Alix & Kayla dive into one of the most requested topics from the Sister Wives community: the experience of bi women in relationships with male partners. After asking their audience for stories and questions, they unpack everything from “allowed cheating” dynamics and open relationships to the emotional reality of choosing monogamy when you’re attracted to more than one gender. 

The conversation explores the complicated feelings that can come up in long-term relationships—like grieving parts of your identity, navigating attraction to others, and figuring out what honesty actually looks like in a committed partnership. They also discuss common assumptions people have about bisexual women, including threesomes, monogamy, and whether partners feel threatened by same-sex attraction. 

Through listener submissions and personal experiences, Alix & Kayla break down the nuances of bisexual identity, relationships, and the messy gray areas that rarely get talked about.

01:40 – Marriage “Myth or Truth” Game
 04:00 – Living & Recording in Nicaragua
 06:30 – Relationship Habits & Fight Dynamics
 10:20 – Today’s Topic: Bi Women With Male Partners
 11:00 – Is the Word “Female” Offensive?
 12:00 – Questions From the Sister Wives Community
 14:00 – Do Bi Women’s Partners Support LGBTQ+ Rights?
 15:10 – The Stereotypes: Threesomes & Open Relationships
 16:20 – Listener Story: Open Marriage With Women Only
 18:00 – What It’s Like “Turning Off” Part of Your Identity
 21:10 – The “Open Energy” of Being Single vs. Married
 23:30 – Grieving a Lifestyle or Version of Yourself
 26:30 – Attraction Outside of a Relationship
 27:50 – “Allowed Cheating” With Women
 30:00 – Do Men See Women as Less of a Threat?
 39:30 – When an Old Flame Reaches Out
 41:00 – Why Waiting Before Responding Matters
 45:00 – Honesty vs. Protecting Your Partner’s Feelings
 53:30 – Is It Okay to Talk to Friends About Relationship Problems?
 55:00 – Deal Breakers in Relationships

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