Beyond The Patriarchal Spell

Following up on the recent conversation with Dave Kramer regarding the tragic case of Hannah Clarke and her three children, this episode delves deeper into the systemic and cultural frameworks that enable domestic violence and coercive control.

This episode is a call for greater awareness, self-inquiry, and accountability from everyone, whether you are a man, woman, or couple, to engage in the hard work of self-inquiry. These reflections are essentials to dismantle the generational trauma of patriarchy and build relationships based on true harmony, mutual respect and safety.

LINKS

Free Tigress Event, 30th March 2026. Get the tickets ⁠⁠here⁠⁠

Get your guide to going beyond patriarchal sex ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠

Signature course discount: ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠

Be part of the patriarchal sex research survey ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠

Dévashi on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠

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Created by ⁠⁠⁠⁠The Tigress Path⁠⁠⁠⁠

Music by Wendy Rule

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Dévashi Shakti is a leading pioneer of women's somatic nervous system wisdom, female embodiment, and is the empathic provocateur behind the Beyond P.S. Project. She is the creator of the first comprehensive female embodiment practice for women with Tigress® Yoga. Ask her about training in The Tigress Method and more. Join the email list at The Tigress Path website to hear about live in person events. Get in touch about customized 1:1 mentoring for women & couples for embodied transformation.

Dave Kramer is a Behavioral Scientist and Violence Prevention Specialist. Here, I and Dave discuss the critical and complex issue of coercive control and domestic violence.

Dave shares the personal and profound impact of the tragic loss of Hannah Clarke and her three children. We explore the subtle, yet dangerous patterns of behavior that define coercive control and the urgent need for community education and systemic change.

LINKS

Free Tigress Event, 30th March 2026. Get the tickets ⁠here⁠

Get your guide to going beyond patriarchal sex ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠

Signature course discount: ⁠support@thetigresspath.com⁠⁠

Be part of the patriarchal sex research survey ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠

Dévashi on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠

Connect on Instagram - ⁠⁠⁠@thetigresspath⁠⁠⁠

EPISODE CREDITS

Created by ⁠⁠⁠The Tigress Path⁠⁠⁠

https://www.thetigresspath.com/

Music by Wendy Rule

Dave Kramer's

Instagram - @_davekramer

Tiktok - @_davekramer

YouTube: @dave_kramer

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Dévashi Shakti is a leading pioneer of women's somatic nervous system wisdom, female embodiment, and is the empathic provocateur behind the Beyond P.S. Project. She is the creator of the first comprehensive female embodiment practice for women with Tigress® Yoga. Ask her about training in The Tigress Method and more. Join the email list at The Tigress Path website to hear about live in person events. Get in touch about customized 1:1 mentoring for women & couples for embodied transformation.

Caitlin Roper, a researcher and advocate for women and girls, dismantles the "patriarchal sex" paradigm; a system where true intimacy is often replaced by power dynamics and women are reduced to objects for male gratification.

LINKS

Get your guide to going beyond patriarchal sex ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠here⁠⁠

Signature course discount: ⁠[email protected]⁠

Be part of the patriarchal sex research survey ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠

Dévashi on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠

Connect on Instagram - ⁠⁠@thetigresspath⁠⁠

EPISODE CREDITS

Created by ⁠⁠The Tigress Path⁠⁠

Music by Wendy Rule

Collective Shout ⁠

Join the campaign ⁠here⁠

⁠Caitlin Roper's book: Sex Dolls, Robots and Woman Hating: The Case for Resistance

Instagram - @itscaitlinroper

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Dévashi Shakti is a leading pioneer of women's somatic nervous system wisdom, female embodiment, and is the empathic provocateur behind the Beyond P.S. Project. She is the creator of the first comprehensive female embodiment practice for women with Tigress® Yoga. Ask her about training in The Tigress Method and more. Join the email list at The Tigress Path website to hear about live in person events. Get in touch about customized 1:1 mentoring for women & couples for embodied transformation.

Therapeutic support within a relationship, as a form of self-care and shared evolution, is still relatively new across many cultures. Yet without conscious communication and relational skills, conflict can leave lasting impacts on everyone - including children and how they experience intimacy later in life. In this episode with Relationship Counsellor Barbra (Barbi) Joffe, we explore developing relational skills as a pathway to living beyond the patriarchal sex paradigm.

LINKS

Free Tigress Event, 30th March 2026. Get the tickets here

Get your guide to going beyond patriarchal sex ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠here⁠⁠

Signature course discount: [email protected]

Be part of the patriarchal sex research survey ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠

Dévashi on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠

Connect on Instagram - ⁠⁠@thetigresspath⁠⁠

EPISODE CREDITS

Created by ⁠⁠The Tigress Path⁠⁠

Music by Wendy Rule

Barbra Joffe Website

⁠www.samadeeplistening.com⁠

⁠@barbi_beauty_way⁠

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Dévashi Shakti is a leading pioneer of women's somatic nervous system wisdom, female embodiment, and is the empathic provocateur behind the Beyond P.S. Project. She is the creator of the first comprehensive female embodiment practice for women with Tigress® Yoga. Ask her about training in The Tigress Method and more. Join the email list at The Tigress Path website to hear about live in person events. Get in touch about customized 1:1 mentoring for women & couples for embodied transformation.

Carly Mountain, a psychotherapist, somatic initiatress, and author, explored the radical act of "un-dressing" from the performative roles assigned to women by a patriarchal society. In the full episode 8, Carly and I discussed in depth on how true sexual liberation isn't something we learn from the outside in, but an authentic energy that must emerge from the inside out.

LINKS

Get your guide to going beyond patriarchal sex ⁠⁠ ⁠here⁠

Signature course discount: [email protected]

Be part of the patriarchal sex research survey ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠

Dévashi on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠

Connect on Instagram - ⁠@thetigresspath⁠

EPISODE CREDITS

Created by ⁠The Tigress Path⁠

Music by Wendy Rule

Carly's website⁠

⁠Descent and Rising book⁠

@carly_mountain

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Dévashi Shakti is a leading pioneer of women's somatic nervous system wisdom, female embodiment, and is the empathic provocateur behind the Beyond P.S. Project. She is the creator of the first comprehensive female embodiment practice for women with Tigress® Yoga. Ask her about training in The Tigress Method and more. Join the email list at The Tigress Path website to hear about live in person events. Get in touch about customized 1:1 mentoring for women & couples for embodied transformation.

In this episode, I speak with a pioneer of Conscious Sexuality Education, Dr. Steve Bodansky. For over 50 years, Steve has been immersed in the lived practice and teaching of pleasure as a relational art. His specialty is female pleasure. This is especially for sexuality educators, embodied practitioners, and the pleasure connoisseurs. It's also for those who want to experience connected pleasure as they age. With five decades immersed in conscious intimacy practices and a deep interest in Buddhism, Steve’s embodiment of relaxation, joyful detachment, and playful presence is unmistakable. His life reflects the longevity, quality of connection, and mutual enjoyment that become possible when female pleasure is fully explored and honoured within relationship.

LINKS

Get your guide to going beyond patriarchal sex ⁠⁠ here

Signature course discount: [email protected]

Be part of the patriarchal sex research survey ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here

Dévashi on ⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook

Connect on Instagram - @thetigresspath

EPISODE CREDITS

Created by The Tigress Path

Music by Wendy Rule

Steve Bodansky website

Demonstration video

Steve Bodansky Instagram - @stevebodansky

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Dévashi Shakti is a leading pioneer of women's somatic nervous system wisdom, female embodiment, and is the empathic provocateur behind the Beyond P.S. Project. She is the creator of the first comprehensive female embodiment practice for women with Tigress® Yoga. Ask her about training in The Tigress Method and more. Join the email list at The Tigress Path website to hear about live in person events. Get in touch about customized 1:1 mentoring for women & couples for embodied transformation.

Here Susan Bratton speaks of online censorship against those capable of educating others on how to live beyond patriarchal s*x. The information, knowledge, and practical steps needed to move humanity forward are available, yet that message is actively suppressed. In the full episode #6, we talked about how guarding profit at the top isn't that simple; and how there might be a concerted effort to suppress female desire. Because when humanity is awake, we are uncontrollable. With a direct connection to Life/ to God, maybe there wouldn't be a role for the overlords who try to control consciousness expansion.

BIO

Susan Bratton is an intimacy expert to millions. She is a champion and advocate for all those who desire ageless intimacy. Susan is a best-selling author and publisher of 44 books and programs including Sexual Soulmates, Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, The Steamy Sex Ed® Video Collection, Ravish Him, Dirty Talk, The Pumping Guide and Thrust In Time. She’s the official company spokesperson for ⁠GAINSWave®⁠ and ⁠The Dr. Joel Kaplan Company⁠. She serves as Chief Advocacy Officer of ⁠ProDxHealth.org⁠ STItesting.

⁠Susan's website ⁠

⁠Educational programs⁠

Susan on instagram - ⁠@susanbratton

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Get your guide to going beyond patriarchal sex ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠.⁠⁠

Find the patriarchal sex research survey ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

How you can get your partner into this exploration of living beyond PS?

• ​Firstly by listening to one of the podcast episodes here together & share about how it relates to you​
• Take the PS survey & talk about it with each other ​
• Discuss episodes with friends ​
• And for women: look into The Tigress Path , where you get to deepen relationship with yourself first - starting privately or with group events, join the email list from ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://thetigresspath.com/⁠⁠ website to free yourself as a woman & be part of this evolution

Dévashi Shakti is a leading pioneer of women's somatic nervous system wisdom, female embodiment, and is the Empathic Provocateur behind the Beyond P.S. Project. In her role as an Intimacy Confidante, she has been the keeper of secrets both women and men have shared with her, for the past 25+ years.

This long immersion guiding both women and men, gives her teaching a unique edge, all about united evolution for personal & planetary awakening. Her work with The Tigress Path has been instrumental in disrupting the matrix and opening the global movement of female embodiment. Women can explore Tigress to be embodied and to bring women's somatic wisdom to their clients with professional training.

⁠⁠The Tigress Path ⁠website ⁠⁠⁠

⁠http://thetigresspath.com/⁠

Connect with Dévashi on ⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠

Connect on Instagram (⁠⁠⁠⁠@thetigresspath⁠)

This grounded conversation with a radiant wise woman is essential if you want partnership, marriage, or to start a family. It can also help men better understand the female experience. Helen speaks of a woman living close to the hearth of her inner fire in a long-term relationship. Our conversation covers finances, feminine value, generating magnetic intimacy, fertility, and more. Helen affirms how taking time for conscious connection with each other and with yourself, can still happen in the pressures of the current times.

BIO

Helen Zee supports women and couples through one of the most sacred rites of passage—conscious conception. Her approach integrates fertility science, somatic therapy, and relational intimacy practices helping transform fear, isolation, or pressure into deep trust, connection, and vitality.

The sweet spot in creating the conditions for thriving love, embodied wellbeing, and soul-aligned family-building starts with the parents. And that is the change Helen wants to facilitate in the world. Through programs, retreats, and personalised coaching, people receive practical tools, compassionate guidance, and a whole-person roadmap to becoming family-ready—emotionally, physically, and spiritually.

Website

www.helenzee.com

Facebook

https://www.facebook.com/helen.zee.14

Instagram - @helen_zee_intimacy_coach

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⁠⁠🎙️ send Dévashi a voice not⁠e⁠⁠

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Get your guide to going beyond patriarchal sex ⁠⁠⁠here⁠.⁠⁠

Find the patriarchal sex research survey ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

How you can get your partner into this exploration of living beyond PS?

• ​Firstly by listening to one of the podcast episodes here together & share about how it relates to you​
• Take the PS survey & talk about it with each other
• ​Discuss episodes with friends ​
• And for women: look into The Tigress Path , where you get to deepen relationship with yourself first - starting privately or with group events, join the email list from ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://thetigresspath.com/⁠⁠ website to free yourself as a woman & be part of this evolution

Dévashi Shakti is a leading pioneer of women's somatic nervous system wisdom, female embodiment, and is the Empathic Provocateur behind the Beyond P.S. Project. In her role as an Intimacy Confidante, she has been the keeper of secrets both women and men have shared with her, for the past 25+ years.

This long immersion guiding both women and men, gives her teaching a unique edge, all about united evolution for personal & planetary awakening. Her work with The Tigress Path has been instrumental in disrupting the matrix and opening the global movement of female embodiment. Women can explore Tigress to be embodied and to bring women's somatic wisdom to their clients with professional training.

⁠⁠The Tigress Path ⁠website ⁠⁠⁠

http://thetigresspath.com/

Connect with Dévashi on ⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠

Connect on Instagram (⁠⁠⁠@thetigresspath)

It’s a term many misunderstand, Patriarchy. It isn’t another name for men or masculinity. Here Robert Jensen who was a Professor at the University of Texas, speaks an accurate definition of it.

BIO

Robert Jensen is an Emeritus Professor in the School of Journalism at the University of Texas at Austin. He has been a prolific author and activist who writes on topics such as radical feminism, environmental collapse, climate crisis, patriarchy, racism, and constructive dialogue.

Robert Jensen website⁠ - free downloads

⁠Ted X: Radical Feminism⁠

⁠Robert's Essay on Patriarchal S*x⁠

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⁠🎙️ send Dévashi a voice not⁠e⁠

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Get your guide to going beyond patriarchal sex ⁠⁠here.⁠⁠

Find the patriarchal sex research survey ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

How you can get your partner into this exploration of living beyond PS?

• ​Firstly by listening to one of the podcast episodes here together & share about how it relates to you
• ​Take the PS survey & talk about it with each other
• ​Discuss episodes with friends
• ​And for women: look into The Tigress Path , where you get to deepen relationship with yourself first - starting privately or with group events, join the email list from ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://thetigresspath.com/⁠ website to free yourself as a woman & be part of this evolution

Dévashi Shakti is a leading pioneer of women's somatic nervous system wisdom, female embodiment, and is the Empathic Provocateur behind the Beyond P.S. Project. In her role as an Intimacy Confidante, she has been the keeper of secrets both women and men have shared with her, for the past 25+ years.

This long immersion guiding both women and men, gives her teaching a unique edge, all about united evolution for personal & planetary awakening. Her work with The Tigress Path has been instrumental in disrupting the matrix and opening the global movement of female embodiment. Women can explore Tigress to be embodied and to bring women's somatic wisdom to their clients with professional training.

⁠The Tigress Path ⁠website ⁠⁠

http://thetigresspath.com/

Connect with Dévashi on ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠

Connect on Instagram (⁠⁠@thethgresspath⁠⁠)

Tyson has deeply explored pornography and how it affects men's psyches. Now he assists other men to cleanse and move beyond what I call normalized violence against women. For men it's also a normalized form of self abuse, or self inflicted violence. Through personal experiences, Tyson learned how to overcome porn use and addiction, turning it into a physical dearmouring adventure toward healing and somatic liberation. Despite the current research on dopamine and porn addiction, few people mention the energetic aspects of porn use discussed in this episode, such as clearing the negative or demonic influences.

BIO

Tyson Adams brings an unconventional approach to detoxing from porn and s*x addiction. He helps men outgrow porn, master semen retention and last longer in the bedroom. He offers men's work, specialising in IFS Therapy, Bodywork, Psychadelic Facilitation and S*x Coaching. Tyson is based in US, offering services for both men and couples.

Instagram - @tysonadams__

Facebook - adams.tyson

Free massage training for clearing porn: https://vimeo.com/881202184/9f9dcbf11a

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Get your guide to going beyond patriarchal sex ⁠here.⁠

Find the patriarchal sex research survey ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

How you can get your partner into this exploration of living beyond PS?

• ​Firstly by listening to one of the podcast episodes here together & share about how it relates to you
• ​Take the PS survey & talk about it with each other
• ​Discuss episodes with friends
• ​And for women: look into The Tigress Path , where you get to deepen relationship with yourself first - starting privately or with group events, join the email list from ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://thetigresspath.com/ website to free yourself as a woman & be part of this evolution

Dévashi Shakti is a leading pioneer of women's somatic nervous system wisdom, female embodiment, and is the Empathic Provocateur behind the Beyond P.S. Project. In her role as an Intimacy Confidante, she has been the keeper of secrets both women and men have shared with her, for the past 25+ years. This long immersion guiding both women and men, gives her teaching a unique edge, all about united evolution for personal & planetary awakening. Her work with The Tigress Path has been instrumental in disrupting the matrix and opening the global movement of female embodiment. Women can explore Tigress to be embodied and to bring women's somatic wisdom to their clients with professional training.

The Tigress Path ⁠website ⁠

Connect with Dévashi on ⁠Facebook⁠

Connect on Instagram (⁠@thedevashishakti⁠)