In their conversation, Angel and Yossef delve into the intersection of BDSM and Tantra, exploring Yossef's journey in these realms as a means of overcoming shame and repression. They emphasize the importance of boundaries and consent in BDSM scenes and challenge misconceptions about these practices. They discuss how embracing darkness and integrating all aspects of oneself can lead to healing. The role of power dynamics and archetypes in BDSM is highlighted, along with the potential for personal growth. They also touch on setting clear intentions in submission, the active nature of surrender, the psychology behind domination and submission, sensation kink, and how engaging in kink can increase resilience.

• Conscious Negotiation: Taking control of your Submission 
• The Dominant as the Spaceholder, Not the one ‘In Control’
• The Dominant Submissive Archetypes should replace Feminine Masculine Archetypes 
• Healing from Abuse through Conscious BDSM Scenes
• The Intersection between Neo-Tantra and BDSM 

 

The Flow of Conversation:

00:00 Introduction and Setting the Stage

01:40 Journey into BDSM and Tantra

03:09 Dealing with Shame and Guilt

04:48 What Tantra is Not

06:42 The Welcoming of Shadows in BDSM

08:26 The Healing Power of BDSM Scenes

10:16 Exploring Dark Fantasies

12:22 Embracing All Perspectives

13:47 The Healing Power of Embracing Darkness

17:06 Misconceptions about BDSM

18:29 Setting Up a Scene and Avoiding Abuse

20:27 The Power Dynamics in BDSM

23:57 Embracing the Dark and Exhaustion of Perfection

25:14 The Impact of Patriarchy on BDSM

28:07 The Archetypes of Dominance and Submission

30:59 Craving What We Don't Have

32:48 Supporting Women in Dominant Roles

35:25 Setting Clear Desires and Intentions

36:23 Psychological Kink

38:40 Sensation Kink

40:57 Expanding the Window of Tolerance

41:56 Engaging with Yossef's Work

 

 

Connect with Angel: 

www.instagram.com/angelikaalana

www.angeldrake.com 

 

Connect with Yossef: 

www.YossefSagi.com

www.instagram.com/yossefsagi

 

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