So the other day I'm folding up
clothes while my son was playing in the room with me. Next thing I
know I see him just as content walking around with a pacifier in
Now, normally this would have not
presented a problem except that we weaned him from the
pacifier months earlier. I'm surprised he even knew
what to do with it. But somehow, someway, he found a pacifier that
had probably been lost for who knows how long and pops it right in
I kindly took it from him and he
went on his merry little way. This was a completely different
reaction from when we first took the pacifier from him. As you
moms, grand-mothers, aunts and god-mothers know, weaning a baby
from a pacifier, bottle, or even thumb can be challenging. The baby
has grown used to doing things one way and here we come changing up
the whole game. Who do we think we are? And with screams, tears,
tantrums and even sleepless nights they let us know how they really
Just like we let God know how we
feel when He allows certain things or relationships to leave our
lives. But like a good parent He does not want anything in our
lives that prevent the growth and fruit He desires of us. Now, I do
not believe God is the cause of our pain but many times He will use
our pain to grow and develop us.
In our text for this series Jesus
calls this process pruning. This is the gardening technique where a
gardener removes useless stubs and shoots from a plant so it can
produce more fruit. And in this week's video Bible study,
"Every Branch That Does Bear Fruit He
Prunes", Jesus lets us know God does the same thing to
I wonder how many things we
complain about that are actually God growing us and stretching us
to be the women we've been called to be? Maybe the challenges we
are facing are not because God is mad at us but that He's using
certain undesired situations and relationships to grow us for our
good and His glory. When it comes to pruning I believe the process
can be painful but the outcome is always fruitful.
If you know a sista-girl going
through be sure to share this week's devotion and video with her.
You never know who might need some Beloved encouragement
Dear Heavenly Father, Thank
You for growing me to live a fruitful life. I pray for the correct
perspective during pruning seasons to trust You through the
process. I love You. In Jesus Christ Name I pray,
Let's keep this conversation going
Beloved! Comment
and let me know if you have ever been through a pruning season that
you are currently enjoying the fruit from today. Let me know about
a difficult time in your life that worked out for your good and