Baransu Balance Podcast

You exercise, maybe even do yoga, try not to eat too much fast food. Your intimate relationships could be better. You feel a void. What is your purpose? What's next? Tune in for my interview with Dr. Wintley Phipps, baritone, bass singer, preacher, author, friend of God and man for a life changing conversation. See attached for backgound to this interview, brief bio and references

00:00 Introduction

04:20 How do we know that our plans align with God's plans?

12:50 How do you know that God loves you when things are not going well, and what is your definition of love?

23:10 Wintley Phipps's story

27:35 Tell me about your journey to be a friend with God.

31:25 "You are created to resemble, reflect and reveal the character of God"

36:50 Summary

College is often painted as the perfect time to make lifelong friends. But behind the excitement of a new campus, many students are struggling with stress, disconnection, and loneliness. My next guest, Dr. Janice McCabe shows why friendship is not a distraction from success- it may be one of the keys to it. Click helpful summary and references.

Timestamps

00:00 Meeting Dr. Janice McCabe

0.4:30 Researching the significance of friendships

06:49 Feeling lonely in a crowd

10:44 College memories and meeting husband

13:17 Understanding loneliness vs isolation

15:11 Habits of students that thrive, survey of connection of extracurricular activities and academic success

20:12 Impact of tight-knit friend groups

22:11 Understanding compartmentalizers in college

26:43 Discussing personality types and networks

31:22 Losing friends over time

35:45 How proximity influences friendships

38:53 Discussing college friendships and wisdom

40:26 Ways to connect and socialize

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Aging well includes strong social connections. Our next guide to living a well-balanced life is Dr. Mabel Ho, a social researcher who shares some of her findings of the landmark Canadian Longitudinal Study on Aging, a study tracking over 30,000 Canadians aged 45-85 for clues to successful aging. See attached PDF for helpful links.

Timestamps

00:00 Introduction

04:00 Expanded Definition of Successful Aging

Mabel Ho explains that successful aging is not just the absence of disease or disability but includes physical psychological, social, and subjective well-being. The expanded definition closes the gap between what researchers and older adults consider "successful aging".

07:01 Marriage impacts aging, especially for men

10:00 Volunteering and recreational activities stand out.

13:10 Exercise is a common factor

16:21 It's never too late to improve.

17:25 Small changes add up.

22:10 Summary

Friendships and close social connections are important for our mental and physical health. Tune in to hear psychiatrist, Dr. Lloyda Broomes Williamson of Nashville discuss healthy friendship relations. See attached PDF for further information and references.

Timestamps

00:00:58 Opening and Series Introduction

Christine Ince sets the stage, reflecting on how social isolation has become common and emphasizing the importance of healthy relationships-with friends, family, co-workers and God- and their impact on mental and physical health.

00:00:58 Five Qualities of a Healthy Friend

Christine Ince previews Dr Williamson's list: 1)Commmon interests and goals, 2)Listening, 3)Taking time, 4) Respect (no abuse), 5) Honesty and trustworthiness

00:02:24- Dr. Williamson's Background

Lloyda Williamson shares her journey into psychiary, influenced by her father's work at Meharry Medical College and her holistic approach that connects mind, body, and social environment.

00:07:02- Why Friendships Matter

Christine Ince asks why friendships are vital. Lloyda Williason explains that we're made for community, referencing spirituality and science- joy and happiness from connections reduce stress and improve bothe phyysical and mental health.

00:13:24 Hallmarks of a Healthy Friendship

Lloyda Williason details key attibutes. Sharing common interests, listening and valuing, making time, showing respect, being reliable, trustworthy and not possessive.

00:17:27 Friendship & Mental Health Challenges

Dr. Ince asks about healthy friendships with those facing mental health issues. Dr. Williamson clarifies the differences between challenges and disorders, affirms that healthy relationships are possible and advises awareness of impacts on oneself and others, including setting boundaries if needed.

00:22:21 Unhealthy Relationships and Setting Limits

Lloyda Williamson defines unhealthy relationships-those leaving you feeling low, "Friends" who are disrespectful, abusive, or possessive- and suggests limiting or ending such relationships or setting boundaries if the person cannot be removed from your life.

00:25:19 How to Be a Better Friend

00:27:30 Personal Takeaways, Recap and Closing

My next guest, Susan C Pinsky, is a professional organizer and author of the book "Organizing Solutions for People with ADHD (3rd edition). Clutter can be overwhelming for people with ADHD or anyone who is easily distracted. Susan's goal is to help you straighten up a room in just one minute! Stay tuned to the end to learn how not to lose your keys and phone, and discover how to come home to a peaceful, decluttered space. For more tips and resources from Susan Pinsky, check out this link.

Timestamp

00:02:38 Susan Pinsky's Story, Child with ADD

00:04:09 Simplify, Reduce, Make Lists

00:05:02 Efficiency Principles

00:06:10 Real-World Organization Challenges

00:07:37 Pet Ownership and Daily Task Reduction

00:09:17 Simple Efficient Meal Planning

00:10:57 Refrigerator and Grocery Shopping Tips

00:11:45 "Helper Ready" vs "Guest Ready" Homes

00:12:23 Sock Tips and More

00:15:57 Body Doubling Explained

00:18:32 Bills, Finances, and Digital Life

00:22:03 Eliminating Redundant Tasks

000:23:18 Organizing Kids'Toys

00:24:27 Sticky Finger Method for keys, phone

00:25:10 Dr Inces's 3 Takeaways and Closing

1. Simplify
2. Reduce- possessions, tasks, and redundant items
3. Make Organization a Game/ Team Effort- timed cleanups, family work, support groups

Problems concentrating? Your child can't stay still? How do you diagnose ADHD and how to advocate for your child if your child is diagnosed? Stay tuned to hear ADHD and mental health epert Dr. Nekeshia Hammond. Listen to the end for inspirational thoughts about balance. See helpful references and bio.

Timestamp

00:00 Introduction

03:32 Early signs of ADHD

05:37 Diagnosis process, at least 6 months of symptoms

07:25 Contributing factors

09:38 Diet and lifestyle

11:51 Step-by-step support for parents

15:27 School support process, know your rights

16:55 ADHD support beyond high school

18:26 Caffeine vs medication

20:15 Calming exercises

22:27 Adult ADHD and organization

25:12 Dr. Hammond's approach to balance

28:00 Last thoughts & contact info, summary

1 in 3 students face racism in school, and it affects their mental health, according to a recent large study. Dr. Erlanger Turner is a psychologist and professor from Southern California. We had a thoughtful conversation, ranging from whether you should have the "race talk" with your kids to what a microaggression is and what we can do to protect our children. Please review the attached resources and bio.

Cancer rates are increasing in the young. Dr. Lonzetta Newman from MD Anderson Cancer Center, the Department of Clinical Cancer Prevention, gives some surprising, invaluable tips to decrease cancer risk. Please see bio and helpful references.

00:00 Introduction

03:04 Diet and cancer

05:55 Obesity and cancer

08:22 Does everything cause cancer?

09:29 How to minimize the effects of pollutants?

16:00 Inherited cancers?

21:23 Does vitamin D protect against cancer?

24:20 Is alcohol ok?

28:58 Viruses and cancer

30:35 Dr Newman's story

35:58 Summary

Your one day to rest. Why get up to go to church? How vital is in-person church attendance to mental, physical, and spiritual well-being? Are the roles and attendance of young men and women changing in the church? My guest is Pastor Dr. Evan Willis from Charlotte, NC. We start with a few words of wisdom from the renowned Pastor Wintley Phipps. Please see bio and references.

00:00 Wintley Phipps answers question, Why is church attendance important?

03:53 Introduction of Dr. Evan Willis

05.06 Gen Z women leaving church at higher rate than Gen Z Men (editorial comment, if this is true, it seems it would be one reason for young women to return to church)

17:06 Social institutions, less support, increase in mental health illness

18:10 Devices/ online use leads to isolation

20:15 Gallup poll, number on listed reason for people to attend church, the sermon

27:46 Shorter attention spans with technology

30:12 Lack of reverence

33:00 Fellowship

35:00 Community, childhood spent outside, independent

39:00 Church helps you deal with life

42:05 Summary- God created us for community, Health Benefits, No church is perfect

Are you hunched over a computer all day? Or are you discouraged about the dark winter days and decreased physical activity? Stay tuned to be encouraged and inspired by physical therapist Dr. Nikki Carrington. See bio and references.

00:00 Introduction

01:45 How to refer to physical therapy

05:00 Difference between a physical therapist and a chiropractor

07:15 How to exercise with the short days of winter

09:05 Sedentary job, exercise recommendations

12:00 How to decrease the need for a physical therapist

13:20 Strength training, "elixir of youth"

16:00 Balance training

19:40 Nikki's journey to physical therapist

26:30 What is Nikki's fitness regimen/ balance

28:30 Summary