We explore why it is so difficult to leave toxic situations and how a partner with a regulated nervous system can actually help you level up your own life. The discussion takes a turn into the world of biohacking, memory loss in the age of short-form social media, and the struggle of ordering dental products directly from factories in China. We also get honest about past relationships, including a ten-year saga with a mushroom forager and the importance of finding someone whose lifestyle actually aligns with yours.