Authentically You With The Himmers

Authentically You With The Himmers

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Authentically You With The Himmers episodes

  • 37 PARENTING VS LEADERSHIP
    What’s the difference between being a parent and the leader of a company? To any parent who is actively involved in their children’s lives, the answer is nothing. In this episode, we contrast the parallel worlds of parenting and leadership and explain how principle-based behavior, whether as a leader or a parent, is the same.
    29 min
  • 35 FOUR FATAL BEHAVIOR ADDICTIONS IN MARRIAGE
    The first one is when 1) You have to be right. Contention. Next is when you seek for 2) Affirmation, attention, and approval before mutual trust & respect is achieved. Third is holding a grudge and not learning how to forgive and forget, and finally 4) is The Drama Triangle. Today we cover #1, the drive to always be right. It’s at the core of contention in a relationship.
    28 min
  • 34 CONTENTION COMES FROM OUR FAMILY OF ORIGIN
    We are all the sum total of our experiences from conception on. It’s not our fault that our parents divorced or our parents bickered and fought all of the time. However, it is our responsibility to address our behavior based on those experiences. In order to change one’s behavior, one must change their experiences. One experiences lead to one’s belief’s about themself. Is you believe that conflict is dangerous and bad, you’ll run from it based on past experiences.
    28 min
  • 33 CONFLICT VS CONTENTION
    In this segment Cheri and I get into a fight to illustrate the ease of losing neutral space. We define conflict as having the same goal but with a different path. Contention is the opposite of conflict. Conflict is “WHAT” is right and contention is “WHO” is right. This is a good start for anyone who is conflict avoidant or knows someone who is. We introduce the case study of Lando and Xenus.
    29 min
  • 32 JEDI MIND MAGIC
    Today we dissect Fred and Nancy’s situation and model the magic of taking control over the space of the bully and creating boundaries that can be protected with civility. The five steps of the system are 1) Neutral, 2) Interrupt, 3) Mirror, 4) Intonation, and 5) silent. This powerful tool was developed in part by the FBI’s brightest negotiators in dealing with terrorists over the past 20 years.
    29 min
  • 31 THE INCIVILITY CONTINUUM
    What leads to workplace bullying? Incivility. Poor manners, low emotional intelligence, leaders in the C-Suite with low emotional intelligence and a focus on getting the job done at the expense of the human factor. Going Postal is the result of corporate bullying, it’s the REST OF THE STORY. We introduce the case study of Fred (bully) and Nancy (target) and also introduce a bully repellent communication system (Jedi Mind Magic).
    29 min
  • 30 DEFINITION OF WORKPLACE BULLYING
    In order to count as workplace bullying it must continue for at least 6 months. Bullying is considered the American Cancer. There are four potential causes for bullying: 1) deficiencies in workplace design, 2) Deficiencies in leadership behavior (EI), 3) Socially exposed position of the victim, and 4) Low moral standard of the culture. You will be introduced to the Incivility Continuum.
    30 min
  • 29 HISTORY OF WORKPLACE BULLYING
    In this segment we talk about Workplace Bullying and how the US compares to other countries. The US is behind the scope in understanding and accepting that workplace bullying is alive and well in our corporations. Dr. Himmer shares some of his corporate world experiences and how they led him to research and write a dissertation on workplace bullying and emotional intelligence.
    29 min
  • 28 HOW DO I NOT KILL MY KIDS Part 2
    Authentically You is a new podcast featuring Dr. Richard & Cheri Himmer. They provide a refreshing look at life from the inside-out. Humans are hard-wired to connect with the desire to experience happiness, joy, and well-being. The Himmer’s stories and guests will address healing from the inside-out, which includes and understanding of how the four brains (left, ride, upstairs, and downstairs) work together and how they can integrate.
    30 min
  • 27 HOW DO I NOT KILL MY KIDS Part 1
    Authentically You is a new podcast featuring Dr. Richard & Cheri Himmer. They provide a refreshing look at life from the inside-out. Humans are hard-wired to connect with the desire to experience happiness, joy, and well-being. The Himmer’s stories and guests will address healing from the inside-out, which includes and understanding of how the four brains (left, ride, upstairs, and downstairs) work together and how they can integrate.
    29 min

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We are each hard wired to connect. When we don’t connect it hurts and when it hurts, too often we medicate in a fashion that brings about more pain. Authentically You is a breath of fresh air and in…