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You’ve done the work. You’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts, even named the patterns — gaslighting, trauma bonding, narcissism. You understand what happened. So why do you still feel stuck?
In this episode of AwakenHer, we explore the disconnect that so many trauma survivors experience between intellectual awareness and embodied healing. It's time to gently challenge the common belief that “understanding equals freedom” and explain why true transformation only begins when the body feels safe enough to release the trauma it's been holding.
This is a deeply validating and empowering episode for any woman who feels like she “should be over it by now” — but still finds herself looping, reacting, or struggling to move on. You’re not broken. Your nervous system just hasn’t caught up to the story your mind already knows.
What You’ll Learn:
💡 Why cognitive understanding isn’t enough to heal trauma
💡 How trauma is stored in the body — not just the mind
💡 What keeps your nervous system stuck in survival mode
💡 Somatic and spiritual practices to help your body feel safe
💡 How to begin reconnecting with the parts of you still holding on
Take This With You:
You don’t need more willpower or more information.
You need safety.
You need gentleness.
You need support.
And most of all, you need to remember that your healing doesn’t live in your head — it lives in your body.
Resources Mentioned:
🦋 The Savvy Girl’s Guide to Thriving Beyond Narcissistic Abuse – Corissa’s book with somatic tools and reflection prompts
🌿 Somatic Empowerment Sessions – 1:1 coaching and nervous system support
🎧 Share this episode on Instagram and tag @corissastepp to let Corissa know what resonated most.
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“You’re not stuck — your body is still catching up.”
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Corissa is a Holistic Trauma-Informed Coach & Narcissistic Abuse Specialist™ who empowers women after they’ve endured narcissist trauma to rediscover who they are, reclaim their power, and find the clarity and courage to move forward and live a life they love. Corissa is also a recovering people-pleaser and codependent who has endured way too many narcissistic relationships to count! She coaches not only from her knowledge and training but also from the wisdom she has gained from her own healing journey.
Book a FREE 30-min Clarity Call HERE.
Ways to connect with Corissa:
Podcast Website
Website: www.corissastepp.com
Book: The Savvy Girl's Guide to Thriving Beyond Narcissistic Abuse
Instagram: @corissastepp
Facebook: Corissa Stepp
Free Quiz: Is My Partner a Narcissist?
We'd love to hear what you think so message us on IG. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, review, or share it so we can reac...
In today’s episode of AwakenHer, I’m unpacking the widely shared “Let Them” theory—popularized by Mel Robbins—and exploring how this seemingly empowering phrase can sometimes be misunderstood or misused, especially when we’re still healing from relational trauma.
We’ll look at what it really means to let someone be who they are from a trauma-informed lens—and how to discern whether your boundaries are coming from your grounded Self or a wounded protector part. You’ll learn the difference between sacred boundaries and reactive walls, and how to honor your needs without hardening your heart.
If you’ve ever caught yourself saying “let them” with a little sting… this episode is your invitation to slow down, get curious, and reclaim your power with softness, clarity, and compassion.
💡 Key Takeaways:
Boundaries rooted in reactivity are often mistaken for empowerment, but they’re just emotional armor. You can honor your needs and still hold space for someone else’s humanity. Compassion and accountability can coexist. Letting someone be who they are doesn’t require your permission—it requires your acceptance, and your discernment. When we pause and check in, we give our protector parts a break—and allow our grounded Self to lead.
If this episode resonated and you’re ready to explore how to respond—not react—from a grounded place, I’d love to support you. I have openings for 1:1 Somatic Empowerment Session beginning in September, where we integrate nervous system healing, parts work, and trauma-informed coaching to help you reclaim your power with grace.
Head to the link below to book a free 30-minute call to secure your spot!
Send us a Text Message to let us know what you thought of this episode!
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Corissa is a Holistic Trauma-Informed Coach & Narcissistic Abuse Specialist™ who empowers women after they’ve endured narcissist trauma to rediscover who they are, reclaim their power, and find the clarity and courage to move forward and live a life they love. Corissa is also a recovering people-pleaser and codependent who has endured way too many narcissistic relationships to count! She coaches not only from her knowledge and training but also from the wisdom she has gained from her own healing journey.
Book a FREE 30-min Clarity Call HERE.
Ways to connect with Corissa:
Podcast Website
Website: www.corissastepp.com
Book: The Savvy Girl's Guide to Thriving Beyond Narcissistic Abuse
Instagram: @corissastepp
Facebook: Corissa Stepp
Free Quiz: Is My Partner a Narcissist?
We'd love to hear what you think so message us on IG. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, review, or share it so we can reac...
In this deeply moving episode of AwakenHer, host Corissa Stepp welcomes Rabbi Cantor Judy Greenfeld for an honest and soul-stirring conversation about transforming pain into strength and finding true purpose through life’s harshest challenges. Judy—an author, spiritual leader, and founder of the Nachshon Minyan in Texas—brings powerful insights on healing, trauma recovery, and the eternal question: “Why do bad things happen to good people?”
Together, Corissa and Judy explore how to meaningfully rebuild after loss, embrace your inner resilience, and shift from simply pursuing happiness to living a life of authenticity and purpose. Real stories of trauma, motherhood, faith, and personal transformation are shared, offering listeners practical wisdom for facing overwhelm, loneliness, or uncertainty in today’s world.
What You’ll Learn In This Episode:
If this episode inspired you, share it with a friend who might need these empowering messages—and don’t forget to subscribe to AwakenHer for more genuine stories and expert guidance on healing and transformation.
Listen to the full conversation now and take another step toward your most empowered self!
Ways to Connect with Judy:
Website: https://rabbicantorjudy.org/
Instagram:@rabbicantorjudyg
Email: [email protected]
Send us a Text Message to let us know what you thought of this episode!
💫 You’re invited to join us in the brand new Savvy & StrongHER Community—a powerful membership space for women healing after trauma or toxic relationships. Join for as low as $7/month in our entry tier. With three levels of support, there’s a path for you. Visit savvyandstrongher.com for more information and to join now!
💖 Strong enough to heal, savvy enough to thrive
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Corissa is a Holistic Trauma-Informed Coach & Narcissistic Abuse Specialist™ who empowers women after they’ve endured narcissist trauma to rediscover who they are, reclaim their power, and find the clarity and courage to move forward and live a life they love. Corissa is also a recovering people-pleaser and codependent who has endured way too many narcissistic relationships to count! She coaches not only from her knowledge and training but also from the wisdom she has gained from her own healing journey.
Book a FREE 30-min Clarity Call HERE.
Ways to connect with Corissa:
Podcast Website
Website: www.corissastepp.com
Book: The Savvy Girl's Guide to Thriving Beyond Narcissistic Abuse
Instagram: @corissastepp
Facebook: Corissa Stepp
Free Quiz: Is My Partner a Narcissist?
We'd love to hear what you think so message us on IG. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, review, or share it so we can reac...
If you’ve ever found yourself asking, “Why am I so angry all the time?” — this episode is for you. Host Corissa Stepp explores how anger shows up as a trauma response after narcissistic abuse, how it functions as a protector part through the lens of Internal Family Systems (IFS), and why you might be snapping at the people you love. Tune in to learn how to listen to your anger with compassion, regulate your nervous system, and begin the healing process with somatic and trauma-informed tools.
In this powerful and compassionate episode, Corissa dives deep into the question so many trauma survivors ask themselves:
"Why am I so angry?"
For women recovering from narcissistic abuse or years of emotional trauma, anger can feel explosive, confusing, and overwhelming. You may find yourself yelling at your kids, feeling constantly irritated, or emotionally shutting down — and then carrying shame for it all.
But what if your anger isn’t the problem? What if it’s a protector?
In this episode, Corissa offers a trauma-informed, nervous system-based understanding of anger, drawing from:
You’ll walk away with a deep sense of validation, a greater understanding of your internal world, and practical next steps to begin releasing stored survival energy — all from a place of compassion.
🔗 Resources & Links:
Send us a Text Message to let us know what you thought of this episode!
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Corissa is a Holistic Trauma-Informed Coach & Narcissistic Abuse Specialist™ who empowers women after they’ve endured narcissist trauma to rediscover who they are, reclaim their power, and find the clarity and courage to move forward and live a life they love. Corissa is also a recovering people-pleaser and codependent who has endured way too many narcissistic relationships to count! She coaches not only from her knowledge and training but also from the wisdom she has gained from her own healing journey.
Book a FREE 30-min Clarity Call HERE.
Ways to connect with Corissa:
Podcast Website
Website: www.corissastepp.com
Book: The Savvy Girl's Guide to Thriving Beyond Narcissistic Abuse
Instagram: @corissastepp
Facebook: Corissa Stepp
Free Quiz: Is My Partner a Narcissist?
We'd love to hear what you think so message us on IG. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, review, or share it so we can reac...
Welcome to another empowering episode of AwakenHer with Corissa Stepp! In this transformative episode, Corissa explores how women can break the cycle of blame, release the weight of past trauma, and step confidently into healing after experiencing narcissistic abuse.
Episode Highlights:
Why Listen?
If you’ve struggled with codependency, people-pleasing, or are navigating life after emotional abuse, this episode is for you. You’ll walk away with tangible strategies for healing and reclaiming your personal power, along with a renewed sense of hope and clarity. Corissa’s blend of expert advice, lived experience, and compassionate guidance creates a safe space for any woman ready to heal, grow, and move forward.
Loved this episode?
Share it with a friend or leave a review to support more women on their journey from pain to empowerment.
Tune in now and take your next step toward becoming your most empowered self!
Send us a Text Message to let us know what you thought of this episode!
💫 You’re invited to join us in the brand new Savvy & StrongHER Community—a powerful membership space for women healing after trauma or toxic relationships. Join for as low as $7/month in our entry tier. With three levels of support, there’s a path for you. Visit savvyandstrongher.com for more information and to join now!
💖 Strong enough to heal, savvy enough to thrive
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Corissa is a Holistic Trauma-Informed Coach & Narcissistic Abuse Specialist™ who empowers women after they’ve endured narcissist trauma to rediscover who they are, reclaim their power, and find the clarity and courage to move forward and live a life they love. Corissa is also a recovering people-pleaser and codependent who has endured way too many narcissistic relationships to count! She coaches not only from her knowledge and training but also from the wisdom she has gained from her own healing journey.
Book a FREE 30-min Clarity Call HERE.
Ways to connect with Corissa:
Podcast Website
Website: www.corissastepp.com
Book: The Savvy Girl's Guide to Thriving Beyond Narcissistic Abuse
Instagram: @corissastepp
Facebook: Corissa Stepp
Free Quiz: Is My Partner a Narcissist?
We'd love to hear what you think so message us on IG. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, review, or share it so we can reac...
This week on AwakenHer, host Corissa Stepp dives into the transformative topic of experiencing guilt-free joy—especially in the small, everyday moments. Sparked by a heartfelt listener message, Corissa explores why so many women struggle with feelings of guilt when prioritizing themselves and feeling joy, and how these patterns often begin in childhood through people-pleasing and codependency.
Key Topics:
- Guilt as a Survival Strategy:
Corissa explains how guilt is not a flaw but a protective part of us that developed in response to early environments where love, acceptance, or safety felt conditional.
- Childhood Roots:
Discover how growing up in dysfunctional or emotionally neglectful homes can lead to deep-rooted beliefs around "earning" love and always putting others first.
- Carrying Patterns Into Adulthood:
Explore how these patterns show up in relationships, especially with toxic or narcissistic partners, and how self-sacrifice can feel like love.
- Releasing Guilt & Honoring Needs:
Corissa provides actionable steps to get curious about your guilt, thank it for its role, and gently challenge the stories you’ve carried.
- Tools for Healing:
Learn about somatic tools (like breathwork, grounding, and even humming), reparenting your inner child, and celebrating joy in the little things.
- A New Narrative:
Joy is not selfish or something to be earned—it’s your birthright. The more you lean into guiltless joy, the more you rewrite your legacy (and model this for those around you).
Closing Wisdom:
“You were never too much. Your needs were never wrong. Your joy is not selfish, it’s sacred.”
Ways to Connect:
- DM Corissa your thoughts on Instagram: @CorissaStepp
- Check out her new book: The Savvy Girl's Guide to Thriving Beyond Narcissistic Abuse—available at Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Target, and on Kindle.
- Join the Savvy & Stronger Community for more support.
Giveaway!
For June: Post a photo (can be faceless or just your hand) of you with Corissa’s book, tag her on social media, and you could win a $25 Amazon gift card.
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Share this episode with a friend who needs permission to choose joy, let go of guilt, or start putting herself first—without apology.
Thank you for listening. Remember:
Healing is possible, and you are so worth it.
Send us a Text Message to let us know what you thought of this episode!
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Corissa is a Holistic Trauma-Informed Coach & Narcissistic Abuse Specialist™ who empowers women after they’ve endured narcissist trauma to rediscover who they are, reclaim their power, and find the clarity and courage to move forward and live a life they love. Corissa is also a recovering people-pleaser and codependent who has endured way too many narcissistic relationships to count! She coaches not only from her knowledge and training but also from the wisdom she has gained from her own healing journey.
Book a FREE 30-min Clarity Call HERE.
Ways to connect with Corissa:
Podcast Website
Website: www.corissastepp.com
Book: The Savvy Girl's Guide to Thriving Beyond Narcissistic Abuse
Instagram: @corissastepp
Facebook: Corissa Stepp
Free Quiz: Is My Partner a Narcissist?
We'd love to hear what you think so message us on IG. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, review, or share it so we can reac...
Are you feeling stuck in your healing journey, despite doing all “the work”? Do you sense patterns, limiting beliefs, or traumas surfacing—ones that don’t seem entirely your own? On this transformative episode of AwakenHer, host Corissa Stepp sits down with holistic mentor, bestselling author, and energy healer Edit B. Kiss. Together, they unravel the mysteries of ancestral trauma, spiritual awakening, and the science behind energy healing, offering actionable steps to break generational cycles and reclaim your personal power.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
Ways to Connect with Edit:
https://editbkiss.com
https://www.instagram.com/editbkiss/
https://www.youtube.com/@MagicalKarmaPriestess
Edit's Skool Community:
https://www.skool.com/release-with-ease
Edit's Book:
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Healers-Journey-Coaching-Book-Seekers
Send us a Text Message to let us know what you thought of this episode!
💫 You’re invited to join us in the brand new Savvy & StrongHER Community—a powerful membership space for women healing after trauma or toxic relationships. Join for as low as $7/month in our entry tier. With three levels of support, there’s a path for you. Visit savvyandstrongher.com for more information and to join now!
💖 Strong enough to heal, savvy enough to thrive
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Corissa is a Holistic Trauma-Informed Coach & Narcissistic Abuse Specialist™ who empowers women after they’ve endured narcissist trauma to rediscover who they are, reclaim their power, and find the clarity and courage to move forward and live a life they love. Corissa is also a recovering people-pleaser and codependent who has endured way too many narcissistic relationships to count! She coaches not only from her knowledge and training but also from the wisdom she has gained from her own healing journey.
Book a FREE 30-min Clarity Call HERE.
Ways to connect with Corissa:
Podcast Website
Website: www.corissastepp.com
Book: The Savvy Girl's Guide to Thriving Beyond Narcissistic Abuse
Instagram: @corissastepp
Facebook: Corissa Stepp
Free Quiz: Is My Partner a Narcissist?
We'd love to hear what you think so message us on IG. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, review, or share it so we can reac...
In this transformative episode of AwakenHer, Corissa is joined by Cristina Calvi, a certified herbalist, Nutrition & Health Coach, for a deep-dive conversation into the powerful, often overlooked connection between trauma and gut health. Together, they explore how trauma—especially chronic or relational trauma—disrupts the gut-brain connection, impacts our nervous system, and alters our ability to trust our inner cues.
Cristina shares her integrative approach to healing that blends science, spirituality, and herbal wisdom to help trauma survivors regulate, restore, and reconnect with their bodies. From understanding the physical symptoms of unresolved trauma to discovering the healing power of joy, energy work, and adaptogenic herbs—this episode is rich with insights and actionable tools for your healing journey.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Cristina’s holistic approach reminds us that true healing goes beyond symptom relief—it reconnects us to who we are underneath the trauma.
Ways to Connect with Cristina:
Website: Www.empoweredwellness4u.com
Instagram: @Empowered_wellness_4_u
Www.naturallysue.com
Cristina Calvi is a certified herbalist and wellness coach specializing in gut health, using nutrition, herbs, and intuition to help others heal—just as she did after years of misdiagnosis and chronic symptoms.
Send us a Text Message to let us know what you thought of this episode!
💫 You’re invited to join us in the brand new Savvy & StrongHER Community—a powerful membership space for women healing after trauma or toxic relationships. Join for as low as $7/month in our entry tier. With three levels of support, there’s a path for you. Visit savvyandstrongher.com for more information and to join now!
💖 Strong enough to heal, savvy enough to thrive
________________________
Corissa is a Holistic Trauma-Informed Coach & Narcissistic Abuse Specialist™ who empowers women after they’ve endured narcissist trauma to rediscover who they are, reclaim their power, and find the clarity and courage to move forward and live a life they love. Corissa is also a recovering people-pleaser and codependent who has endured way too many narcissistic relationships to count! She coaches not only from her knowledge and training but also from the wisdom she has gained from her own healing journey.
Book a FREE 30-min Clarity Call HERE.
Ways to connect with Corissa:
Podcast Website
Website: www.corissastepp.com
Book: The Savvy Girl's Guide to Thriving Beyond Narcissistic Abuse
Instagram: @corissastepp
Facebook: Corissa Stepp
Free Quiz: Is My Partner a Narcissist?
We'd love to hear what you think so message us on IG. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, review, or share it so we can reac...
Have you ever struggled to remember details from your past—and wondered if something was wrong with you?
You’re not alone. And no—you’re not crazy.
In this heartfelt episode, Corissa gets personal about how trauma impacted her ability to recall memories and tell stories, and why this is especially common for survivors of narcissistic abuse. She unpacks the science behind trauma brain fog, how the brain protects itself by fragmenting memory, and how narcissists use this very symptom to gaslight and manipulate.
If you’ve ever felt ashamed, confused, or unsure of what’s real, this episode will help you understand why—and remind you that your experience is valid.
Inside, Corissa shares:
🌀 This episode is for every woman who’s ever been told she’s “too sensitive” or made to feel like she was imagining things.
📣 TRIGGER WARNING: I discuss my experience working in downtown Manhattan on 9/11 and being home alone during a home invasion, so please feel free to fast forward from 6:06 to 11:30.
💌 Ready for support on your healing journey?
Join Corissa inside the Savvy & StrongHER Community—a sacred space for women healing after trauma and toxic relationships.
www.savvyandstrongher.com
📘 And don’t miss her upcoming book, The Savvy Girl’s Guide to Thriving Beyond Narcissistic Abuse, launching May 27th!
Send us a Text Message to let us know what you thought of this episode!
________________________
Corissa is a Holistic Trauma-Informed Coach & Narcissistic Abuse Specialist™ who empowers women after they’ve endured narcissist trauma to rediscover who they are, reclaim their power, and find the clarity and courage to move forward and live a life they love. Corissa is also a recovering people-pleaser and codependent who has endured way too many narcissistic relationships to count! She coaches not only from her knowledge and training but also from the wisdom she has gained from her own healing journey.
Book a FREE 30-min Clarity Call HERE.
Ways to connect with Corissa:
Podcast Website
Website: www.corissastepp.com
Book: The Savvy Girl's Guide to Thriving Beyond Narcissistic Abuse
Instagram: @corissastepp
Facebook: Corissa Stepp
Free Quiz: Is My Partner a Narcissist?
We'd love to hear what you think so message us on IG. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, review, or share it so we can reac...
In this episode, Corissa, your host, explores the complex relationship between forgiveness and narcissism. She discusses the importance of understanding forgiveness as a personal choice and practice, emphasizing that it is ultimately for one's own healing. The conversation delves into the necessity of compassion, both for oneself and for those who have caused harm, particularly narcissists. Corissa highlights the significance of self-forgiveness and empowerment in breaking free from victimhood and reclaiming one's worth. The episode concludes with a call for community engagement and collaboration in the healing journey.
Key takeaways
Chapters
00:00
Embracing New Beginnings for 2025
01:54
The Complexity of Forgiveness in Narcissistic Relationships
07:12
Understanding Narcissism Through Compassion
12:02
The Journey to Self-Forgiveness
15:09
Empowerment Through Boundaries and Forgiveness
Send us a Text Message to let us know what you thought of this episode!
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Corissa is a Holistic Trauma-Informed Coach & Narcissistic Abuse Specialist™ who empowers women after they’ve endured narcissist trauma to rediscover who they are, reclaim their power, and find the clarity and courage to move forward and live a life they love. Corissa is also a recovering people-pleaser and codependent who has endured way too many narcissistic relationships to count! She coaches not only from her knowledge and training but also from the wisdom she has gained from her own healing journey.
Book a FREE 30-min Clarity Call HERE.
Ways to connect with Corissa:
Podcast Website
Website: www.corissastepp.com
Book: The Savvy Girl's Guide to Thriving Beyond Narcissistic Abuse
Instagram: @corissastepp
Facebook: Corissa Stepp
Free Quiz: Is My Partner a Narcissist?
We'd love to hear what you think so message us on IG. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, review, or share it so we can reac...
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