Awakened Love

In this enlightening 'Deepen + Reflect' Episode of Awakened Love, Angel engages in a deep and transformative conversation with meditation expert and founder of Ziva Meditation, Emily Fletcher. Together, they explore the profound connection between meditation, sacred sexuality, and the pursuit of true bliss.

They deep dive into: 

1. Rediscovering the Joy of Being Human:

   - Emily shares the concept of the Goddess taking human form to rediscover the joy of earthly experiences.

   - We can create a subtle shift in consciousness to remember our true divine nature.

2. Meditation as Deep Rest:

   - Emily emphasizes the power of meditation in providing the body with rest five times deeper than sleep.

   - This deep rest enables the body to heal not only from daily stress but also from accumulated layers of conditioning, allowing us to reconnect with our true selves.

3. The Synergy Between Orgasm and Meditation:

   - Drawing parallels between post-orgasmic states and meditation, highlighting the shared chemistry of bliss.

   - Explore the transcendent moments post-orgasm, where individuals experience a visceral connection to all that is, akin to meditative states.

4. Process-Oriented Lovemaking:

   - Angel and Emily delve into the concept of process-oriented lovemaking, distinguishing between yin (lunar, sustaining energy) and yang (solar, goal-oriented energy) arousal.

   - They discuss the potential for transforming concentrated sexual energy into sustained meditative energy.

5. Changing the Game of Sexuality:

   - Emily draws a parallel between process-oriented lovemaking and changing societal games, suggesting a shift from competition-based dynamics to keeping as many participants in the game for as long as possible.

   - The goal becomes the pleasure itself, fostering a deeper connection and enjoyment.

6. Meditation and the Misconception of Clearing the Mind:

   - Emily addresses the misconception of meditation as clearing the mind and likens it to attempting to command an orgasm, emphasizing the importance of embracing the process over the goal.

7. Societal Pressure on Women:

   - Emily and Angel discuss the societal pressures on women regarding sexuality and the importance of embracing a process-oriented approach, allowing for a more authentic and pleasurable experience.

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@emilystellafletcher

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This is a 'Deepen + Reflect' Episode, where we revisit Existing Awakened Love Episodes and Dive Deeper into the most Transcendental Parts of these Beautiful Conversations. 

We join host Angel as she delves into a deeply transformational conversation with Emily Fletcher in which they explore quantum sexuality, transcend conventional norms and embrace the fluidity of energy dynamics. Deep dive into the liberating concept of 'energy cocks' and 'energy pussies', challenging societal biases, and fostering acceptance. This episode celebrates the transformative power of embracing one's entirety, unraveling resistance, and redefining pleasure.

They Chat More About:

• Playful exploration of potential erogenous zones beyond conventional boundaries.
• Liberation of masculine and feminine energies from gender norms.
• Challenging misogyny and homophobia through energetic self-discovery.
• Reflection on internalized biases and negotiating societal expectations.
• Insights from recent retreat experiences with Joe Dispenza.
• Recognition and celebration of gender non-conforming individuals as historical mystics and healers.
• Quantum sexuality as a space transcending time and space, exploring the fluidity of energy dynamics in relationships.
• Encouragement of self-acceptance and a more enlightened understanding of pleasure, identity, and connection.

00:00 Exploring Erogenous Zones Beyond the Norm

00:19 Transcending Gender Normatives and Homophobia

00:42 Challenging Misogyny and Homophobia in Society

00:56 The Power of Energy in Gender Identity

01:23 Language and its Impact on Gender Perception

01:47 Exploring the Fear of Penetration

02:03 Healing Misogyny and Homophobia through Energy Balance

02:33 The Yin and Yang of Energy and Identity

03:16 Embracing the Full Spectrum of Self

03:30 Understanding Resistance to Transgender Acceptance

05:17 The Power of Acceptance and Self-Love

05:49 The Fear of Our Own Power

06:57 The Role of Energy in Sexuality

07:22 Quantum Sexuality: Transcending Time and Space

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https://zivameditation.com/press/

@emilystellafletcher

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@awakenedlove

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In this enlightening episode of Awakened Love, Angel engages in a soulful conversation with Sophie, a Holistic Somatic Coach based in Adelaide, South Australia. Sophie is driven by a profound passion to guide women with analytical and self-critical tendencies towards fostering a compassionate relationship with themselves, enabling them to embrace happiness and health from within.

They dive deep into all things: 

• Sophie’s Experience in the Somatic Psycho-Spiritual Apprenticeship 
• Mastering the Power of Self
• Unmanaged Empathy vs Attuned Empathy 
• Co-Regulating in a Coaching Container 
• Relational and Intuitive Coaching: The Codes to Client Flow and Attunement

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In this captivating conversation, host Angel Drake invites Megan Butterworth, a client participant in the Somatic Psycho Spiritual Apprenticeship, to share her transformative journey and experiences. Megan traces her spiritual awakening path, her passionate devotion to healing, and describes her move towards becoming a facilitator. She discusses the importance of aligning with your true authentic self, the hurdles she overcame in her journey, and the profound impact of intuitive, feeling-based relational style of coaching. Megan also emphasizes the wisdom of the body and the subconscious in healing, the effectiveness of embodiment, and the empowering process of uncovering her desires and passions. Additionally, they touch on the concept of 'repair' in coaching relationships, creating safe spaces for clients, and the establishment of Megan's emerging coaching business.

00:00 Introduction and Acknowledging Mistakes

00:32 Guest Introduction: Megan Butterworth

01:37 Megan's Journey to Facilitation

02:36 Overcoming Fear and Embracing Vulnerability

05:01 The Importance of Repair in Coaching

05:43 The Power of Intuitive, Relational Coaching

06:10 Avoiding the Pedestal Trap in Coaching

07:56 The Power of Embodiment in Healing

09:23 The Wisdom of the Body and Subconscious

11:38 The Impact of the Somatic Psycho Spiritual Approach

12:07 The Surprising Profundity of the Healing Journey

18:00 The Role of Personal Healing in Coaching

21:42 The Power of Alignment in Launching a Coaching Business

30:45 The Somatic Psycho Spiritual Apprenticeship Program

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In a deeply transformative conversation, Angel talks to Colette Pervette, a professional dominatrix, about the dynamics of power, surrender, and human desires. They delve into how the concepts of bondage, discipline, dominance, submission and sadomasochism function inside and outside the dungeon, reflecting metaphorically on life. Colette shares her journey of transitioning from an education PhD to Dominatrix, highlighting the role of kink in exploring different flavors of sexuality. Colette ends the conversation by talking about her online course, Mistress Class, designed to empower women and help them channel their inner dom.

0:00 Intro

01:55 Choosing a Dominatrix Name

03:55 The Power of Names

06:06 The Journey to Becoming a Dominatrix

09:32 Overcoming Fear and Embracing Kink

13:31 The Mystery of the Mask

16:19 Understanding Kink

22:42 The Power Dynamics in Humiliation

24:51 Exploring the Role of Ego in Kink and BDSM

26:20 The Spiritual Element of BDSM

26:29 The Experience of a Dom and the Practice of Letting Go

27:45 Applying BDSM Lessons to Everyday Life

33:03 The Role of Trust and Communication in BDSM

35:35 The Healing Potential of BDSM

36:57 The Line Between Eroticizing and Retraumatizing

38:55 The Birth of Mistress Class

48:47 Connecting with the Work and Final Thoughts

Colette is a professional Dominatrix of 18+ years. In her journey as a Domme, she spent the first decade of her career going deep into the art and practice of BDSM. Then she spent the last 8 years going inward and contemplating the theory behind the practice of BDSM and has since developed an alchemical philosophy and spiritual approach to the art of kink that she shares through her work.

She guides women and femmes to find and cultivate their personal power by learning how to play with it in the bedroom, dungeon and beyond. 

Colette teaches an online Dominatrix training course called MistressClass, where she takes you on an immersive journey where she shows you every step it takes to become a Dominatrix and come into your full power. She has guided and trained hundreds of women and femmes to become the Dominatrix of their vision. 

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In this episode of Awakened Love, Angel is joined by Lindsey Meehleis: Spiritual Midwife. For the past 20 years, Lindsey Meehlies has worked in healthcare, helping women discover their own strength through psychedelic, transcendent experiences while they birth their babies in power at home. As well as serving in the shadows of death as a Midwife who helps people cross the rainbow bridge. She serves families from womb to tomb, like many medicine women have done throughout time, with a deep remembering that many of these witches were burned at the stake for their threat to the standard industrialized complex. 

Is the Medical Industrialized Complex still burning Midwives as Witches? A question answered in depth in this profound conversation.

They also deep dive into : 

• The Sacredness of Homebirth 
• The persecution of midwives during witch trials: “Were midwives the Original Witches?”
• Recognizing Fear vs Intuition when giving Birth
• How Sexual Trauma can Resurface during Labor

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Today we are joined by Dagmar Khan to explore the origins of pelvic pain, and how to take your healing into your own hands.

Dagmar reveals that so much of pelvic conditions are related to trauma stored in the body, and the only way to truly heal them is to release the pain of the past. She shares the long-term impact of abuse on the body, the surprising truth behind endometriosis, and her personal story of healing from infertility.

This is an eye-opening episode for any women looking to heal their body and experience pain free sex.

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TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 Intro

1:30 Pelvic Pain Explained

6:16 Origins of Pain & Healing Trauma in the Pelvis

14:56 The Power of Pelvic Massage Techniques

20:25 The Truth About Endometriosis & How to Heal It

25:49 Dagmar's Infertility From Intense Trauma

28:53 Practices for Reclaiming Sovereignty Over Your Body

35:35 Tools to Develop the Courage to Heal

43:05 Take Healing Into Your Own Hands

46:55 How to Explore Further

49:20 Conclusion

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Dagmar Khan: world’s leading women’s health expert & Founder of the Flourish™ INSTITUTE

My name is Dagmar Khan, and I’m one of the world’s leading women healthcare specialists. I’m also founder of the Flourish™ Institute, a global Women’s Pelvic Health & Business Development Company dedicated to helping you become a sought-after women’s health specialist with a financially nourishing business, and a mission that transforms

female lives.

My proprietary Flourish™ method is sparking a revolution in female empowerment – through trauma-informed pelvic care that addresses the root of any health challenges, by considering the whole woman (body, mind, soul).

For the past 5 years, Flourish™ has attracted visionary women’s health practitioners who want to deeply transform women’s health and lives.

Free Training: How To Become Sought-After Women's Health Specialist & Confidently Work With Female Pelvic Pain Clients: https://www.flourishwoman.com/ondemand

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Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dagmar.kocandovakhan/

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On this special episode of Awakened Love, Angel is joined by her husband Patrick Drake, for a deep dive into their relationship.

Join Angel and Patrick in this insightful and heartfelt relationship Q&A as they candidly discuss various aspects of their romantic journey. From the early stages of their relationship to overcoming challenges and embracing personal growth, this episode offers a glimpse into their experiences and the lessons they've learned along the way.

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TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 Intro

1:47 Did We Stalk Each other's Social Media?

3:08 Friends Opinions During Early Stages of Dating

13:29 Our Hardest Fights and How We Repair

20:24 Why This Love is Different

24:43 Why it’s Hard for Men to Take Feedback

28:40 How Our Relationship Has Gotten Better Over Time

34:22 What We Do Really Well in Our Relationship

40:00 Gratitude for Our Love

43:41 Self Reflection: How We Hold Ourselves Back

53:25 Conclusion

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https://www.instagram.com/autonomefoods/

https://autonomefoods.com

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High Conflict Personality Expert Bill Eddy joins Awakened Love today for a deep dive into understanding people with high conflict personalities, and protecting yourself when dealing with them.

Angel and Bill explore the challenges of navigating toxic relationships, including the signs of personality disorders, the dynamics of high-conflict relationships, and the impact of gaslighting and other manipulative behaviors. Bill shares his insights on how to recognize and break free from toxic patterns, offering practical tips and strategies for healing and moving forward. Whether you're dealing with a difficult relationship yourself or seeking to support someone who is, this conversation offers valuable insights into the complexities of toxic relationships and the path to healing.

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TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 Intro

1:41 High Conflict Personalities

3:50 2 Questions to Ask yourself, to identify if you have a HCP

4:50 Overlaps with Personality Disorders

8:03 Uncovering Patterns in Behavior

9:43 Why People Rush into things

12:36 Seeing Your Partner’s True Colors

15:28 How to Discern Someone’s Intentions

19:27 Making an Exit Strategy

23:08 What Makes A Victim Susceptible

27:15 The Sales & Seduction Phase

28:30 How to Identify If Your Partner is High Conflict

37:17 When to Know If You Should Leave

39:26 Trauma Bonded Pairs & Naive Beliefs

48:07 Standing Up to a Bully Without Becoming a Target of Blame

53:33 Co-Parenting with a Partner Who Has NPD

57:03 Protecting Yourself Against False Allegations

1:02:34 Conclusion

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Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq.

Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq. is the co-founder and Chief Innovation Officer of the High

Conflict Institute in San Diego, California. He pioneered the High Conflict

Personality Theory (HCP) and has become an expert on managing disputes

involving people with high conflict personalities. He was the Senior Family

Mediator at the National Conflict Resolution Center for 15 years, a Certified Family

Law Specialist lawyer representing clients in family court for 15 years, and a

licensed clinical social worker therapist with over 12 years of experience.

Bill serves on the faculty of the Straus Institute for Dispute Resolution at the

Pepperdine University School of Law in California and is a Conjoint Associate

Professor with the University of Newcastle Law School in Australia. He has been a

speaker and trainer in over 35 U.S. states and 13 countries.

He is the author or co-author of over 20 books, manuals, and workbooks. He is

co-host of the podcast It's All Your Fault that he co-hosts with Megan Hunter,

MBA, and has a popular blog on the Psychology Today website with over 6 million

views.

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In this episode of Awakened Love, relationship coaches Gay and Kathlyn Hendricks share their insights on how to have a happily ever after relationship. Drawing from their decades of experience working with couples, they offer practical tips and tools for fostering love, connection, and intimacy. As pioneers in the 'conscious loving' conversation, they reveal the practices that have kept their relationship strong for decades.

Whether you're single or in a relationship, their guidance can help you create a more fulfilling and joyful love life. Tune in to this enlightening conversation and learn how to cultivate a relationship that stands the test of time.

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TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 Intro

1:24 The Challenges & Rewards of Working With Your Partner

6:17 33 Years of “Conscious Loving” Book: How the Collective Has Shifted Since

9:45 Telling the Truth in Relationship

17:30 From Codependence to Conscious Loving

24:46 Tools for Befriending Fear & Reclaiming Choice

28:20 Why We Bring Past Pain into Relationships

36:18 Learning to Listen Better

38:33 The Power of Taking Space

41:33 Being Triggered vs Mistreated

44:02 Igniting Intimacy in Partnership

52:30 Conclusion

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Gay Hendricks and Kathlyn Hendricks have been

pioneers in the fields of body intelligence and

relationship transformation for more than forty years.

They’ve mastered ways to translate powerful concepts

and life skills into experiential processes where people

can discover their own body intelligence and easily

integrate life-changing skills. Katie and Gay have

empowered hundreds of coaches around the world to

add a body intelligence perspective to enhance fields

from medicine to sports psychology, education and

personal growth. Together and singly they have authored

more than forty books, including such bestsellers as

Conscious Loving, The Big Leap, Conscious Loving Ever

After: How to Create Thriving Relationships at Midlife

and Beyond and The Genius Zone. They have appeared

on more than 500 television and radio programs,

including Oprah, 48 Hours and others. More

information on Drs. Hendricks can be found at

www.hendricks.com and

foundationforconsciousliving.org.

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