BETTER HUSBAND | Marriage Help for Men, Communication, Conflict & Rebuilding Trust

By Angelo Santiago | Men's Marriage CoachSociety & Culture Relationships

BETTER HUSBAND | Marriage Help for Men, Communication, Conflict & Rebuilding Trust episodes

November 26, 2024 004|How Your Attachment Style is Impacting Your Marriage with Bev Mitelman
In this episode, I am joined by Bev Mitelman, founder of Securely Loved, and we dive into the world of attachment styles. We discuss the significance of attachment styles, their origins, and how understanding them can help you become a better husband.

Bev provides insights into secure and insecure attachment styles, emotional regulation, and how these affect relationships. Learn practical steps to understand yourself and your partner better.
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Connect with Bev
Website: https://securelyloved.com/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SecurelyLoved
🎥 Watch the Better Husbands Secrets Workshop. If conversations keep turning into conflict, distance, or silence, this free workshop will show you where to start. Watch the free training at BetterHusbandSecrets.com

👉 Better Husband Secrets Watch my free 3 Secrets Workshop to learn why your efforts aren’t helping your marriage and what you can do differently. Go to https://betterhusbandsecrets.com
🧰 Better Husband Toolkit Get this free toolkit and learn the 3 essential skills you need to rebuild trust and closeness—even if things feel off right now. Go to https://www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com
💍 Join Better Husband Academy Join me and the other men on the path of becoming a Better Husband at https://www.betterhusbandacademy.com
Questions?
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51 min
November 19, 2024 003|How to Get More of What You Want in Your Marriage
Are you tired of your needs or wants going unmet in your marriage? In this episode of Better Husband, we dive into how to effectively ask for what you want in your relationship using skill and intention.

Let's debunk the myth that marriages should be easy. This is all about owning your wants and needs, and learning how to communicate them effectively. In this episode, I share the four crucial steps to enhancing your marriage without resorting to complaints and transform your relationship for the better.
🎥 Watch the Better Husbands Secrets Workshop. If conversations keep turning into conflict, distance, or silence, this free workshop will show you where to start. Watch the free training at BetterHusbandSecrets.com

👉 Better Husband Secrets Watch my free 3 Secrets Workshop to learn why your efforts aren’t helping your marriage and what you can do differently. Go to https://betterhusbandsecrets.com
🧰 Better Husband Toolkit Get this free toolkit and learn the 3 essential skills you need to rebuild trust and closeness—even if things feel off right now. Go to https://www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com
💍 Join Better Husband Academy Join me and the other men on the path of becoming a Better Husband at https://www.betterhusbandacademy.com
Questions?
📩 Email Me → [email protected]
21 min
November 12, 2024 002|How To Be a S.T.R.O.N.G. Husband With Kristal DeSantis
In this episode, I am joined by Kristal DeSantis, a licensed marriage and family therapist, and we discuss themes from her book 'Strong: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man.' Key topics include evolving paradigms of masculinity, the foundational elements of a STRONG relationship (Safety, Trust, Respect, Openness, Nurturing, Generosity), and practical advice for nurturing emotional connection. We also address a question about maintaining intimacy and growth in marriage.
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Buy Kristal's Book: Strong: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man
https://www.amazon.com/Strong-Relationship-Field-Guide-Modern/dp/1959099027/

🎥 Watch the Better Husbands Secrets Workshop. If conversations keep turning into conflict, distance, or silence, this free workshop will show you where to start. Watch the free training at BetterHusbandSecrets.com

👉 Better Husband Secrets Watch my free 3 Secrets Workshop to learn why your efforts aren’t helping your marriage and what you can do differently. Go to https://betterhusbandsecrets.com
🧰 Better Husband Toolkit Get this free toolkit and learn the 3 essential skills you need to rebuild trust and closeness—even if things feel off right now. Go to https://www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com
💍 Join Better Husband Academy Join me and the other men on the path of becoming a Better Husband at https://www.betterhusbandacademy.com
Questions?
📩 Email Me → [email protected]
48 min
November 05, 2024 001|Overcoming Defensiveness: Improving Communication in Marriage
If every time your spouse has a complaint about how things are going in the marriage or asks you to make a change you get defensive, you need to listen to this episode.

In this episode of Better Husband, I discuss the common struggle men face with defensiveness, I highlight the impact of societal expectations and gender differences in receiving feedback and offer practical tools for active listening and creating open communication.

Make sure to listen for a five-minute exercise that you can start using today to improve communication and strengthen your marriage.
🎥 Watch the Better Husbands Secrets Workshop. If conversations keep turning into conflict, distance, or silence, this free workshop will show you where to start. Watch the free training at BetterHusbandSecrets.com

👉 Better Husband Secrets Watch my free 3 Secrets Workshop to learn why your efforts aren’t helping your marriage and what you can do differently. Go to https://betterhusbandsecrets.com
🧰 Better Husband Toolkit Get this free toolkit and learn the 3 essential skills you need to rebuild trust and closeness—even if things feel off right now. Go to https://www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com
💍 Join Better Husband Academy Join me and the other men on the path of becoming a Better Husband at https://www.betterhusbandacademy.com
Questions?
📩 Email Me → [email protected]
18 min
October 31, 2024 Welcome to Better Husband
🔥 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🔥 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com.
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Welcome to Better Husband, the show that helps you answer the question "How can I be a better husband?" Join me every single week for expert interviews, responses to listener questions, actionable steps you can take in your marriage and so much more. Whether your marriage is struggling or things are going well and you want to be proactive about making it better, this is the show for you.

👉 Better Husband Secrets Watch my free 3 Secrets Workshop to learn why your efforts aren’t helping your marriage and what you can do differently. Go to https://betterhusbandsecrets.com
🧰 Better Husband Toolkit Get this free toolkit and learn the 3 essential skills you need to rebuild trust and closeness—even if things feel off right now. Go to https://www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com
💍 Join Better Husband Academy Join me and the other men on the path of becoming a Better Husband at https://www.betterhusbandacademy.com
Questions?
📩 Email Me → [email protected]
2 min
October 22, 2024 Why Men Struggle with Change
In this episode of We Are The Men, I explore the psychological barriers men face when embracing change and offer practical steps to overcome them. By understanding why our brains resist change and finding the right motivation, I encourage all men to adopt a growth mindset. I make sure to discuss the importance of stress balance and community support, and highlight the role of men's groups in fostering accountability and lasting behavioral changes.

There's also a big change coming to this podcast, which I share about at the conclusion of the episode.
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Connect with Angelo
Website: https://www.angelosantiago.com/
Email: [email protected]
YT: https://www.youtube.com/@weare.themen

00:00 Introduction: The Challenge of Change
00:53 A Personal Story: Fear of Change Among Friends
02:54 Understanding Men's Fear of Change
04:12 Criticism and Self-Esteem
06:31 Reframing Change: Growth vs. Fixed Mindset
08:44 The Brain's Resistance to Change
11:02 The Role of Stress in Motivating Change
12:21 Finding Your Motivation for Change
13:43 The Importance of Support
15:52 Steps to Embrace Change
18:33 Celebrating Milestones and Announcing Big Changes
19:43 Introducing 'Better Husband'
22:22 Final Thoughts and Farewell
Ready to Take Action?
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Questions?
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23 min
October 15, 2024 How to Truly Live Authentically with Ray Martin
In this episode of 'We Are The Men,' host Angelo Santiago sits down with Ray Martin, an entrepreneur and award-winning business leader on a mission to empower people to live authentically. Ray shares his transformative journey from a successful businessman to finding his true calling as a coach and mentor. Following personal tragedies, Ray embarked on a six-month sabbatical, marking the start of his transformation into 'The Daily Explorer.' Through building self-awareness, owning experiences, and becoming one's own observer, Ray has found fulfillment helping others discover their authentic selves. Tune in for an inspiring conversation on embracing life's challenges and living from the inside out.
Connect with Angelo
Email: [email protected]

Connect with Ray
https://www.lifewithoutatie.com/
00:00 Introduction to Ray Martin
00:47 The Origin of the nickname:'The Daily Explorer'
04:05 Personal Tragedies and Turning Points
07:37 A Life-Changing Journey to Australia
12:24 Discovering a New Path
17:55 How to Live Authentically
18:46 Building a Foundation of Self-Awareness
21:23 The Power of Being in Your Element
22:36 Taking Ownership of Your Life
23:56 Becoming Your Own Observer
26:59 Living a Life Aligned with Your Values
32:04 The Journey of Reinvention
35:39 Final Thoughts and Reflections
Ready to Take Action?
🚨 Watch the FREE Better Husband Workshop → BetterHusbandSecrets.com

Questions?
📩 Email Me → [email protected]
39 min
October 08, 2024 3 Reasons Every Man Needs a Men's Group
In this episode of We Are The Men, I share my thoughts on the profound impact of men's groups on personal growth and relationships. I share my own journey from skepticism to life-changing experiences in a men's group, emphasizing the importance of community and connection for men. I also outline three key reasons why these groups are essential: getting out of one's head, learning to listen, and embracing accountability. By participating in a men's group, men can break free from isolation, improve their relationships, and gain the support needed to navigate life's challenges.
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Connect with Angelo
Website: https://www.angelosantiago.com/
Email: [email protected]
YT: https://www.youtube.com/@weare.themen

00:00 Introduction: Why You NEED a Men's Group
00:52 My Personal Journey: From Skepticism to Transformation
03:30 The Impact of Men's Groups on Personal Growth
04:48 Reason 1: Getting Out of Your Head
08:19 Reason 2: The Art of Listening
12:30 Reason 3: The Importance of Accountability
16:48 Conclusion: Embrace the Change. The Time is NOW!
Ready to Take Action?
🚨 Watch the FREE Better Husband Workshop → BetterHusbandSecrets.com

Questions?
📩 Email Me → [email protected]
19 min
October 01, 2024 Finding Strength in Adversity with Rick Cheatham
In this powerful episode of 'We Are The Men,' Angelo welcomes guest Rick Cheatham, a retired fire captain, transformational speaker, and life coach. Rick shares his profound and inspiring life story, detailing how he overcame significant adversities, including a nearly failed marriage, the tragic loss of his son, and a debilitating injury that left him paralyzed from the chest down. Through his experiences, Rick has developed the AIM approach to help men shift from a victim mentality to one of victory. The conversation delves into themes of forgiveness, resilience, and the importance of community and mentorship in navigating life's challenges. Listen in as Rick provides actionable insights and a message of hope for those feeling trapped in their struggles.
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Connect with Angelo
Website: https://www.angelosantiago.com/
Email: [email protected]
YT: https://www.youtube.com/@weare.themen

Connect with Rick
Website: https://rickcheatham.com/
Email: [email protected]
FB: https://www.facebook.com/rickycafd/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/rickycafd/

00:00 Intro and Guest Introduction
02:12 Rick's Life Story: Overcoming Adversity
03:36 Current Life and Helping Men
06:03 The Importance of Support and Mentorship
09:41 Struggles in Marriage and Personal Growth
14:36 Tragic Loss and Personal Injury
20:14 The Power of Forgiveness and Mind Shift
36:01 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
Ready to Take Action?
🚨 Watch the FREE Better Husband Workshop → BetterHusbandSecrets.com

Questions?
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40 min
September 24, 2024 7 Qualities of a Truly Good Man
In this episode of 'We Are The Men,' host Angelo Santiago explores seven key qualities that define a truly good man, according to psychology. Angelo shares personal experiences, scientific studies, and practical tips for self-improvement, inviting viewers to reflect on their own lives. Learn how to become a better husband, father, community leader, and overall human being.
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Connect with Angelo: [email protected]
Source Article: https://smallbusinessbonfire.com/7-qualities-of-a-truly-good-man-according-to-psychology/

00:00 Introduction: What Makes a Truly Good Man?
00:31 Exploring the Seven Qualities of a Truly Good Man
02:00 Emotional Intelligence: The Foundation
04:53 Authenticity: Being True to Yourself
07:28 Responsibility: Owning Your Actions
09:37 Respectfulness: Valuing Others Equally
11:24 Humility: Embracing a Learning Mindset
13:41 Generosity: Giving Beyond Material
15:20 Integrity: Consistency in Words and Actions
16:37 Conclusion: Reflecting on the Seven Qualities
Ready to Take Action?
🚨 Watch the FREE Better Husband Workshop → BetterHusbandSecrets.com

Questions?
📩 Email Me → [email protected]
18 min