Emeka (SX/SP 8w7 854) and Kristen (SO/SP 9w1 963) pick apart various  attachment and social enmeshments and the expectations that come with them.

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Show Notes 

0:07 Let’s Talk About Attachment

1:46 Kristen’s Impressions Of The Social Hexad and SP/SX Attachment Pods

2:57 Social Creates Virtual Characters Of People

7:09 Humanity Is Built On Attachment Enmeshment

10:17 Attachmentation #1 - ‘Making It’

16:33 The Attachment Of Family Traditions And Expectations

22:56 Attachmentation #2 - Going Along To Get Along

29:45 Everyone Is Performing Personhood

35:05 Attachmentation #3 - Tall Poppy Syndrome  

42:16 The Nature Of Fandom And Social Projections

46:21 Attachmentation #4 - Keeping Up With The Jones

50:18 Collective Labels Are Attached To Everything

1:03:08 Parent-Child Projections Are The Ultimate Attachmentation

1:04:57 The Spectrum Of Social Blindness

1:09:55 We Get Archetypes From Social And Attachment

1:12:43 The Obsession With Curating A Virtual Self

1:22:57 Attachment Anticipating Ostracization