Become Good Soil

By Morgan SnyderReligion & Spirituality Christianity

Become Good Soil episodes

June 22, 2021 085: Defending the Defenseless
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Vulnerability is not winning or losing; it's having the courage to show up and be seen when we have no control over the outcome. Vulnerability is not weakness; it's our greatest measure of courage.

– Brené Brown

The Father is a wild one, undivided in his commitment to meet us where we are and father every uninitiated place in us.

This podcast is one of the many privileged opportunities the Father provided this year to reach the many to find the few. Midway through, our conversation took an unanticipated turn and finished with an encounter that embodies what we are after for every man with the message of Becoming a King.

Join me in this podcast, originally hosted by John Walz, as he courageously enters the unpredictable waters of vulnerability and accesses the sacred place every man must go to recover his strength.

Come along as we consent to our Father-initiated masculine journey.

For the Kingdom,

Morgan

P.S. You can find an ever-expanding list of other podcasts featuring the mission and message of Become Good Soil here.
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June 08, 2021 084: Becoming a King Campfire, Part 2
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My story is important not because it is mine, God knows, but because if I tell it anything like right, the chances are you will recognize that in many ways it is also yours… It is precisely through these stories in all their particularity, as I have long believed and often said, that God makes himself known to each of us more powerfully and personally. If this is true, it means that to lose track of our stories is to be profoundly impoverished not only humanly but also spiritually.

– Frederick Buechner, Telling Secrets

How do we become the kind of kings God had in mind before the creation of the world?

One year ago we launched a mission to reach the many to find the few with the message of Becoming a King. Thanks to your partnership and Jesus’ power, we have been able to steward this mission for the sake of many hearts and kingdoms around the world.

In the Revelation, the apostle John reminds us that the stories of the saints weave with the blood of Jesus to accomplish the breakthrough we desperately seek. To mark this one-year anniversary, we share these heartfelt stories from Becoming a King allies around the globe in that spirit: may the words of these men who are risking it all on God and his Kingdom connect with the blood of Jesus in each of our lives in order that we might overcome as one.

May these stories strengthen you and fuel you for what’s ahead. We’re just getting started…

For the Kingdom,

Morgan
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May 25, 2021 083: Becoming a King Campfire, Part 1
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A king does not abide within his tent while his men bleed and die upon the field. A king does not dine while his men go hungry, nor sleep when they stand at watch upon the wall. A king does not command his men's loyalty through fear nor purchase it with gold; he earns their love by the sweat of his own back and the pains he endures for their sake. That which comprises the harshest burden, a king lifts first and sets down last. A king does not require service of those he leads but provides it to them. A king does not expand his substance to enslave men, but by his conduct and example makes them free.

– Xeones, Battle of Thermopylae, Gates of Fire

In an age of immediate answers and an overabundance of information, our souls’ questions often get buried, denied, or forgotten.

At times, we abandon them for fear of where they might lead. Often, we give up on them entirely, too ashamed to reveal the depth of our thirst and ache.

But Jesus has not changed, nor has his Kingdom. He is always inviting us to rediscover and hold fast to our questions as his particular way of guiding us back to the path of Life.

What are your questions?

Who are you asking?

If the goal is success, we will in the end lose heart. If the goal is having the right answer, we will often be disappointed.

But if the goal is to become true and wholehearted, nothing can kill us. If the goal is more of us belonging to more of God, our questions are vital.

Over the past year I’ve had the honor to share campfires with like-hearted allies to connect and hear stories of the men bravely working through the Becoming a King video series and study guide. The campfire I got to share with Pablo Ceron of Wildsons and the behind-the-scenes glimpse of the courage and strength of the men with whom he walks and the Father who pursues us all is a highlight of this series.

Join me around this Becoming a King campfire and be strengthened.

For the Kingdom,

Morgan
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May 11, 2021 082: Unbridled Optimism, with Peb Jackson
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Men wanted for hazardous journey. Low wages, bitter cold, long hours of complete darkness. Safe return doubtful. Honour and recognition in event of success.

– Ad placed by Sir Ernest Shackleton, 1915

He would never tell you that he was the one who connected Eugene Peterson, author of The Message paraphrase of the Bible, with U2’s Bono and helped cultivate their enduring friendship.

It’s reasonable to say that he has fostered more connections between leaders of leaders across the global Christian community than any other man in modern history.

Peb Jackson is a living legend.

Incurably positive, uncommonly attracted to risk, the core of Peb’s heart is wild and unfettered. His life inspires my curiosity: how does a man recover and fuel this quality of consecrated masculine strength over such a length of time?

Peb is slow to share about his extraordinary life because he is a man who listens far more than he talks. Through the practice of cultivating questions, he has recovered a disproportionate share of the map that leads to life for the masculine soul. And he shares this map with others with magnificent generosity.

Yet Peb’s most distinguishable and attractive quality is his practice of spending extended time with God his Father. With nothing else. No book, no phone, no people. Just God himself.

His life embodies these words of A. W. Tozer: "The man who would know God must give time to him. He must count no time wasted which is spent in the cultivation of his acquaintance. He must give himself to meditation and prayer hours on end."

This is Peb Jackson.

Friends, slow down and receive with me the treasure of an intimate conversation with a man who has consented to becoming a king to whom God has entrusted much of his Kingdom.

For the Kingdom,

Morgan
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April 27, 2021 081: Maternal Deprivation
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In 70-year-old men, the number one factor in shaping who they had become was the presence or lack of strong emotional bonds with a single consistent feminine caregiver.

– Robert Karen, Becoming Attached

Where have you taken your soul’s need for feminine love?

Have you ever considered your relationship with food and how that story has played out in your life over decades?

How are you receiving daily feminine nourishment from the heart of God?

I am persuaded that our nagging experience of lack, our unsatisfied experiences in our bodies, our complex relationship with food, our addictions and commitments to feel good no matter the cost to ourselves or others, our dysfunctional relating in relationships with females, and our unshakable sense of disconnection from God are rooted at least in part to one core wound: maternal deprivation.

If, as George MacDonald suggests, our central misery is our inability to turn to God for masculine validation, then our central anguish is our incapacity to receive feminine love from the heart of God.

But our woundedness need not have the final word. There is provision and promise in the rescuing, restoring love of the Trinity. We are invited to risk turning toward God as Mother to receive the maternal care, secure attachment, and feminine love we so desperately need.

Trusting Jesus’ leadership and authority over our lives, let’s take a closer look at the theme of maternal deprivation and explore how we can regularly receive feminine love and maternal care from the heart of God.

Join me as we dive deep together. It’ll change everything.

For the Kingdom,

Morgan

This podcast opens with a beautiful poem written and read by Rob Porter. Rob serves as a facilitator at the Become Good Soil Intensives and has been a faithful ally in this path and process of becoming for years. He is now offering what he has received to allies in New Zealand, the UK, and beyond. My deepest thanks for his contribution to this mission.
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April 13, 2021 080: Slow Is Pro
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You speak often of my drinking, but little of my thirst.

– Scottish Proverb

In seven years of crafting the Become Good Soil podcast for you, no episode has infused me with more JOY than my time with Winton Nicholson as we explored Slow Is Pro.

Winton is a fiery, full-hearted Joy-Bringer who has found the treasure in the field and sold everything to possess it. He looks back to us from further down the narrow road and, with a wink and sparkle in his eye, says, “Buckle up…we’re in for a ride!”

Winton’s is a story of a thirsty man who sought to slake his thirst in countless ways until God revealed that his real thirst was for the radical, unconditional Love of his Pursuing Father. Through his story, Winton guides us to deep and daring waters, inviting us to reconnect with our true thirst and dive in with reckless abandon.

It was Brennan Manning who boldly asked, “Do you believe that the God of Jesus loves you beyond worthiness and unworthiness? Beyond fidelity and infidelity...that he loves you in the morning sun and in the evening rain...that he loves you when your intellect denies it, your emotions refuse it, when your whole being rejects it? Do you believe that God loves you without condition and reservation and loves you in this moment as you are and not as you should be?”

Both Brennan’s and Winton’s stories bring us to a point of decision. Will we risk believing and receiving more and more of the utterly unconditional and intense affection of our Father? And will we risk loving God and loving ourselves?

How we respond to this invitation will dramatically shape our decade of becoming the kind of kings to whom God gladly entrusts his Kingdom.

Winton’s story reminds us that we mustn’t minimize our sin nature that attempts in myriad ways to distance us from our pain and inhibit our transformation yet fails to satisfy our true thirst. Below our compulsive reaching for another drink, our overeating, our constancy of activity, or any other medicating behavior is an unmet need. Noticing these compulsions and becoming curious about what is underneath can reveal the next layer ready for excavation in our process of becoming wholehearted.

Here is the good news: our medicators and their grip are not the truest thing about us. Our hidden self-hatred need not get the final word. There is a Father who is fiercely pursuing us, who loves us right now as we are and not as we should be. And none of the messes we have made in portions and seasons of our lives, nor the harm we have caused ourselves and others, are beyond the Love of our Father and his path forward to irrepressible joy and indestructible wholeness.

Join me and Winton in this episode of the Become Good Soil podcast as we courageously acknowledge the strategies of our sin—yet upend them, receiving the truth that the truest thing about us all is this: we are dearly loved sons.

You don’t want to miss this.

For the Kingdom,

Morgan
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March 29, 2021 079: A New Dawn Is Rising
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Jesus's resurrection is the beginning of God's new project not to snatch people away from earth to heaven but to colonize earth with the life of heaven. That, after all, is what the Lord's Prayer is about.

– N. T. Wright

In The Second Mountain, David Brooks observes the inescapable fact that we all grow up in one moral ecology or another. Our moral ecology is the system of beliefs and behaviors that are often based in collective responses to big problems in a specific cultural moment. Recovering what is good, true, and beautiful often depends on identifying our current moral ecology and courageously asking, “Where have we gone astray, and how might we uncover the path forward to recover life in our age?”

Brooks describes the pattern like this: “It usually starts with a subculture. A small group of creative individuals finds the current moral ecology oppressive and alienating. So they go back in history and update an old moral ecology that seems to provide a better way to live...”

Were we to allow Jesus’ words to interrogate us, we may find ourselves asking courageous but uncomfortable questions: What do I need to unlearn? How is my current moral ecology getting in the way of seeing Jesus and his Kingdom as it really is? And how can I see Jesus and his Kingdom more clearly?

Often at first pass we see things not as they truly are, but only as we are. However, if we are willing, our distorted vision need not be the final verdict. If we will give our consent, Jesus and his disruptive Word can address and heal our blindness. His words and teaching can liberate us from our inherited, unconscious, or entrenched perspectives and deliver us into a new life and expanded vision. By his grace and transformative power, we can, in time, begin to see things more and more as they really are.

Join Cherie and me as we risk questioning our current moral ecology in light of the way of Jesus, opening ourselves to his interrogation so that our impoverished vision of his gospel of the Kingdom may be exchanged for a greater vision ablaze in Resurrection Light.

For the Kingdom,

Morgan

I recommend a deep dive into these books we referenced:

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March 16, 2021 078: Wild at Heart
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Don't ask yourself what the world needs. Ask yourself what makes you come alive, and go do that, because what the world needs is men who have come alive.

– Howard Thurman

Over two decades ago through his book Wild at Heart, John Eldredge offered men the central thing they were missing:

Permission.

Permission to recover what God meant when he created masculinity. Permission to recover a battle to fight, an adventure to live, and the courage to fight for beauty with integrity and sacrifice. Permission for us to recover our hearts, as men.

The promise was this: through taking this masculine journey, we would be able in time to bring ourselves as whole-hearted men to the world and to our world.

Thoreau’s words from his seminal work Walden are so often quoted because they ring true: “Most men lead lives of quiet desperation.”

Yet through the message and mission of Wild at Heart, that desperation has evaporated in hundreds of thousands of men and in its place has been sown a recovered strength and union with God.

As a result, a quiet and unshakable revolution is at hand. It’s a revolution of the human heart. Its epicenter is the restoration of men. And from there, communities, marriages, families, and kingdoms around the globe are being healed.

And we’re just getting started.

Friends, join John and me as we unpack the story of Wild at Heart, a story more than 25 years in the making. We reflect on where we’ve been and where we’re going. Know this: where we are going will only happen if we lock shields and recover our hearts, together.

So join us. Dream with us. Grow with us. And act with us to participate with God in rescuing and restoring the next generation.

“Don't ask yourself what the world needs. Ask yourself what makes you come alive, and go do that, because what the world needs is men who have come alive.”

Let’s go.

For the Kingdom,

Morgan
1 hr 7 min
March 01, 2021 077: Initiation, with Nick Carlile
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I haven't made all A's in the art of living. But I give a damn. And I'll take an experienced C over an ignorant A any day.

– Matthew McConaughey, Greenlights

In Backpacking with the Saints, Belden Lane captures a fundamental mystery of masculine initiation:

“What does [a man] do when there’s nothing he can do, when there’s no audience to applaud his performance, when he faces a cold, silent indifference, if not hostility? His world falls to pieces. The soul hungry for approval starves in a desert like that. It reduces the compulsive achiever to something little, utterly ordinary. Only then is he able to be loved.”

Masculine initiation has as much to do with unlearning as it does with learning, as much to do with powerlessness as it does with power. How do we attune our hearts, minds, and imaginations to the path of masculine initiation that God is orchestrating right here and now?

Friends, join me for an interview on initiation hosted by Nick Carlile on Life Enchanted.

For the Kingdom,

Morgan

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February 15, 2021 076: Liturgy
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To an unaccustomed onlooker, the ancient practices, set prayers, bells, and incense of formal liturgy may seem perplexing or even bizarre.

But as I've gone through another round of unlearning and relearning rightly, I've begun to grasp—with the help of longtime ally Simon Kyne—that liturgy was intended to be a grace and essential stream to draw near to God and access the full breadth and depth of his Kingdom.

And as is often the case with any structure or institution, the heart of God can get lost in the debris.

How do we recover these sacred practices that have stood the test of time? How do we receive afresh the Life of God through the symbols, ceremony, and traditions that anchor us in the past, present, and future reality of God's Kingdom? What can we learn from the labor and love of thousands of years of apprentices who have gone before us? How do we recover an annual rhythm and liturgical calendar that guides us through our months and years and centers it all upon the resurrection of the King of kings and the hope of the Restoration of All Things?

Friends, I want to welcome you to the deep end of the pool with Simon, this faithful guide who has cultivated personal and corporate liturgical practices for four decades.

Christ has died.

Christ has risen.

Christ will come again.

Let's dive in.

For the Kingdom,

Morgan

In the podcast we reference several tools as an onramp into a deeper liturgical practice. You can find those here.
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