ARCHITECTING Podcast - Career + Lifestyle Mentoring for Architects looking to move beyond overwhelm and make a difference through design

ARCHITECTING Podcast - Career + Lifestyle Mentoring for Architects looking to move beyond overwhelm and make a difference through design

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ARCHITECTING Podcast - Career + Lifestyle Mentoring for Architects looking to move beyond overwhelm and make a difference through design episodes

  • Dare to be Happy: Interview with Aurora Meneghello

    Have you built your identity around external factors? Coach Aurora Meneghello shares how to get in touch with your deepest self so you can always take aligned action.

    1. It's OK for your identity to evolve. The core of who you are stays the same, but doesn't need to be attached to outside indicators of identity.
  • When you are addicted to controlling, you lose resilience because you cannot control life
  • You become separated from your deeper self when you attach feeling good to success, security to money, and identity with your job.
  • When you are anchored with your deepest self, you can go anywhere and do anything without losing yourself.
  • Fear is a cue, not an end state- it is your indicator to look within and recalibrate so you can live from feeling good, not judgement.

    • Learn about Aurora:

    https://repurposeyourpurpose.com/aurora-meneghello/

    IG: https://www.instagram.com/repurposeyourpurpose/

    Sign up for my Free Stress-less Success Workshop 12:-12:45 pm EST January 18-20

    Stay Inspired,

    Angela

     

    Join the architecting community:

    Facebook Group

    Instagram

    LinkedIn

    Clubhouse

    2:00 PM EST 3rd Sundays- Critical Conversations- A raw look at the state of our profession

    Twitter

    9:00 AM EST Mondays- Architects as Healers: Buildings as Medicine

    Learn more and connect architectingpodcast.com

     

    Interested in sponsoring a show or having me as a guest on your podcast or community? Stop here to get information.

    Into/outro music Alive by Richard Wasson Copyright 2019

    35 min
  • Do It Anyway: Facing Your Fears

    Fear has many disguises; procrastination, perfectionism, control, busyness. In all cases, we are telling our dreams to sit in the back seat and shut up. As we celebrate the legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. let's remember that dreams are what changes the world.

    1. Take some time to get reacquainted with your dreams. How are they signals of your passion and purpose? Understand that they are not fantasies, but clues leading you forward.
  • Think about why you have suppressed taking action on your dreams. What fears are behind the abandonment? What's motivating you to make other things a priority instead?
  • Decide to take action no matter what, even when your dreams seem like they have no connection to your higher purpose.
  • There's lots of things we put in the too hard basket, but dreams should never be one of them.

    • Sign up for my Free Stress-less Success Workshop 12:-12:45 pm EST January 18-20

    Stay Inspired,

    Angela

     

    Join the architecting community:

    Facebook Group

    Instagram

    LinkedIn

    Clubhouse

    2:00 PM EST 3rd Sundays- Critical Conversations- A raw look at the state of our profession

    Twitter

    9:00 AM EST Mondays- Architects as Healers: Buildings as Medicine

    Learn more and connect architectingpodcast.com

     

    Interested in sponsoring a show or having me as a guest on your podcast or community? Stop here to get information.

    Into/outro music Alive by Richard Wasson Copyright 2019

    21 min
  • Transform Your Relationships with these Emotional Intelligence Skills

    There is an art to being self aware but not self absorbed. To being emapthetic to others without compromising your boundaries.

    1. See your own emotional patterns from a point of detachment, not trigger. Understand that you need to consciously work to unravel these stories and the bias filter they place on how you perceive the world.
  • Understand that others have their own filter and be curious about why instead of reacting to their behavior based on assumptions.
  • Ask questions instead of creating a story based on your ego narrative.
  • Focus on the why more than the what. Provide people with an emotional exit ramp so you can move past excuses and defensiveness and focus on solutions.
  • Pick your battles. Seek alignment through purpose not tasks.
  • Work on completing your thoughts through meditation and journaling so that you can more easily recognize your own story patterns.

    • Sign up for my Free Stress-less Success Workshop 12:-12:45 pm EST January 18-20

    Stay Inspired,

    Angela

     

    Join the architecting community:

    Facebook Group

    Instagram

    LinkedIn

    Clubhouse

    2:00 PM EST 3rd Sundays- Critical Conversations- A raw look at the state of our profession

    Twitter

    9:00 AM EST Mondays- Architects as Healers: Buildings as Medicine

    Learn more and connect architectingpodcast.com

     

    Interested in sponsoring a show or having me as a guest on your podcast or community? Stop here to get information.

    Into/outro music Alive by Richard Wasson Copyright 2019

    22 min
  • FirstThey Have to Like You: The Power of Body Language

    Likability is rooted in trust. Trust being that vibe you're laying down that others pick up on in mere nanoseconds. Learn how postures and facial expressions you  may be unaware of are affecting your likability,

    1. Show interest and attention by making eye contact, nodding, smiling and making positive gestures as someone talks. Make them your entire focus.
  • Before you start a meeting, take time to read the room so you can decide whether people need reassurance, encouragement, or a change to shine.
  • Make others feel seen and heard by asking for their thoughts or concerns. Avoid rushing through to stay on an agenda or get your own ideas out.
  • Be aware of your posture. Standing in a balanced, broad shouldered way with your hands at your sides shows confidence. Slouching, crossing your arms, fidgeting or hands in pockets are defensive stances that evoke distrust.
  • Mirror the speakers gestures to show affinity with their thoughts and thought patterns.

    • Sign up for my Free Stress-less Success Workshop 12:-12:45 pm EST January 18-20

    Stay Inspired,

    Angela

     

    Join the architecting community:

    Facebook Group

    Instagram

    LinkedIn

    Clubhouse

    2:00 PM EST 3rd Sundays- Critical Conversations- A raw look at the state of our profession

    Twitter

    9:00 AM EST Mondays- Architects as Healers: Buildings as Medicine

    Learn more and connect architectingpodcast.com

     

    Interested in sponsoring a show or having me as a guest on your podcast or community? Stop here to get information.

    Into/outro music Alive by Richard Wasson Copyright 2019

    22 min
  • Make 2022 The Year You Stop Proving Yourself

    Ta-da! You did the thing. But at what cost and for what reason? This is your year to stop jumping through hoops and move forward with momentum and aligned action.

    1. Stop emphasizing doing over being. Performance is not a measure of worth, accomplishing what only you can do is.
  • As "what is true for me?" When you follow your own path, you always have momentum even if you face setbacks. Failure is only catastrophic when you tie your  success to someone else's approval.
  • Stop using busyness as an excuse not to dare greatly.
  • Ask for what you really want instead of playing games to avoid judgement.
  • Doing what you don't want to do to get approval is a lot like prostitution,
  • Climbing onto a pedestal through proving yourself is only asking to be knocked down the minute you make a mistake (and you will). Take your ego out of the equation and you'll never have to apologize for what you work to achieve even if things go wrong.

    • Sign up for my Free Stress-less Success Workshop 12:-12:45 pm EST January 18-20

    Stay Inspired,

    Angela

     

    Join the architecting community:

    Facebook Group

    Instagram

    LinkedIn

    Clubhouse

    2:00 PM EST 3rd Sundays- Critical Conversations- A raw look at the state of our profession

    Twitter

    9:00 AM EST Mondays- Architects as Healers: Buildings as Medicine

    Learn more and connect architectingpodcast.com

     

    Interested in sponsoring a show or having me as a guest on your podcast or community? Stop here to get information.

    Into/outro music Alive by Richard Wasson Copyright 2019

    25 min
  • Get More Results With Less Effort

    Taking inventory of your year? It's not about what you did or didn't accomplish, but how you felt about it.

    1. Think about how you spend your energy. Are doing things out of obligation instead of because they give you joy? What can you eliminate?
  • Success is living in joy. When you live in joy, your energy regenerates and grows. When you don't, your energy is scattered, depleted and stagnant.
  • Competency is comforting. We make ourselves busy with tasks we are good at doing so we don't have time to take on things that are more risky, but will bring us more reward. This sense of unworthiness to live our dreams leads us to hide behind the busyness and procrastinate.
  • Surround yourself with five people who you interact with regularly who will keep you focused, help you find courage, and re-frame situations to keep you feeling positive and moving forward.
  • Keep your energy positive by celebrating the wins instead of moving on to some new form of validation.

    • Sign up for my Free Stress-less Success Workshop 12:-12:45 pm EST January 18-20

    Stay Inspired,

    Angela

     

    Join the architecting community:

    Facebook Group

    Instagram

    LinkedIn

    Clubhouse

    2:00 PM EST 3rd Sundays- Critical Conversations- A raw look at the state of our profession

    9:00 AM EST Mondays- Architects as Healers: Buildings as Medicine

    Learn more and connect architectingpodcast.com

     

    Interested in sponsoring a show or having me as a guest on your podcast or community? Stop here to get information.

    Into/outro music Alive by Richard Wasson Copyright 2019

    30 min
  • Control: The Anti-Fun

    Control is not a measure of confidence, it's a measure of fear.  Fear of not meeting expectations, or getting the desired outcome. Fear of failure.  In this episode, we'll explore how having more fun can unlock creative potential and leave us all with a whole lot less stress.

    1. Giving up control allows us to see other possibilities than what we thought we wanted. In the flow of the present moment, we can pivot to receive all that is available for the situation.
  • Trying to control outcomes and prove yourself is negative energy and others will respond negatively to you as a result.
  • Try looking for ways to have fun in any situation- especially ones that are fraught with conflict or tension. Notice how your focus on having a positive experience (not a positive outcome) shifts everything.

    • Time Builder is now available in paperback!  Get it here

    Get help if you need it- check out two of my entry level coaching sessions here that will help you get some perspective and clarity: http://architectingpodcast.com/index.php/coaching-programs-angela-mazzi/ DM me on Instagram with topics, questions or show ideas!

    Stay Inspired,

    Angela

     

    Join the architecting community:

    Facebook Group

    Instagram

    LinkedIn

    Clubhouse

    2:00 PM EST 3rd Sundays- Critical Conversations- A raw look at the state of our profession

    9:00 AM EST Mondays- Architects as Healers: Buildings as Medicine

    Learn more and connect architectingpodcast.com

     

    Interested in sponsoring a show or having me as a guest on your podcast or community? Stop here to get information.

    Into/outro music Alive by Richard Wasson Copyright 2019

    21 min
  • What I Should Have Said: Impacts of Anger, Guilt and Shame

    Anger, guilt and shame are the root cause of all communication problems. This episode explores ways to stop framing things through the lens of our own insecurities and emotional reactions. Stop being triggered and start being curious about exploring the possibilities.

    1. Your negative self image will lead you to fear negative outcomes. This looks like reading into what others say and do to reinforce your own inner narrative.
  • Don't let your ego lead the way. Show up focused on the purpose and ideas to avoid emotional triggers if you are met with skepticism or challenges.
  • Show up ready to explore what's possible. Remember that failure is how we learn and that every idea or solutions has pros and cons.
  • Ask questions instead of making assumptions. Bad intentions will come to light and well intended criticism will surface for discussion so that ideas can be elevated and explored, not shot down.

    • Register for my Masterclass on December 19 on becoming a Success Magnet

    Get help if you need it- check out two of my entry level coaching sessions here that will help you get some perspective and clarity: http://architectingpodcast.com/index.php/coaching-programs-angela-mazzi/ DM me on Instagram with topics, questions or show ideas!

    Stay Inspired,

    Angela

     

    Join the architecting community:

    Facebook Group

    Instagram

    LinkedIn

    Clubhouse

    2:00 PM EST 3rd Sundays- Critical Conversations- A raw look at the state of our profession

    9:00 AM EST Mondays- Architects as Healers: Buildings as Medicine

    Learn more and connect architectingpodcast.com

     

    Interested in sponsoring a show or having me as a guest on your podcast or community? Stop here to get information.

    Into/outro music Alive by Richard Wasson Copyright 2019

    28 min
  • The Question that Builds Trust

    What do you know?  When was the last time you asked that question? A question this powerful should be asked on the regular. It gives agency by showing that you value someone's knowledge and want to hear from them.  Not their opinion, but what they know.

    1. The number one reason people change jobs or quit being engaged is because they feel they are missing a supportive and open communication channel. You know the channel is working when you can comfortably discuss hard topics that require vulnerability.
  • We all want an advocate- show others that their contributions are visible and skills are important by acknowledging them.
  • Once you have good communication, you can establish psychological safety and offer growth opportunities.
  • Asking someone what they know works like magic to strengthen trust, empathy and social connection.

    • Register for my Masterclass on December 19 on becoming a Success Magnet

    Stop by Clubhouse on December 12 for Celebrating Success in the Critical Conversations Room in the Architecting club.

    Get help if you need it- check out two of my entry level coaching sessions here that will help you get some perspective and clarity: http://architectingpodcast.com/index.php/coaching-programs-angela-mazzi/ DM me on Instagram with topics, questions or show ideas!

    Stay Inspired,

    Angela

     

    Join the architecting community:

    Facebook Group

    Instagram

    LinkedIn

    Clubhouse

    2:00 PM EST 3rd Sundays- Critical Conversations- A raw look at the state of our profession

    9:00 AM EST Mondays- Architects as Healers: Buildings as Medicine

    Learn more and connect architectingpodcast.com

     

    Interested in sponsoring a show or having me as a guest on your podcast or community? Stop here to get information.

    Into/outro music Alive by Richard Wasson Copyright 2019

    15 min
  • Rising Above Criticism and Setbacks

    Is this you: externally motivated, in fear of judgement, playing by someone else's rules because you think that's the only way to get ahead?

    1. Get out of the disempowerment of victim mentality that keeps you in survival mode and in a state of manipulating and being manipulated by others.
  • You can't be creative if you don't embrace failure and make bold gestures in life.
  • Remember the brightest lights cast the darkest shadow and that instead of avoiding criticism to expect it. You're not for everyone, but it's better to be authentically you than someone who never stands out because she never stands for anything.
  • Adopting a witness mindset allows you to be a curious learner who lives fully in the present moment and learns from every experience - positive or negative.

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    Get help if you need it- check out two of my entry level coaching sessions here that will help you get some perspective and clarity: http://architectingpodcast.com/index.php/coaching-programs-angela-mazzi/ DM me on Instagram with topics, questions or show ideas!

    Stay Inspired,

    Angela

     

    Join the architecting community:

    Facebook Group

    Instagram

    LinkedIn

    Clubhouse

    2:00 PM EST 3rd Sundays- Critical Conversations- A raw look at the state of our profession

    9:00 AM EST Mondays- Architects as Healers: Buildings as Medicine

    Learn more and connect architectingpodcast.com

     

    Interested in sponsoring a show or having me as a guest on your podcast or community? Stop here to get information.

    Into/outro music Alive by Richard Wasson Copyright 2019

    19 min

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