. Don’t get me wrong, it’s not that I want to meddle with your lives, but I would like to know how your opinion on open relationships, and how you deal with boundaries, jealousy, and the stuff that comes with it. (In my case, the thought of my LTR sleeping with other men would be really annoying, but on the other hand, I want to sleep with every woman I find attractive)."

Shownotes:

How to Breakup Amicably:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-to-breakup/

🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective

🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching

$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call

▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com

▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter

Day 3 of 365: Andy and Imogen cover matters of size (Part 1).

Magic Wand vibrator for crazy orgasms (affiliate link):

https://doxymassager.com/collections/originals?aff=79

Bathmate dick pump:

https://killyourinnerloser.com/bathmate/

Foreplay guide:

https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-4/#32-the-foreplay

Sex guide/talking dirty guide:

https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-4/#33-the-sex

Performance anxiety guide:

https://killyourinnerloser.com/performance-anxiety/#solution-1-give-yourself-permission-to-not-have-sex

It's "You and Me", not "You vs Me":

https://killyourinnerloser.com/you-and-me

How to write Sexual Bucketlists:

http://killyourinnerloser.com/sexual-bucketlist

Building things with girls:

https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-5/#12-build-something-together

BDSM guides:

https://killyourinnerloser.com/category/sex-dating/bdsm/

Immy's Thoughts on Being Alpha:

https://killyourinnerloser.com/on-being-alpha/

🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective

🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching

$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call

▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com

▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter

Day 4 of 365: Andy and Imogen cover matters of size (Part 2).

Magic Wand vibrator for crazy orgasms (affiliate link):

https://doxymassager.com/collections/originals?aff=79

Bathmate dick pump:

https://killyourinnerloser.com/bathmate/

Foreplay guide:

https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-4/#32-the-foreplay

Sex guide/talking dirty guide:

https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-4/#33-the-sex

Performance anxiety guide:

https://killyourinnerloser.com/performance-anxiety/#solution-1-give-yourself-permission-to-not-have-sex

It's "You and Me", not "You vs Me":

https://killyourinnerloser.com/you-and-me

How to write Sexual Bucketlists:

http://killyourinnerloser.com/sexual-bucketlist

Building things with girls:

https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-5/#12-build-something-together

BDSM guides:

https://killyourinnerloser.com/category/sex-dating/bdsm/

Immy's Thoughts on Being Alpha:

https://killyourinnerloser.com/on-being-alpha/

🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective

🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching

$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call

▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com

▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter

Day 2 of 365: The second time I've talked about my favourite concept - accepting you're going to be terrible when you first start a new goal, and throwing yourself in the deep end anyway.

00:28 What I've been up to

02:00 What I want this show to become

04:04 If you'd like to be on the show yourself...

04:57 30 days of podcasting

05:48 Nerves, and giving yourself permission to suck

09:00 If you have questions you'd like answered

10:18 The next podcast

11:00 The Takeaway

Shownotes:

Libertarian podcast I was on:
https://www.mcfloogle.com/212

My coverage of Melbourne's police state:
https://kyil-extra.com/melbourne-police-state/

Give Yourself Permission to Suck:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/give-yourself-permission-to-suck/

The Slight Edge:
https://kyil-extra.com/slight-edge/

Contact me if you have questions or would like to be on the show:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/contact/

🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective

🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching

$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call

▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com

▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter

Day 1 of 365: Andy kicks off the How to Kill Your Inner Loser Podcast with special guest - his girlfriend Imogen. With no real plan in mind, will our two eccentric hosts pull it off?

🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective

🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching

$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call

▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com

▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter