Beyond Retirement

In this episode of the Beyond Retirement podcast, Jacquie Doucette speaks with corporate anthropologist Dr. Andi Simon about why retirement is far more complex than simply leaving work. Drawing on decades of research and interviews, Dr. Simon explains how retirement often creates an identity gap between who we were during our careers and who we are becoming next.

The conversation explores how people navigate this transition, why freedom without structure can feel draining, and how curiosity, community, and intentional design can help retirees build meaningful lives beyond their careers.

• Retirement as a cultural and identity transition
• Why freedom without structure can feel unexpectedly draining
• The stages of retirement: honeymoon, awakening, and restructuring
• The importance of curiosity and experimentation after leaving work
• How retirees rebuild purpose and community
• How organizations could better prepare employees for retirement

00:00 Introduction and what a corporate anthropologist studies

04:00 Why retirement is such a complex cultural transition

11:00 What successful retirement transitions have in common

18:00 Curiosity, identity, and asking the deeper “why” questions

22:00 What organizations could do differently about retirement

25:00 Reframing retirement as a stage of becoming

33:00 Advice for people struggling with the transition

Guest Links:

Website: https://www.andisimon.com

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andisimon

Book: Rethink Retirement, https://www.amazon.com/dp/1636184278

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In this solo episode of Beyond Retirement, Jacquie reflects on how we can give meaning to our lives in retirement.

Key Ideas

• retirement doesn't automatically have meaning
• taking time to relax as you begin retirement can be helpful
• the little voice in your head can help you find direction
• finding structure for your day is imperative
• purpose doesn't have to be "big"

Questions to Reflect On

1. What gives you energy?
2. What tasks/activities do people often ask you for help with?
3. What problems around you could you help solve?

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What happens when retirement becomes an opportunity to build something meaningful rather than simply step away from work?

In this episode of Beyond Retirement, Jacquie Doucette sits down with Sandy Laneville to explore how retirement can become a time of contribution, connection, and personal growth.

Sandy’s journey began with a career in municipal recreation before she chose to stay home to raise her children. Over the years, she continued to find ways to contribute — volunteering in the community, serving as deputy reeve in her municipality, launching a pickleball club, leading women’s retreats, and teaching senior fitness classes.

Through her story, Sandy illustrates that retirement is not about slowing down completely — it’s about choosing how you want to spend your time and energy. From helping seniors stay active to building community programs and supporting neighbors, Sandy shows how purpose can evolve through every stage of life.

Her central message is simple but powerful: follow what brings you joy, listen to that inner voice encouraging you to try something new, and remember that you don’t have to be an expert to make a meaningful difference.

Purpose Beyond Career

• Why many people still need a sense of contribution after leaving paid work
• Finding fulfillment through volunteering and community involvement

Identity Transitions

• Adjusting from career roles to family and community roles
• Discovering leadership and personal strengths later in life

Staying Active in Retirement

• How movement and balance training support independence
• Small daily habits that can improve physical health

Community Connection

• The importance of avoiding isolation after retirement
• Building friendships and support networks among seniors

Creating Opportunities

• Starting local initiatives like fitness groups or pickleball clubs
• Why you don’t have to be an expert to introduce new activities

Following the Voice of Joy

• Recognizing what brings you energy and fulfillment
• Letting joy guide decisions in retirement

1. What activities genuinely bring you joy right now?
2. Is there something you’ve always wanted to try but never had time for?
3. How could you contribute to your community in a small way?
4. Are there relationships you could strengthen by reaching out more often?
5. What would retirement look like if you designed it intentionally?

Resources

Matthew Kelly's book, Slowing Down to the Speed of Joy, https://amazon.com/dp/1635825644

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Reinvention Rebels, hosted by Wendy Battles, is for women in midlife and beyond who are ready to consciously design the next chapter of their lives. Through stories of women 50 to 90-plus who are starting businesses, finding love, taking on big challenges, and rediscovering their confidence, Wendy reminds listeners that reinvention doesn’t have an expiry date.

In this episode of Beyond Retirement, I talk about how purpose can emerge in surprising places when life changes direction. Inspired by my conversation with Marilyn Raichle, this reflection explores how presence, listening, and small moments of connection can transform the way we experience retirement.

Many people enter retirement with a clear picture of what life will look like — travel, hobbies, freedom, and time to relax. But life doesn’t always follow the plan. Health changes, family responsibilities shift, and unexpected roles appear. This episode explores how meaning often grows not from perfectly planned lives, but from how we respond when those plans change. Sometimes the most meaningful chapters begin when we slow down enough to notice the people and experiences around us.

Key Topics Covered:

• Why retirement rarely unfolds exactly as planned
• The difference between being a caregiver and a care partner
• How listening and presence deepen relationships
• Finding purpose in unexpected roles and experiences

Questions to Reflect Upon:

• Where might meaning be showing up in your life right now?
• How comfortable are you with letting life unfold without a plan?
• What small moments of connection could you notice more often?

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Reinvention Rebels, hosted by Wendy Battles, is for women in midlife and beyond who are ready to consciously design the next chapter of their lives. Through stories of women 50 to 90-plus who are starting businesses, finding love, taking on big challenges, and rediscovering their confidence, Wendy reminds listeners that reinvention doesn’t have an expiry date.

What happens when retirement doesn’t look the way you expected? And what if purpose appears not through careful plans, but through simply being present?

In this episode of Beyond Retirement, I’m joined by Marilyn Raichle, who has spent her life building communities through creativity, curiosity, and connection. From founding the Seattle International Children’s Festival and a national comedy festival to leading Maude’s Awards for Innovation in Alzheimer’s Care, her work has always centered on bringing people together.

Her life took an unexpected turn when she became a care partner for her parents as they lived with dementia. What followed wasn’t the story of loss that many people expect. Instead, it revealed moments of creativity, humor, and connection that reshaped her understanding of aging, relationships, and what it truly means to live well.

Marilyn is the author of Don’t Walk Away: A Care Partner’s Journey, a hopeful and deeply human reflection on love, creativity, and connection through every stage of life.

Through Marilyn’s story, you’ll discover how slowing down, listening deeply, and embracing simple moments of creativity can transform the way we relate to others and ourselves. This conversation offers a refreshing perspective on aging, reminding us that meaning often emerges in unexpected places.

Life After a Major Pivot

• When retirement doesn’t unfold as planned
• Redefining purpose beyond career identity

Care Partner vs. Caregiver

• Shared humanity and partnership
• Letting go of control and expectations

Creativity and Joy

• Art as a bridge beyond fear and stigma
• Play, music, and laughter as connectors

Changing the Dementia Narrative

• Living with dementia, not suffering from it
• Enduring personhood and human needs

Listening and Presence

• Slowing down and asking meaningful questions
• Why curiosity matters more than answers

Book site: https://dontwalkaway.net/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/marilyn.raichle

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marilynraichle/

Instagram: instagram.com/raichlem/

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Reinvention Rebels is for women in midlife and beyond who are ready to consciously design the next chapter of their lives. Through stories of women 50 to 90-plus who are starting businesses, finding love, taking on big challenges, and rediscovering their confidence, Wendy reminds listeners that reinvention doesn’t have an expiry date.

Retirement gives you time—but it also removes the structure that once shaped your days. For many people, that loss of structure creates a deeper question: what replaces it?

In this solo episode of Beyond Retirement, inspired by my conversation with Andrew Motiwalla of The Good Life Abroad, I explore how immersive travel can help retirees rediscover confidence, connection, and purpose.

Most people travel in retirement the same way they traveled during their working years—short vacations packed with activities. But when you slow down and live somewhere for a while instead of rushing through it, everything changes. You develop routines. You connect with people. You adapt to a new environment.

And those small adaptations rebuild something many retirees didn’t realize they lost: self-trust.

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Drawing from my own experiences living temporarily in Chapala and Oaxaca, Mexico, this episode explores why immersive travel can expand your world rather than shrink it—and why retirement may be the perfect time to explore life differently.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• Why retirement often creates a loss of structure and identity
• The difference between vacation travel and immersive travel
• How living somewhere temporarily helps rebuild confidence
• Why community—not location—is the real destination
• How language barriers become opportunities to connect
• The truth about safety and healthcare while traveling abroad
• Why extended travel can sometimes cost less than staying home
• Practical steps for exploring immersive travel experiences

Mentioned in This Episode

The Good Life Abroad https://thegoodlifeabroad.com

Use code BeyondRetirement for $100 off your first program.

Key Takeaway

Retirement becomes richer when it’s designed around expansion rather than contraction. When you choose experiences that encourage curiosity, learning, and connection, the world doesn’t get smaller—it opens up.

Action Steps From This Episode

1. Start learning a new language today

Download an app like Duolingo and spend ten minutes a day learning basic phrases.

2. Practice small acts of adaptation

Change a routine in your daily life—try a new grocery store, attend a new event, or take a different route somewhere.

3. Research one immersive travel destination

Instead of looking at a one-week vacation, explore what it would cost to live somewhere for a month.

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What if travel in retirement wasn’t about seeing more places—but about living more fully?

In this episode of Beyond Retirement, Jacquie Doucette sits down with Andrew Motiwalla, founder of The Good Life Abroad, to talk about a style of retirement travel that’s changing how people 55+ experience the world: slow travel with built-in community.

Andrew shares how his Peace Corps experience in Honduras planted the seed for month-long stays that move you out of “tourist mode” and into real life; routines, local cafés, cultural events, and friendships that form naturally when you stay long enough to be recognized. You’ll hear why The Good Life Abroad is not a tour, how their cohort model works, and how community managers create light, optional touchpoints (like cooking classes, walking tours, and local experiences) that help you feel supported without being scheduled to death.

You’ll also love Andrew’s perspective on “joyspan”—the idea that we can intentionally expand the years of joy, purpose, and connection in our lives. For many retirees, identity shifts can feel disorienting. Andrew explains how immersive travel can help you grow through learning, connect through shared values, and adapt to new experiences, often leaving you with more confidence and a bigger sense of possibility than when you arrived.

Key Topics Covered

• Why slow, immersive travel creates deeper learning: Why a month in one place creates a completely different travel experience
• Community as a foundation for joy in retirement: What travelers feel after week 1, week 3, and week 4 of immersive living & why community can be the most surprising (and meaningful) part of the experience
• Identity shifts after leaving work: Rediscovering purpose through curiosity and exploration
• Confidence gained from adapting to new environments: Why small discomforts lead to growth & how The Good Life Abroad supports safety, comfort, and independence (55+)
• Travel as a test‑drive for expatriate life: “Expat-curious” scouting trips to test-drive a city before moving abroad
• Who this style of travel is best for: (hint: curiosity matters)
• How slow travel affects your budget: Ballpark pricing for a month-long program and what’s included

Listener Offer

Beyond Retirement listeners can use the referral code BEYONDRETIREMENT when booking with The Good Life Abroad to receive an exclusive listener discount.

Connect with Andrew:

• Via email: [email protected]
• On the web: https://thegoodlifeabroad.com

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Retirement is often framed as a financial milestone—but the deeper transition is psychological. When work ends, the identity that came with it often disappears as well. In this solo episode, Jacquie reflects on her conversation with Michael Kay about the idea of “Chapter X”—the stage of life where the structure of career gives way to something far more open-ended.

What happens when the ladder of achievement disappears? How do you redefine success when productivity is no longer the main measure of value? And how can curiosity become the compass for designing a meaningful life after work?

This episode explores the identity shift that many retirees experience and offers a simple but powerful question that can help you begin writing your next chapter.

Key Topics Covered

1. Retirement Is More Than a Financial Transition

• Why retirement planning often ignores the identity shift
• How work provides structure, meaning, and social identity

2. The Identity Gap

• What happens when your job title disappears
• Why high achievers often struggle most with this transition

3. The Concept of “Chapter X”

• Retirement as an undefined chapter of exploration
• Why uncertainty can actually be an opportunity

4. Reclaiming Beginner’s Mind

• Why curiosity matters more than expertise after retirement
• Learning to try new things without pressure to master them

5. Redefining Success

• Moving from productivity-based identity to meaning-based living
• Designing days around values instead of expectations

Reflection Questions:

• If someone asked who you are today—without referencing your career—how would you answer?
• What parts of your identity were shaped by your work?
• Where could curiosity lead you in this next stage of life?
• What does success look like for you now?
• What small experiment could you try this month?

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Michael F. Kay spent decades as a CPA and financial professional before transitioning into life coaching focused on the emotional and identity side of retirement. In this conversation, he explains the origin of “Chapter X” (solve for X) and why many high-performing men reach retirement without a clear picture of what comes next.

Together, Jacquie and Michael unpack the universal fears that show up in retirement—relevance, vitality, identity—and why the solution is never one-size-fits-all. Michael shares practical ways to reclaim curiosity, experiment without pressure, and let go of ego-driven competition that no longer serves you. They also talk about the value of remembering past transitions (your first day at work, your first promotion) as proof you already have the tools to navigate change. Michael describes exercises from his book—including writing a multi-perspective eulogy—to clarify values and live intentionally now. The episode closes with a powerful reminder: retirement is your chance to curate your days around meaning and joy, not “shoulds,” deadlines, or status.

Key topics discussed

• Michael’s path: musician → CPA → financial life planner → life coach
• Why retirement questions start with: “What does that mean to you?” • The origin of “Chapter X” and the idea of “solve for X”
• What “X” really is: what gets you out of bed, meaning, purpose, curiosity
• Why high-performing men often struggle more with the transition
• Identity beyond the job title: “Who are you when you’re no longer your job?”
• The danger of “waiting to die” and the sadness of purposeless later years
• Depression in seniors and the pull of living in the past
• Retirement as a new transition: reclaiming a beginner’s mind
• No one dies from being uncomfortable: normalizing transition anxiety
• Unlearning: ego, competition, ladder-climbing, and “should”
• Go-go / slow-go / no-go stages and using vitality wisely
• Contribution doesn’t have to be big: small acts that lift others
• Joy as a filter: if it isn’t joyful, don’t do it
• Curating your day: energy, sleep, priorities, and flexibility
• The book’s process: progressive exercises + expert chapters (gerontology, psychology, exercise, couples)
• The eulogy exercise: clarifying values and living them now

Action steps:

1. Define your X: Write down what you want to get out of bed for in this season of life.
2. Try a beginner’s mind experiment: Pick one new activity and commit to 3 tries—no pressure to “be good.”
3. Audit your “shoulds”: List the things you do out of obligation; cross out one this week.
4. Recall a past transition: Write about your first day at your first real job—what did you learn about adapting?
5. Create a 2–3 item day: Put only 2–3 priorities on your calendar, leaving space for joy.

Connect with Michael: https://michaelfkay.com

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In this solo episode of Beyond Retirement, Jacquie reflects on her conversation with Jermaine Ee (founder of HeirLight) from Episode 294. She distills Jermaine’s wisdom on living intentionally, defining “enough,” and designing ordinary days that feel truly meaningful. Listeners get practical prompts and small experiments to bring more clarity, gratitude, and purpose into their daily retirement life.

Why this matters

Retirement isn’t just about filling a calendar—it’s about creating days that genuinely satisfy. Jacquie explores how to step out of comparison, focus on what matters, and design a “perfect average day” that brings joy, not just busyness.

What we covered

• The power of asking: “What would I do every day if money and recognition didn’t matter?”
• Living with clarity: identifying what truly matters now
• Defining “enough” and escaping the comparison trap
• Jermaine’s “tiny list” strategy for whose opinions matter
• Designing your “perfect average day” (and why it’s more important than big dreams)
• Meaning vs. busyness: how to choose fulfillment over a packed schedule
• Legacy, conversations, and not waiting for the “perfect” moment
• Bonus tips: new communities, prioritizing health, staying curious, capturing memories

Key takeaways

• Clarity is love in practical form.
• Comparison is the thief of joy.
• Designing small, meaningful days matters more than chasing big achievements.
• Don’t wait to have important conversations or experiences.
• Retirement is richer when you choose relationships, activities, and routines that energize you.

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