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October 23, 2024 Couples Edition - A Two and Four in Harmony: A Conversation with Rod and Christina
In this episode of EnneagramU, hosts Damon and Kelly welcome Rod and Christina, a married couple with Enneagram types Two and Four. They share insights into how their different Enneagram types complement and challenge each other in their 25-year marriage. They discuss the strengths and struggles of their personality pairing, how the Enneagram has helped their relationship, and offer advice for other couples. Topics include managing emotional needs, setting boundaries, and finding balance between helping and authenticity. This candid conversation offers valuable perspectives on love, communication, and personal growth through the lens of the Enneagram.
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40 min
October 16, 2024 Couples Edition - Two Twos: A Conversation with Brock and Christy
In this heartwarming episode, hosts Damon and Kelly welcome Brock and Christy, a married couple who are both Enneagram Type 2s. They share their unique love story and discuss the joys and challenges of being two 'Helpers' in a relationship. They offer insights into how their shared personality type impacts their marriage, from their superpower of 'mind-reading' to navigating conflict as two people-pleasers. The conversation touches on topics like celebration, self-care, and the importance of finding worth beyond affirmation. This episode provides valuable relationship advice and a fascinating look at compatibility between same-type partners, challenging common Enneagram assumptions. A must-listen for Enneagram enthusiasts and anyone interested in the dynamics of healthy relationships.
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35 min
October 09, 2024 Couples Edition: Exploring Relationship Dynamics with Ronnie and Liz
In this special couples edition of EnneagramU, hosts Damon and Kelly welcome their first guest couple - Ronnie and Liz Lee. Married for 21 years, Ronnie (an Enneagram 9) and Liz (an Enneagram 1) share insights into how their different personality types complement and challenge each other in their relationship. They discuss the strengths and growth areas of 9s and 1s, how understanding the Enneagram has improved their communication and empathy, and offer advice for other couples navigating personality differences. Ronnie and Liz also reveal their "couple superpower" and "kryptonite", providing a candid look at the dynamics of a 9-1 pairing. Whether you're in a relationship or just interested in personality types, this episode offers valuable perspectives on using the Enneagram to foster understanding and growth in partnerships.
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41 min
October 02, 2024 The Heart Triad and Money: How Twos, Threes, and Fours Handle Finances
In this episode of EnneagramU, hosts Damon and Kelly welcome back financial expert Kimberly to discuss how the Heart Triad (Types 2, 3, and 4) interact with money. They explore the unique financial challenges and strengths of each type, offering practical advice on budgeting, spending, and maintaining healthy boundaries. Learn how Twos can balance their generous nature, Threes can celebrate financial milestones, and Fours can make budgeting more creative and aligned with their values. Whether you're in the Heart Triad or just want to understand it better, this episode provides valuable insights on creating a healthier relationship with money based on your Enneagram type.
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25 min
September 25, 2024 Nines and Their Relationship with God: Finding Peace and Purpose
In this episode of Enneagramu, hosts Damon and Kelly wrap up their series on Relationships and the Enneagram by exploring the Nine's relationship with God. They discuss how Nines may find it natural to trust and have faith, but can struggle with deepening their spiritual journey and asserting their individual path. The hosts share insights on how Nines can practice assertiveness as a spiritual discipline and connect with God through nature and fixed-hour prayer. Damon opens up about his own experiences as a Nine, including the challenges of discovering his personal passions and making decisions. The episode offers practical tips for Nines to grow spiritually while embracing their peaceful nature.
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30 min
September 18, 2024 Exploring the Peacemaker: A Nine's Perspective with Guest Jeremy
In this episode of EnneagramU, hosts Damon and Kelly welcome a special guest - Kelly's cousin Jeremy, who is an Enneagram Type 9.

Jeremy shares his journey of discovering he's a Nine, including how he initially thought he might be a Seven. The hosts explore what it's like to be on the healthy and unhealthy sides of a Nine, discussing topics like conflict avoidance, decision-making challenges, and the Nine's ability to bring harmony to any situation. Jeremy offers insights into how the Enneagram has helped him grow personally and in his relationships.

The episode provides a candid and relatable look at the Peacemaker type through Jeremy's experiences, offering valuable perspectives for Nines and those who want to understand them better.
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36 min
September 11, 2024 Relationship with the Enneagram 9: Peacemakers, Assertiveness, and Self-Care
n this episode of Enneagramu, hosts Kelly and Damon dive deep into exploring the Enneagram Type 9, known as "The Peacemaker." They discuss key traits of Nines, including their desire for harmony, struggle with assertiveness, and tendency to "merge" with others. The hosts offer insights on how Nines can practice using their voice, dealing with conflict in healthy ways, and prioritizing their own needs. They also provide tips for those in relationships with Nines on how to support and encourage them. Damon reflects on his own journey as a potential Nine, sharing personal examples that illuminate the inner world of this type. Whether you're a Nine yourself or want to better understand the Nines in your life, this episode offers valuable wisdom on harnessing the gifts of this peaceful personality type.
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34 min
September 04, 2024 Eights and Their Relationship with God: Challenges and Practices for the Challenger
This week on EnneagramU, Damon and Kelly discuss the relationship between Enneagram Type 8 personalities and their faith. They explore the challenges Eights may face in surrendering control and trusting in a higher power. Kelly shares personal anecdotes from her own faith journey as an Eight, including her initial resistance to religious pressure as a child. The hosts discuss how Eights can find meaningful ways to engage with their faith, such as through service and advocacy for causes they're passionate about. They also touch on the importance of accountability and self-reflection for Eights in their spiritual growth. The episode concludes with insights on how Eights can find rest and avoid burnout in their pursuit of justice and activism.

• They introduce the topic of eights (Enneagram Type 8) and their relationship with God.

• Kelly shares her personal experiences as an eight, including challenges with trusting and surrendering control to God.

• They discuss biblical examples of people who may have exhibited eight-like traits in their interactions with Jesus.

• The hosts outline "downstream" and "upstream" spiritual practices for eights, including serving others and journaling/accountability.
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32 min
August 28, 2024 The Power and Vulnerability of Enneagram 8s: Insights from Two Female Eights
In this enlightening episode, hosts Damon and Kelly are joined by special guest Valerie to explore the complex world of Enneagram Type 8s. Two female Eights share their personal experiences, discussing the challenges of vulnerability, the strength in directness, and the misconceptions surrounding this intense personality type. Learn about the healthy and unhealthy traits of Eights, how they navigate relationships, and what they need from others. Whether you're an Eight yourself or seeking to understand the Eights in your life, this episode offers valuable insights into the protective, passionate nature of this powerful personality type.
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42 min
August 21, 2024 Understanding Relationships with Enneagram Type 8: The Challenger's Intensity, Vulnerability, and Need for Direct Communication
In this episode of Enneagramu, Damon and Kelly dive deep into the world of Enneagram Type 8, known as "The Challenger" or "The Protector." They explore the intense energy, directness, and protective nature of Eights, discussing both their strengths and potential pitfalls. Kelly, an Eight herself, offers personal insights into the Eight's struggle with vulnerability and their approach to relationships. The hosts provide valuable tips for Eights on personal growth and advice for those in relationships with Eights. Learn about the Eight's leadership style, their need for trust, and how to effectively communicate with this powerful personality type. Don't miss this enlightening discussion on one of the Enneagram's most misunderstood types!
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31 min

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You're more than just a personality. Beyond Your Number is a conversational Enneagram podcast where Damon and Kelly dig into what makes people tick, and what to do with what you find.

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