Awakened Love

In the first-ever live, in-person episode of Awakened Love, Angel Drake sits down with her dear friend Yossef Sagi — mystic, teacher, coach and founder of The Mystery Temple — for a conversation that starts with floggers at airport security and goes all the way down.

Together they explore the nervous-system chemistry of BDSM and why safety without intensity is dull, but intensity without safety is torture. They unpack the romantasy phenomenon and what the villain who claims her — versus the prince who owns her — reveals about female desire. And they go deep into the healing of men: the rise of the tantric f*ckboy, why women's discernment is part of the work, and the constant, living balance between sovereignty and surrender in long-term love.

Yossef returns soon to share his 25 years inside a spiritual organisation — and his adventures in the world of conscious play parties. Subscribe so you don't miss it.

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Most people think boundaries are about control but real boundaries create freedom.

In this episode of Awakened Love, we explore what boundaries truly are (and what they’re not). You’ll learn the difference between boundaries, limits, needs, and preferences, and how to protect your truth without shutting down connection.

I’ll also walk you through the Four Rs of Repair: a simple framework for what to do when a boundary has been crossed, so you can rebuild trust without blame, control, or withdrawal.

Whether you’re navigating conflict with a partner, friend, or family member, this conversation will help you find the space between rigidity and surrender, where intimacy can actually grow.

00:00 — Boundaries Aren’t Rules, They’re Clarity

00:11 — Boundaries Aren’t Rules, They’re Clarity
Why boundaries are about knowing yourself — not controlling others.

01:32 — Boundary vs. Limit: What Most People Get Wrong
How to recognise the difference and why rigidity often masks fear.

04:28 — Compromise Without Self-Abandonment
Learning the art of flex space — protecting your truth and connection.

07:12 — Needs vs. Preferences: The Real Source of Relationship Tension
How confusing the two leads to conflict — and what true needs actually are.

10:45 — Intimacy Begins Where Defensiveness Ends
Dropping deeper than “being right” to find the truth underneath.

13:14 — Boundaries, Limits, Needs, and Preferences: A Simple Framework
A clear map to navigate safety, self-expression, and relational harmony.

14:02 — The Four Rs of Repair: Rebuilding Trust After a Boundary Breach
Recognise, Reveal, Reinstate, Rebuild — how to heal after conflict.

17:48 — Repair Without Control or Withdrawal
How to invite collaboration instead of blame, silence, or ultimatums.

18:24 — Why Boundary Work Is the Gateway to True Intimacy
The heart of awakened love — where self-responsibility meets freedom.

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Boundary work is at the heart of my coaching. Whether it’s private couples work or my women’s coaching containers. It’s what allows intimacy to be both deep and free.

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Those small, unspoken hurts don’t just fade, they calcify into resentment and erode the intimacy we long for.
In this episode, Angel explores why forgiveness alone isn’t enough to restore love, the hidden desire that lives beneath resentment, and a practice to help you reconnect from the inside out.

You’ll learn:
• Why “micro-resentments” matter more than big betrayals
• The emotional bank account of love
• How to speak truth without blame
• Why desire is the missing key to repair
• A practical way to clear resentment and re-open the heart

✨ To explore this work in your own relationship, learn more about Angel’s private coaching at https://www.angeldrake.com/newclient 

00:17 — The Hidden Cost of Resentment
Why small, unspoken hurts harden the heart and quietly erode connection.

01:30 — Micro-Resentments and Emotional Withdrawals
How everyday disappointments build up into a narrative of disconnection.

03:40 — Love Isn’t Infinite in Practice
Why relationships require conscious tending, not just unconditional love.

04:30 — The Emotional Bank Account
Understanding how resentment overdraws your relational reserves.

05:30 — The Antidote: Truth Without Blame
How to speak honestly in the moment before resentment piles up.

07:40 — “How Expensive Is It to Tell You the Truth?”
The Om Rupani principle and why psychological safety matters for love.

09:20 — Speaking What’s Really Happening Inside
A real-life example (the dishwasher) and how to express the impact clearly.

12:10 — Receiving Feedback Without Defensiveness
How to digest your partner’s truth without collapsing into shame.

14:00 — Playing the Deeper Game
Turning everyday tension into deeper intimacy and shared understanding.

16:00 — Desire Beneath Resentment
Discovering that resentment often masks a longing to be closer.

17:50 — Forgiveness Isn’t Enough
Why mental forgiveness doesn’t work without the felt shift in the body.

19:00 — Repair Through Desire and Vulnerability
Connecting with what you truly wanted instead of staying in the story.

20:30 — Creating a Culture of Repair
Transforming small moments into a practice of reconnection and awakening.

22:00 — The Practice: Name It as You Feel It
A simple framework to share your inner experience and invite deeper dialogue.

23:30 — Closing Reflection
Love as a path of awakening — and the invitation to play the deeper game.

24:10 — Outro & Coaching Invitation
Angel shares how to explore this work through her private couples coaching.

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An unfiltered account of my natural homebirth and the initiation that taught me what it means to truly surrender. A story of trust, embodiment, and the mystical power of birth as a psychedelic, sacred rite.

💫 In this episode:
• Conscious preparation for a natural homebirth
• The moment of complete surrender
• Birth as a mystical, embodied rite

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⏰ Chapters

00:00 — A Birth Story I Didn’t Plan to Tell
An unexpected free hour turns into sharing the most intimate story of my life.

01:47 — The Night My Waters Broke (Hollywood-Style)
What really happened when labour began — dramatic, messy, and completely unfiltered.

04:05 — Preparing the Birth Cave
Creating sacred space: lavender oil, sheepskin rug, and the first gentle waves of labour.

08:25 — When Labour Became Psychedelic
Moving through visions, trauma release, and deep healing in the in-between.

13:58 — Fear, Shame, and the Medicine of Focus
Meeting old memories and learning radical self-love mid-contraction.

18:45 — Zen on the Toilet: Finding My Power
Why my birth became a meditation, not a performance — and how focus became my survival.

23:55 — The Pushing Portal
From exhaustion to divine humour: when my higher self reminded me the body knows.

29:40 — Take Me to Your River
The moment music, surrender, and love carried me into motherhood.

34:55 — Aloha, River
The first breath, the meaning of his name, and the sacred silence that welcomed him home.

39:15 — Reflections on Birth and Becoming
What I learned about surrender, motherhood, and the rite of initiation that birth truly is.

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In this Episode Angel is joined by Madelyn Moon as they dive into exploring the essence of the oracle archetype, deep listening and embodiment— advocating for the creation of inner space. Madelyn emphasizes expressing truth with heart to forge genuine connections, deepening authenticity through spiritual practice and somatics. This involves understanding acting as a transformative spiritual tool, empowering emotional sovereignty. Creativity in love is explored, merging myth, ritual, and acting for profound relational depth. 

- The Oracle Archetype and Deep Listening 

- The Transformative Power of Sacred Theater 

- Merging Myth, Ritual and Acting to Deepen in Relationship

00:00 Introduction and Who is Madeleine?

00:47 Exploring the Oracle Archetype

03:11 Being an Oracle as an Artist

04:02 The Challenges of Deep Listening

05:37 The Scary Silence and Mystery

08:19 Practices for Being in the Silence

10:30 Flipping the Script: Inner Space and Outer Space

11:53 Expression with Heart vs. Expression without Heart

14:47 Creating a Bridge for Connection

19:32 The Power of Somatics in Expression

20:15 Discovering the Power of Acting and Emotions

25:31 Creativity in Love: Merging Myth, Ritual, and Acting

31:19 Sacred Theater: Freeing Stuck Energy and Entering Trance States

Find Angel: 

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Find Madelyn: 

Madelyn Moon Show: https://podcasts.apple.com/nl/podcast/the-madelyn-moon-show-previously-mind-body-musings/id866031519?l=en-GB

Artistic Intimacy Free Masterclass: https://maddymoon.com/artistic-intimacy-free-masterclass

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In their illuminating conversation, Angel and Chelsey delve into the journey toward experiencing profound love and spiritual unity in partnership. They discuss the concept of connecting intimately with the divine as akin to making love to God, emphasizing its potential to deepen the bond between partners. Chelsey courageously shares her personal journey of healing father wounds and highlights the importance of addressing both maternal and paternal wounds for inner healing. The dialogue also touches upon the necessity of balancing divine masculine and feminine energies within ourselves and our relationships. They explore the freedom and conscious choice inherent in love in today's world, reflecting on the responsibilities and transformative potential of relationships.

- Making Love to God, a Practice of Spiritual Reconnection 

- Healing your Mother and Father Wound

- Excavating Helplessness and Independence in Relationships 

00:00 Introduction and Prayer

02:53 Understanding True Love

05:51 Journey to Experiencing Spiritual Union in Partnership

08:58 Making Love to God

11:58 Healing Father Wounds

22:56 Balancing the Divine Masculine and Feminine

26:03 Healing Childhood Wounds

27:19 Divine Union and the Blueprint for Love

29:09 Reawakening Divine Union on the Planet

30:32 Experiencing Divine Union through Relationship and Communion with the Divine

31:34 The Freedom and Choice of Love in the Modern World

32:48 The Responsibility and Purpose of Relationships

34:23 Excavating Helplessness and Independence in Relationships

36:24 The Deeper Dynamics and Healing in Relationships

37:50 The Universal Nature of Relationship Challenges

39:11 Contraction and Expansion in Relationships

41:17 Making it Easy for Your Partner to Meet Your Needs

43:01 The Vulnerability and Humility of Pregnancy

45:32 Every Contraction Leads to an Expansion

48:49 Where to Find Chelsey and Her Work

50:15 A Transmission for Those Yearning for Love

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In their conversation, Angel and Yossef delve into the intersection of BDSM and Tantra, exploring Yossef's journey in these realms as a means of overcoming shame and repression. They emphasize the importance of boundaries and consent in BDSM scenes and challenge misconceptions about these practices. They discuss how embracing darkness and integrating all aspects of oneself can lead to healing. The role of power dynamics and archetypes in BDSM is highlighted, along with the potential for personal growth. They also touch on setting clear intentions in submission, the active nature of surrender, the psychology behind domination and submission, sensation kink, and how engaging in kink can increase resilience.

• Conscious Negotiation: Taking control of your Submission 
• The Dominant as the Spaceholder, Not the one ‘In Control’
• The Dominant Submissive Archetypes should replace Feminine Masculine Archetypes 
• Healing from Abuse through Conscious BDSM Scenes
• The Intersection between Neo-Tantra and BDSM 

The Flow of Conversation:

00:00 Introduction and Setting the Stage

01:40 Journey into BDSM and Tantra

03:09 Dealing with Shame and Guilt

04:48 What Tantra is Not

06:42 The Welcoming of Shadows in BDSM

08:26 The Healing Power of BDSM Scenes

10:16 Exploring Dark Fantasies

12:22 Embracing All Perspectives

13:47 The Healing Power of Embracing Darkness

17:06 Misconceptions about BDSM

18:29 Setting Up a Scene and Avoiding Abuse

20:27 The Power Dynamics in BDSM

23:57 Embracing the Dark and Exhaustion of Perfection

25:14 The Impact of Patriarchy on BDSM

28:07 The Archetypes of Dominance and Submission

30:59 Craving What We Don't Have

32:48 Supporting Women in Dominant Roles

35:25 Setting Clear Desires and Intentions

36:23 Psychological Kink

38:40 Sensation Kink

40:57 Expanding the Window of Tolerance

41:56 Engaging with Yossef's Work

Connect with Angel: 

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In this conversation, Amanda Bucci discusses the journey of building an authentic online presence and overcoming the fear and self-doubt that can arise. She shares her personal experiences with cancellation and the importance of developing a strong sense of self and grounding oneself in the face of negativity. Amanda also explores the process of uncoupling from validation and attachment to numbers, emphasizing the need to focus on one's own authenticity and growth. Overall, the conversation highlights the challenges and rewards of navigating the online space with courage and resilience. The conversation explores the importance of creating valuable content, being authentic and creative on social media, avoiding formulaic approaches, sharing personal journeys, embracing the aliveness of social media, and stepping into authenticity and courage.

00:00 Introduction and Who is Amanda?

03:00 Authentic Online Presence

06:00 Navigating Personal and Brand Journeys

09:00 Building Courage to Be Authentic Online

15:00 Dealing with Cancellation and Negativity

23:00 Finding Blessings in Difficult Experiences

26:00 Uncoupling from Validation and Attachment to Numbers

30:00 Grounding and Setting Energetic Boundaries

34:00 Transcending Attachment to Numbers

36:13 Creating Valuable Content

36:57 Authenticity and Creativity on Social Media

37:55 Losing Yourself in Formulaic Approaches

38:48 Sharing Your Journey

39:25 The Aliveness of Social Media

40:06 Stepping into Authenticity and Courage

40:50 Connect with Amanda Bucci

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In this conversation, Alexandra and Angel discuss the path of the heart and the distinction between spiritual growth and the healing path. They explore the importance of trust and vulnerability in relationships and the process of letting love in. Alexandra shares her personal journey of healing and opening her heart, emphasizing the need to grieve the paths not taken and to be willing to do the hard work of intimacy. They explore the fear and resistance that can arise when softening the heart and allowing oneself to be loved. They also discuss the construction of a life without vulnerability and the impact it has on relationships. The conversation delves into the transformational path of the heart and the power of storytelling to share deep truths. Alexandra shares her journey as a writer and artist, and the intention behind her book, 'Dare to Feel.'

They also deeply tune into: 

• The Path of the Heart: Letting in Love, Creating Secure Attachment and Trusting Love. 
• Grieving the Relationship you Envisioned to Cultivate Authentic Love
• Letting Ourselves Be Vulnerable and Open to Love as Ambitious Women

00:00 Opening: A Warm Welcome and Catching Up

00:19 A Unique Quarantine Experience: Filming and Fun

02:53 Life Changes: From Love Island to Parenthood

03:19 Exploring Feminine Healing and Empowerment

04:12 Diving Deeper: The Heart, Emotions, and Intimacy

08:09 The Spiritual Journey: Healing vs. Spiritual Practice

17:07 The Path of Love: Nurturing and Relational Growth

23:40 Trust and Intimacy: Navigating Relationships

31:38 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Love

32:48 Ego Death and the Path to True Intimacy

34:12 Embracing the Imperfections of Love

36:14 The Fear of Intimacy and Learning to Let Love In

38:30 The Power of Vulnerability in Relationships

44:08 Exploring the Heart Through Storytelling

49:22 Advice for Opening Your Heart to Love

53:00 Finding and Enjoying the Journey of Love

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In this episode, Angel shares her personal journey of intense healing and self-discovery over the past three years. She discusses her experiences with Ayahuasca ceremonies, Kundalini activation, and trauma therapy. Angel also reveals her decision to become a mother and the spiritual connection she formed with her unborn child. The episode highlights the importance of purging ancestral violence, reclaiming your lineage and spiritually preparing for motherhood.

She also deep dives into:

• Her different medicine ceremonies and their effects
• Purging Ancestral Violence from my system
• Letting Go of Judgement towards Family
• Consciously Reclaiming my Maternal Ancestors and Lineage
• Moving through a Kundalini Awakening
• Communicating with the Spirit of our Unborn Child

00:00 Catching Up

01:27 Intense Healing Period

03:21 Seeking Help and Receiving Support

08:11 Kundalini Activation and Healing Violence

11:58 Healing Matrilineal Line

19:02 Kundalini Activation Training

23:09 Unresolved Trauma in Familial Relationship

26:15 Communicating with the Spirit of Unborn Child

27:57 Decision to Not Go to the Amazon

30:18 Conception and Pregnancy

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