Better Divorce Podcast

Summary:

This episode features Paulette Rigo and Angie Weber discussing the complexities of co-parenting, especially during and after divorce. They explore strategies for creating connection, communication, and stability in children’s lives, emphasizing emotional regulation, core values, and practical tools for parents navigating separation.

Key Topics:

• Co-parenting challenges and solutions.
• The importance of emotional regulation in children.
• Tools and strategies for effective communication.
• The role of core values and family meetings in stability.

Resources:

The Parent Toolbox Website - https://theparenttoolbox.info

Paulette Rigo's Better Divorce Academy - https://betterdivorceacademy.com

Mom Essentials Podcast - https://podmesteppodcast.com

Summary:

In this episode, Paulette Rigo interviews Ron Platt about the innovative resources and insurance solutions provided by the National Association of Single and Divorced Families (NASDF). They discuss how NASDF aims to support divorced and single families through advocacy, mental health services, financial tools, and a groundbreaking insurance product that guarantees child and spousal support payments.

Key Topics:

• NASDF's mission and advocacy efforts.
• Support insurance product for child and spousal support.
• Resources for mental health, career, and housing.
• The importance of community and support networks.
• Legal and procedural aspects of divorce.

About Ron:

A serial entrepreneur with over 35 years of experience across insurance, real estate, and social advocacy, Ronald has built a career defined by innovation and impact. But it’s his personal experience, both as a foster parent and advocate for families in crisis that shaped his true mission: to reform the systems that fail single-parent and divorced households. This passion led to the creation of NASDF (National Association for Single and Divorced Families), a first-of-its-kind membership organization offering an umbrella of products, services, support and resources to support families nationwide.

He's also responsible for creating and launching the only divorce insurance product on the market called Support Insured, which guarantees the continuation of child support and alimony payments should the payor die, become disabled, involuntarily unemployed or declares a business bankruptcy. This is a game changer for the divorce community.

Resources:

SIGN UP FOR my Better Divorce Blueprint PROGRAM: https://betterdivorceblueprint.com/bdb

WEBSITE - resources for those in need of Certified Divorce Coaching and Private Mediation Services :https://betterdivorceacademy.com/

SOCIAL MEDIA - bit.ly/betterdivorceacademy

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Summary:

In this episode, Paulette Rigo and Kim Costa discuss navigating the complexities of home decisions during divorce, introducing the Wheelhouse Method to help individuals reinvent themselves and their living spaces post-divorce.

Key Topics:

• The Wheelhouse Method for life change
• Deciding whether to stay, go, or renovate your home during divorce
• The importance of self-study and self-awareness in post-divorce reinvention

Takeaways:

• The Wheel of Life helps identify areas of imbalance in life and home
• Self-awareness is crucial for making empowered decisions during divorce
• Creating a home that reflects your authentic self can aid in healing and reinvention

About Kim:

Kim Costa is a Top 5% Realtor® with Sotheby's International Realty and creator of The Wheel House Method. This lifestyle-based approach helps people align their homes with their lives during major transitions. Kim specializes in guiding clients through pivotal life changes like divorce, helping them make confident, intentional decisions about their living spaces. She's also a host on American Dream TV and the Live in Your Wheel House podcast, where she explores how our homes can support us through life's biggest shifts. Kim's book, Live In Your Wheel House: An Empowering Guide to Stay, Go or Reno, is debuting in March of this year.

Resources:

SIGN UP FOR my Better Divorce Blueprint PROGRAM: https://betterdivorceblueprint.com/bdb

WEBSITE - resources for those in need of Certified Divorce Coaching and Private Mediation Services :https://betterdivorceacademy.com/

SOCIAL MEDIA - bit.ly/betterdivorceacademy

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Summary:

This episode features Keri and Ryan, experts in divorce financial planning, discussing the critical role of forensic accounting, asset discovery, and strategic preparation in divorce proceedings. Learn how to navigate complex financial landscapes, uncover hidden assets, and approach divorce with confidence and clarity.

Takeaways:

• Full disclosure is essential in divorce financials.
• Trust can be rebuilt through transparency.
• Preparation reduces stress and increases confidence.
• Hidden assets often exist and can be uncovered.
• A comprehensive financial picture is crucial for fair settlements.

About Keri and Ryan:

Keri Gwynne is a Certified Divorce Coach and CEO of Starting Point by Freedom, a comprehensive divorce service offering coaching, mediation and family-focused guidance. With certifications in both High Conflict and Transitional Divorce, she has helped guide more than 550 families across the nation through the divorce process with clarity and confidence. Through her own lived experience as a high-conflict divorce survivor, Keri blends empathy, compassion, and resilience with deep professional expertise to help individuals rebuild and reclaim their lives after divorce.

Ryan Finley is the Founder of Freedom Financial Services Group, a divorce finance advisory firm helping families, attorneys, and courts navigate the financial complexities of divorce. With more than twenty years of executive leadership in finance and forensic accounting, Ryan has guided hundreds of families nationwide toward financial clarity and confidence. As a CPA, CDFA, CVA, and court-approved mediator, Ryan brings both technical precision and empathy to the table—bridging the gap between financial analysis and human understanding. His ability to simplify complex financial issues and foster productive dialogue makes him a trusted resource for attorneys and clients alike.

Resources:

SIGN UP FOR my Better Divorce Blueprint PROGRAM: https://betterdivorceblueprint.com/bdb

WEBSITE - resources for those in need of Certified Divorce Coaching and Private Mediation Services :https://betterdivorceacademy.com/

SOCIAL MEDIA - bit.ly/betterdivorceacademy

Buy my book and workbook: Better Divorce Blueprint https://betterdivorceblueprint.com/

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Summary:

In this insightful interview, Dr. Lee Baucom shares his extensive expertise on building and repairing relationships, the importance of connection, and practical tools like the Husband Bootcamp and Unpause app to foster thriving marriages.

Key Topics:

1. Difference between therapy and coaching in relationships
2. The impact of family history on marriage
3. The importance of connection in marriage
4. The pause button and unpause app for relationship repair
5. The Hope Formula for relationship success
6. Three levels of connection: physical, emotional, spiritual
7. The role of muscle memory in reconnecting
8. The importance of a roadmap and actionable steps

About Dr. Lee:

Dr. Lee Baucom has been helping people thrive in their lives and their relationships for over three decades. He is the author of 7 books on those topics, and is the creator of many online courses. Those include the Save The Marriage System, the Husband Bootcamp, and now, the Un-Pause App. He has helped people around the world to live a more thriving life. Lee has been married for over 37 years, and has two adult children. In his spare time, he hikes, plays pickleball, and paddle boards.

Resources:

SIGN UP FOR my Better Divorce Blueprint PROGRAM: https://betterdivorceblueprint.com/bdb

WEBSITE - resources for those in need of Certified Divorce Coaching and Private Mediation Services :https://betterdivorceacademy.com/

SOCIAL MEDIA - bit.ly/betterdivorceacademy

Buy my book and workbook: Better Divorce Blueprint https://betterdivorceblueprint.com/

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Summary:

In this inspiring interview, Heike Yates shares her journey of rediscovering her spark and purpose after life transitions like divorce and menopause. She discusses practical ways to explore curiosity, overcome fears, and embrace continuous growth at any age.

Key Topics:

• The concept of pursuing your spark and curiosity in midlife
• Heike Yates' personal journey from career to purpose
• Overcoming fear and self-doubt to try new activities
• The importance of quiet reflection and mindfulness
• Strategies for continuous growth and learning at any age

About Hieke:

Heike Yates is a Midlife Fitness Expert, author, and creator of the SPARK Framework. She helps midlife women rebuild strength, energy, and confidence without guilt, extremes, or starting over. With 35+ years of experience in fitness, nutrition, and mindset coaching, she brings a realistic, compassionate approach to lasting change. Heike is the host of the Pursue Your Spark Podcast and the author of Pursue Your Spark.

SIGN UP FOR my Better Divorce Blueprint PROGRAM: https://betterdivorceblueprint.com/bdb

WEBSITE - resources for those in need of Certified Divorce Coaching and Private Mediation Services :https://betterdivorceacademy.com/

SOCIAL MEDIA - bit.ly/betterdivorceacademy

Buy my book and workbook: Better Divorce Blueprint https://betterdivorceblueprint.com/

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Summary:

In this episode, relationship expert Ally Iseman joins host Paulette Rigo to explore the nuances of relationship design, the realities of divorce, and how intentionality can transform love and life. They discuss strategies for navigating relationships, ending them gracefully, and building a life aligned with personal values.

About Ally:

Ally Iseman is a modern relationship expert and the founder of the global platform Passport 2 Pleasure, your portal to building the love life of *your* dreams, not someone else’s. A featured expert on over 40 podcasts and in publications like The New York Times, Cosmopolitan, POPSUGAR, Grazia, AskMen, Well+Good, and more, she provides private coaching for select clients around the world, brand consulting, and online courses and resources for curious couples and individuals who want to open up without breaking up. Subscribe to her Substack where curious individuals, couples, and moresomes come to write their own Happily Ever After and follow her @allyiseman and @passport2pleasure as she continues her mission to “fuck around the world and find out.”

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WEBSITE - resources for those in need of Certified Divorce Coaching and Private Mediation Services :https://betterdivorceacademy.com/

SOCIAL MEDIA - bit.ly/betterdivorceacademy

Buy my book and workbook: Better Divorce Blueprint https://betterdivorceblueprint.com/

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Summary:

In this episode of the Better Divorce Podcast, Paulette Rigo speaks with Lori Atwood, founder of Fearless Finance, about the financial challenges faced during divorce. They discuss the importance of financial planning, the need for financial independence, and strategies for managing finances during and after separation. The conversation highlights the complexities of divorce, including the emotional and financial implications of home ownership, budgeting, and the necessity of establishing credit. Lori emphasizes the importance of being financially literate and prepared for the changes that come with divorce, advocating for a proactive approach to financial management.

Takeaways:

• Money is a significant concern during divorce, often causing fear and overwhelm.
• Financial planning can provide clarity and support for those considering divorce.
• Many women contemplate divorce for an average of two years before taking action.
• Establishing a separate checking account is crucial during separation.
• It's important to build your own credit history and financial independence post-divorce.
• The cost of maintaining two households can be challenging after divorce.
• Nesting arrangements can be complex and often do not work long-term.
• Selling the marital home can provide a clean break and financial security.
• Understanding financial literacy is essential for navigating divorce successfully.
• Facing financial challenges head-on is a critical step in the divorce process.

About Lori:

Lori Atwood is the founder and CEO of Fearless Finance and a CFP® professional. Lori created Fearless Finance to make expert, fiduciary, hourly financial planning accessible to everyone with no sales, no minimums, and no judgement. Lori’s been in finance for over 25 years starting in investment banking, asset management and private equity before starting Fearless Finance in 2016.

SIGN UP FOR my Better Divorce Blueprint PROGRAM: https://betterdivorceblueprint.com/bdb

WEBSITE - resources for those in need of Certified Divorce Coaching and Private Mediation Services :https://betterdivorceacademy.com/

SOCIAL MEDIA - bit.ly/betterdivorceacademy

Buy my book and workbook: Better Divorce Blueprint https://betterdivorceblueprint.com/

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Summary:

In this conversation, Kathleen Judge and Paulette Rigo discuss the importance of involvement and sharing in relationships, particularly in marriage. Kathleen reflects on her realization of the power dynamics at play when she was not included in significant decisions, while Paulette emphasizes that true partnership requires sharing every aspect of life. They both agree that without this level of openness, marriage may not be viable.

About Kathleen:

"My story is one of great loss (and regrowth) through an unexpected divorce. Eleven years before, I quit my corporate job to stay home and raise the kids. Suddenly and unexpectedly, our marriage ended. I was in my 40's, alone with my kids, and responsible for our financial futures. Talk about vulnerable, terrified, and overwhelmed! What did I do? I found a financial advisor I trusted, we walked through the practical steps I needed to take, and the rest is history. Now I work as a financial advisor helping women new to managing their own wealth make smart financial decisions, so she feels comfortable and confident with her financial strategies. My goal is for her to regain - or perhaps reinvent - her most fulfilling life."

Takeaways:

- Divorce is overwhelming in many ways including financially.

- Many spouses have not been actively involved in their family's finances and so it is a shock.

- It's important to take time to ensure you're with the right financial advisor who can lead you through this season of life.

- What qualities to look for in a financial advisor who can help you rebuild - or reinvent your life.

SIGN UP FOR my Better Divorce Blueprint PROGRAM: https://betterdivorceblueprint.com/bdb

WEBSITE - resources for those in need of Certified Divorce Coaching and Private Mediation Services :https://betterdivorceacademy.com/

SOCIAL MEDIA - bit.ly/betterdivorceacademy

Buy my book and workbook: Better Divorce Blueprint https://betterdivorceblueprint.com/

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Summary:

In this episode of the Better Divorce Podcast, Paulette Rigo discusses the complexities of divorce, particularly focusing on coercive control and its impact on families. Joined by expert Sybil Cummin, they explore the nuances of coercive control, its effects on children, and strategies for protective parenting. The conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding the dynamics of high conflict divorces and the need for support systems for those affected.

Takeaways:

• Coercive control is a significant factor in high conflict divorces.
• The family court system often fails to protect children from coercive control.
• Children may exhibit different behaviors based on their experiences in high conflict situations.
• Protective parents can foster resilience in their children through unconditional love.
• Understanding the dynamics of coercive control can help in navigating divorce effectively.
• Support groups and mental health resources are crucial for protective parents.
• Co-parenting can be challenging when one parent uses coercive control tactics.
• Children's responses to divorce can vary widely based on their personality and age.
• The court's definition of 'best interest' can be subjective and inconsistent.
• There is hope for families to navigate divorce positively despite challenges.

About Sybil:

Sybil is a Licensed Professional Counselor who has specialized in working with victims and survivors of coercive control and domestic violence for the last decade, including the child victims in these families. She owns a small group therapy practice in Colorado and after witnessing the constant ethical issues survivors experience in the family court system trying to protect their children she created Rising Beyond Power and Control (often referred to as The Rising Beyond Community) to help close the gaps in support for this population. Sybil hosts The Rising Beyond Podcast and is active in legislative changes in Colorado for family court reform.

SIGN UP FOR my Better Divorce Blueprint PROGRAM: https://betterdivorceblueprint.com/bdb

WEBSITE - resources for those in need of Certified Divorce Coaching and Private Mediation Services :https://betterdivorceacademy.com/

SOCIAL MEDIA - bit.ly/betterdivorceacademy

Buy my book and workbook: Better Divorce Blueprint https://betterdivorceblueprint.com/

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