Beyond The Patriarchal Spell

This episode is for everyone, but especially couples. Not all relationship therapists are taught about sex and intimacy. Not all therapists who include your sex life in their therapy have questioned patriarchy. Finding a Couples Therapist like Rachel Boyle, means you are starting in the best possible way for authenticity and embodiment beyond trauma and beyond patriarchal sex.

BIO

Rachel Boyle is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in Nevada and Washington, USA. She specializes in sex therapy, couples therapy, and women’s sexual health in perimenopause and menopause. With advanced trauma training, she helps clients heal from past experiences that contribute to anxiety, relationship struggles, intimacy and emotional disconnection. She is also a sex therapist with specialized training through ISSWSH (International Society for the Study of Women’s Sexual Health) and AASECT (American Association of Sexuality, Educators, Counselors, and Therapists).

Web: www.rachelboyle.com

Instagram - @rachelboyletherapy

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Created by ⁠⁠⁠Dévashi Shakti

Music by Wendy Rule

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Dévashi Shakti is a leading pioneer of women's somatic nervous system wisdom, female embodiment, and is the empathic provocateur behind the Beyond P.S. Project. She is the creator of the first comprehensive female embodiment practice for women with Tigress® Yoga. Ask her about training in The Tigress Method and more. Join the email list at The Tigress Path website to hear about live in person events. Get in touch about customized 1:1 mentoring for women & couples for embodied transformation.

People worldwide experience the limitations of patriarchal sex. Because it has been happening for so long, it often goes unrecognized. The Beyond Patriarchal Sex project is a cross-cultural collective inquiry, so I'm grateful when people bring their views based on their various cultural experiences. Prasanna has a channel that analyses patriarchal behaviours in Indian movies, which helps people clearly identify them. In this conversation, he told me about the Manusmriti - which is basically a handbook for patriarchal relating.

BIO

Prasanna Shivakamat helps people see what they've never been taught to question. Known as 'The Unlearn Guy,' he is the creator of Unlearn With Prasanna - a growing movement around identifying the invisible conditioning that shapes our choices, relationships, careers, and identities. As Global Head of People Development at Atos, he builds learning ecosystems for 65,000+ employees navigating the age of AI. Awarded 'Future Learning Leader' 2024, Prasanna brings a rare blend of corporate depth and personal clarity to every conversation. His belief: you don't need more advice - you need to see clearly.

Web: https://linktr.ee/connectunlearn

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EPISODE CREDITS

Created by ⁠⁠⁠Dévashi Shakti

Music by Wendy Rule

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Dévashi Shakti is a leading pioneer of women's somatic nervous system wisdom, female embodiment, and is the empathic provocateur behind the Beyond P.S. Project. She is the creator of the first comprehensive female embodiment practice for women with Tigress® Yoga. Ask her about training in The Tigress Method and more. Join the email list at The Tigress Path website to hear about live in person events. Get in touch about customized 1:1 mentoring for women & couples for embodied transformation.

Hear from the savvy creator of 'Make Love Not Porn'. Many people have talked about creating a healthy alternative to typical porn, meanwhile Cindy Gallop has actually done it. People report how learning creativity and bringing authentic connection into their sex has changed their lives. With her team at MLNP, they screen every video to ensure it avoids demonstrations of patriarchal sex. Cindy's social sex revolution gives people a practical and visual way to get real sex education.

BIO

Cindy Gallop is the founder & CEO of MakeLoveNotPorn, launched at TED 2009. The huge response led her to turn MakeLoveNotPorn – ‘Pro-sex. Pro-porn. Pro-knowing the difference’ - into the world’s first user-generated, 100% human-curated social sex videosharing platform. If porn is the Hollywood blockbuster movie, MakeLoveNotPorn is the badly-needed documentary: normalizing and destigmatizing sex to promote consent, communication, good sexual values and behavior, as sex education through real world demonstration, with a mission to help end rape culture globally. Cindy and her team have just launched MakeLoveNotPorn Academy, ‘the Google of sex ed’ in early stage beta - a global aggregator hub that makes the best of the world’s sex education easily searchable and accessible for every age. Cindy speaks at conferences and consults, describing her approach as ‘I like to blow shit up. I am the Michael Bay of business.’

website

https://makelovenotporn.tv

instagram - @cindygallop

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Take the patriarchal sex research survey ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠

Book your free Connection Call: ⁠⁠⁠⁠Private Mentoring⁠⁠⁠⁠

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@thetigresspath

EPISODE CREDITS

Created by ⁠⁠⁠Dévashi Shakti

Music by Wendy Rule

🐆

Dévashi Shakti is a leading pioneer of women's somatic nervous system wisdom, female embodiment, and is the empathic provocateur behind the Beyond P.S. Project. She is the creator of the first comprehensive female embodiment practice for women with Tigress® Yoga. Ask her about training in The Tigress Method and more. Join the email list at The Tigress Path website to hear about live in person events. Get in touch about customized 1:1 mentoring for women & couples for embodied transformation.

The way everyone was taught to do relationship needs questioning. It seems that focusing on roles is the most important thing for security and survival; yet other important things become destabilized and tend not to survive in that configuration. Is more stability possible when approaching relationship from a more evolutionary perspective? This short episode invites you to ask yourself a few questions that help loosen the grip of the patriarchal relating paradigm.

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⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🎙️ send Dévashi a voice not⁠e⁠

Take the patriarchal sex research survey ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠

Book your free Connection Call: ⁠⁠⁠Private Mentoring⁠⁠⁠

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@thetigresspath

EPISODE CREDITS

Created by ⁠⁠⁠Dévashi Shakti

Music by Wendy Rule

🐆

Dévashi Shakti is a leading pioneer of women's somatic nervous system wisdom, female embodiment, and is the empathic provocateur behind the Beyond P.S. Project. She is the creator of the first comprehensive female embodiment practice for women with Tigress® Yoga. Ask her about training in The Tigress Method and more. Join the email list at The Tigress Path website to hear about live in person events. Get in touch about customized 1:1 mentoring for women & couples for embodied transformation.

Richard Stanley is an esoteric historian and so much more, who kindly indulged my questions about romantic love, social structures, and historical dynamics that maintain the Patriarchal Sex paradigm. He shared the history based on his location in Montsegur, Southern France. If you appreciate ancient history, the Goddess tradition, the Cathars, Montsegur, the Holy Grail, the Temple of Solomon and more, you will love this episode.

Bio

Richard Stanley is an anthropologist, film maker, documentarist, esoteric historian and author. He has written and directed several feature films, including 'HARDWARE' (1990), 'DUST DEVIL” (1993) and 'COLOR OUT OF SPACE' (2019) which are widely considered to be cult classics. His writing includes his recent book 'OTTO RAHN – GRAIL HUNTER' (2025) and numerous cover stories for Britain's leading paranormal journal 'The Fortean Times'. He lives in Montsegur France, supporting the region's status as a world heritage site.

Website: www.theofficialrichardstanley.com

Facebook: www.facebook.com/richard.stanley.925

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EPISODE CREDITS

Created by ⁠⁠⁠Dévashi Shakti

Music by Wendy Rule

🐆

Dévashi Shakti is a leading pioneer of women's somatic nervous system wisdom, female embodiment, and is the empathic provocateur behind the Beyond P.S. Project. She is the creator of the first comprehensive female embodiment practice for women with Tigress® Yoga. Ask her about training in The Tigress Method and more. Join the email list at The Tigress Path website to hear about live in person events. Get in touch about customized 1:1 mentoring for women & couples for embodied transformation.

Is the person who mentions 'patriarchy' failing to be empowered? Shouldn't we overcome all issues internally to succeed in life? Only those at the top of the false power pyramid can pretend that a worldwide injustice doesn't exist. In the Beyond Patriarchal Sex inquiry, pattern recognition isn't seen as a personal failure. How we relate to the dynamic of patriarchy is important, but don't let people gaslight you, as a way to avoid it being identified.

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Enjoy the free guided Sensual Rejuvenation practice + be on the email list to know about The Tigress Path events for women: ⁠www.thetigresspath.com⁠

Training: Women's Somatic Sovereignty Certification - join the email list above.

Take the patriarchal sex research survey ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠

Book your free Connection Call: ⁠Private Mentoring⁠

Connect with Dévashi on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠

Connect on ⁠Instagram⁠, ⁠Youtube⁠, ⁠Substack

@thetigresspath

EPISODE CREDITS

Created by ⁠⁠⁠Dévashi Shakti

Music by Wendy Rule

🐆

Dévashi Shakti is a leading pioneer of women's somatic nervous system wisdom, female embodiment, and is the empathic provocateur behind the Beyond P.S. Project. She is the creator of the first comprehensive female embodiment practice for women with Tigress® Yoga. Ask her about training in The Tigress Method and more. Join the email list at The Tigress Path website to hear about live in person events. Get in touch about customized 1:1 mentoring for women & couples for embodied transformation.

Today's invisible guest is Farida D. whose writing you may recognize from instagram. With over 200 thousand followers, Farida courageusly writes "what we are afraid to feel". She keeps her image and identity concealed for self-protection. As a highly educated Arab woman from a culture where patriarchy is so obvious, Farida has insights for women of all cultures to hear and be inspired by.

BIO

Farida D. is an Arab gender researcher and poet, studying Arab women’s everyday oppressions for over a decade. Through the process, she broke up with her hijab, set her high heels on fire, and authored a series of books. Farida’s words have been on BBC Radio London, are continuously amplified by celebrities, and all over social media.

website - www.faridad.com

instagram - @farida.d.author

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Enjoy the free guided Sensual Rejuvenation practice + be on the email list to know about The Tigress Path events for women: www.thetigresspath.com

Training: Women's Somatic Sovereignty Certification - join the email list above.

Take the patriarchal sex research survey ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here

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@thetigresspath

EPISODE CREDITS

Created by ⁠⁠⁠Dévashi Shakti

Music by Wendy Rule

🐆

Dévashi Shakti is a leading pioneer of women's somatic nervous system wisdom, female embodiment, and is the empathic provocateur behind the Beyond P.S. Project. She is the creator of the first comprehensive female embodiment practice for women with Tigress® Yoga. Ask her about training in The Tigress Method and more. Join the email list at The Tigress Path website to hear about live in person events. Get in touch about customized 1:1 mentoring for women & couples for embodied transformation.

What is said in this episode is not excusing the pathological behaviors of men in the 'online rape academy', but it does help explain it while replacing the increased division between men and women that has been stirred up, with an elevated sense of compassion. It's about holding the men responsible for their criminal behaviors, while also looking at ways to go beyond the entire cycle of abuse.

LINKS

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EPISODE CREDITS

Created by ⁠⁠⁠The Tigress Path⁠⁠⁠

Music by Wendy Rule

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Dévashi Shakti is a leading pioneer of women's somatic nervous system wisdom, female embodiment, and is the empathic provocateur behind the Beyond P.S. Project. She is the creator of the first comprehensive female embodiment practice for women with Tigress® Yoga. Ask her about training in The Tigress Method and more. Join the email list at The Tigress Path website to hear about live in person events. Get in touch about customized 1:1 mentoring for women & couples for embodied transformation.

Are your relationships offering you a container to grow in, or a cage to conform to? Katie Moriarty dives into the essential need for emotional capacity in a partner, arguing that a man who is shut off from his own depth cannot appreciate the gift of a woman’s full expression.

LINKS

Free Tigress Event, 30th March 2026. Get the tickets ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠

Get your guide to going beyond patriarchal sex ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Signature course discount: ⁠⁠support@thetigre⁠⁠sspath.com⁠⁠⁠

Be part of the patriarchal sex research survey ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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EPISODE CREDITS

Created by ⁠⁠⁠The Tigress Path⁠⁠⁠

⁠https://www.thetigresspath.com/⁠

Music by Wendy Rule

Katie on ⁠Facebook⁠

Katie on Instagram - ⁠@thefullspectrumfemme⁠

Katie on Linkedin - ⁠Katie Moriarty⁠

Katie's ⁠Podcast

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Dévashi Shakti is a leading pioneer of women's somatic nervous system wisdom, female embodiment, and is the empathic provocateur behind the Beyond P.S. Project. She is the creator of the first comprehensive female embodiment practice for women with Tigress® Yoga. Ask her about training in The Tigress Method and more. Join the email list at The Tigress Path website to hear about live in person events. Get in touch about customized 1:1 mentoring for women & couples for embodied transformation.

It's so helpful to have Women's Pelvic and Sexual Health Educator + Physiotherapist, Lisa Fitzpatrick enter this conversation on the reality of patriarchal sex. While the value of this episode might be obvious for women, men are also invited to this conversation. Understanding each other's lived experience is crucial moving beyond the patriarchal sex paradigm together. I'm also excited by the real impact that naming patriarchal sex can gradually have on shifting the medical model for women's health when more health practitioners integrate this awareness into their work.

LINKS

Free Tigress Event, 30th March 2026. Get the tickets ⁠⁠here⁠⁠

Get your guide to going beyond patriarchal sex ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠

Signature course discount: ⁠⁠support@thetigre⁠⁠sspath.com⁠⁠⁠

Be part of the patriarchal sex research survey ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠

Dévashi on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠

Connect on Instagram - ⁠⁠⁠⁠@thetigresspath⁠⁠⁠⁠

EPISODE CREDITS

Created by ⁠⁠⁠The Tigress Path⁠⁠⁠

⁠https://www.thetigresspath.com/⁠

Music by Wendy Rule

Lisa's website + book

https://www.sexymenopause.com

Instagram - @sexy.menopause

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Dévashi Shakti is a leading pioneer of women's somatic nervous system wisdom, female embodiment, and is the empathic provocateur behind the Beyond P.S. Project. She is the creator of the first comprehensive female embodiment practice for women with Tigress® Yoga. Ask her about training in The Tigress Method and more. Join the email list at The Tigress Path website to hear about live in person events. Get in touch about customized 1:1 mentoring for women & couples for embodied transformation.