Julia is joined by cacklers Nick and Chase for their very first venture into the cursed depths of Reddit's Am I The Asshole. Horrors include: a husband's mysterious gaycation to Ibiza, a black market Labubu deal, a fuckboi horse with navy blue hay, and a man who is enchanted by his server's gongerous scalp. Plus, Chase's formative years herding sheep in Arizona, the sacred right to be rude at work, and personal legal drama… ALLEGEDLY!

For more Nick and Chase, check out their podcast Mumbling and Cackling!

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In the first episode of the new year, Julia is joined by Jewish Aliza to interrogate the concept of New Year's Resolutions. The girlies put on their therapist hats to explore the psychology behind a "fresh start," why most resolutions are doomed to fail, and how habits only stick once you stop trying to punish yourself into change. Digressions include Aliza's campaign to stop the lesbian yearning epidemic, debating whether being waterboarded is worse than proposing to a man, and the radical act of putting down The Bat.

This episode was produced by Julia Hava and Kylie Finnigan and edited by Livi Burdette.

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SOURCES

A.D.H.D. Videos on TikTok Are Often Misleading, New Study Finds

New Year's Resolutions Are Notoriously Slippery, but Science Can Help You Keep Them

New Year's resolutions: Who makes them and why

Speaking of Psychology: How the science of habits can help us keep our New Year's resolutions, with Wendy Wood, PhD

The Fresh Start Effect: Temporal Landmarks Motivate Aspirational Behavior

The History of New Year's Resolutions

The Psychology Behind New Year's Resolutions That Work

The Temporally Extended Self: The Relation of Past and Future Selves to Current Identity, Motivation, and Goal Pursuit

Why we need rituals, not routines

'You Could Not Waterboard Me Into Proposing to a Man'

Happy New Year, binchies!! In case you're looking to shake up ya life in 2026, we're releasing this formerly Patreon-only episode onto the main feed!

Join Julia and Nick as they unveil The Ten Commandments of Shaking Up Ya Life and counsel past and future shakestresses on their journeys. Digressions include Nick's updates from the dildo factory, society's declining birth rates, and living full time in Colonial Williamsburg.

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In the final episode of the year, Julia and Nick deliver our annual pop culture recap, revisiting the most absurd moments of 2025, including Hawk Tuah insisting she did a Zoom in North Korea, JoJo Siwa's straight rebrand, and the birth of Aquaman Moses Paytas-Hacmon. Digressions include: Nick's Looney Tunes–ass passport horrors, modern headphone dependency, and the importance of having mutuals with a baby.

This episode was produced by Julia Hava and Kylie Finnigan and edited by Livi Burdette.

If you're looking for ways to get involved, support your community, or stay connected:

RESOURCES:

Find local actions, rallies, trainings, phone banking opportunities, and community events near you here: https://www.mobilize.us/

To find, join, or start mutual aid efforts ranging from food support to community care: https://www.mutualaidhub.org/

Connect with a national grassroots network organizing in solidarity with marginalized communities through civic education and political action: https://indivisible.org/

Resources for families facing deportation, including legal support and community assistance: https://immigrantsrising.org/support-for-immigrant-families-targeted-for-deportation/

This week Julia and Nick bring you a holiday horrors episode full of festive chaos! They unpack their own holiday traditions and react to cursed listener stories including a dad who got too kooky, a dramatic dog on a mission, and a girl who received heartbreaking news about her dentist. Digressions include the tooth fairy's terrible work life balance, the beautiful lives of leaf cutter ants, and Oil.

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Julia and Eliza are back in the stu for a deep dive into hostile architecture, unpacking the spikes, slopes, bars, and billion-dollar "design choices" that quietly shape our cities and public spaces. In analyzing bisected benches, shadeless streets, and the Evil of Robert Moses, the girlies consider what it means to live in a world built to restrict movement and community. Digressions include the sacred magic of knitting tutorials, NYC's food poisoning themed Erewhon, and Eliza staying bricked up.

This episode was produced by Julia Hava and Kylie Finnigan and edited by Livi Burdette.

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SOURCES

Behavioral designs defined: how to understand and why it is important to differentiate between "defensive," "hostile," "disciplinary", and other designs in the urban landscape'

Cities Are Spending More to Brutalize Homeless People Than It Would Cost to House Them

City Beautiful Movement

Defending Suburbia

Examining Anti-Homeless Architecture

Fortress LA by Mike Davis (excerpt from City of Quartz)

Hostile Architecture: Behind the Buzzword

Hostile Architecture in the United States: Productive or Harmful?

Hostile urban architecture: A critical discussion of the seemingly offensive art of keeping people away

How Valuable Is Public Space? Priceless, Argues a New Book by Setha Low

Jane Jacobs, a Rebel with a Cause

Setha Low | Why Public Space Matters | Fast Forward 2022

The Economic Value of Health Benefits Associated with Urban Park Investment?

The Highway That Sparked the Demise of an Iconic Black Street in New Orleans

The Inescapable Robert Moses

The Right to the City

The Power Broker by Robert Caro

Understanding Hostile Architecture: The Cause and Effect of Restricting Public Space

Understanding Urban Renewal

Julia cozies up in her childhood bedroom for her first-ever solo episode, providing a little life update from the trenches of her PhD program and giving the binchies some sage advice. Digressions include whatever the hell is going on with the Wicked cast, New York apartment vermin, and the strange comfort of magical thinking.

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Julia is joined by artist and candlelight devotee Roxy Jamin for an illuminating episode examining The Big Light. Together, the girlies explore how modern LED lighting and the death of neon have slowly divorced us from nature, mystery, and the romance of the hearth, while keeping us trapped in a world of endless noon. Digressions include the shame of using an Instagram Reel as a flashlight, the false promise of a pink drill, and the occasional need to admire the Amish.

This episode was produced by Julia Hava and edited by Livi Burdette.

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You can pre-order Roxy's manifesto AND purchase her stickers here: https://spiralingpress.com/

Roxy's Website: https://rjamin.net/

SOURCES

A Brief History of Lighting

ATTENTION AND DISTRACTION IN THE LIGHTING OF WORK-PLACES

Catching the Light: The Entwined History of Light and Mind

Fading glory: the fight to save Hong Kong's beloved neon signs

Home lighting: In defense of "The Big Light."

Humans perceive flicker artifacts at 500 Hz

Last Call for Neon in New York City

Life before artificial light | Life and style | The Guardian

Lighting - IEA

Psychological processes influencing lighting quality

Psychology of Light: How Light Influences the Health and Psyche

The Difference Between Halogen and LED Lights in Surgical Rooms

The History of Fluorescent Lights

The Social History of Lighting

Thousands of drivers sign petition calling for ban on 'blinding' vehicle headlights.

The potential influence of LED lighting on mental illness

Where Did All the Hong Kong Neon Go? - The New York Times

In this truly chaotic Thanksgiving-themed episode, Julia and Nick celebrate the holiday the only way that makes sense: unpacking the LIES and encasing everything in jello. Course by course, the binchies revisit the original feast of 1621, the one 19th century lady who kept trying to make Thanksgiving happen, and your insane family stories and recipes. Digressions include the French winning the IDGAF war, Kim Kardashian's ChatGPT induced academic failure, and a surprise attack in the stu.

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Reporting live from the newly DIY'ed stu, Julia is joined by beautiful Nick, the king of DIY, to chart the chaotic history of "doing it yourself." From ancient Greeks assembling Ikea-style furniture to TikTokers accidentally creating mustard gas in their homes, they uncover how the urge to DIY is fundamentally human. Along the way, they discuss Victorian men who couldn't do shit, 1950s dads working through PTSD by tinkering in their garages, the health benefits of working with your hands, and the scientific proof that gay people are superior at home improvement.

Digressions include Nick's evil brother's latest crimes against humanity, the life-saving potential of eliminating daylight savings times, and a new candy that awakens something ancient within us.

This episode was produced by Julia Hava and edited by Livi Burdette.

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SOURCES

A brief history of DIY, from the shed to the maker movement | Science Museum

A New Generation of Influencers Has Discovered DIY on a Tiny Budget

Barry Bucknell | | The Guardian

Despite a Pandemic Remodeling Boom, Aging US Homes Require Additional Investment

Dig for Victory! New histories of wartime gardening in Britain - ScienceDirect

Do It Yourself...and the Movement Beyond Capitalism

Do-It-Yourself: Constructing, Repairing and Maintaining Domestic Masculinity

First episode of Bucknell's House

Homeownership by Selected Demographic and Housing Characteristics

How the lesbian squats of London Fields influenced queer DIY culture

In These D.I.Y. Groups, 'You Don't Have to Prove That You Belong' - The New York Times

Make Do and Mend, 1943

Man makes nuclear reactor in garage

Men change tires: Lesbians unfazed by flat packs

Psychological benefits of the "maker" or do-it-yourself movement in young adults: A pathway towards subjective well-being.

The King of D.I.Y. Dwellings - The New York Times

The new crisis of masculinity

The Strange Allure of Watching Other People Tear Up Their Homes - The New York Times

Think DIY Saves Money? Here's What Really Happened When I Tried It

Understanding the do-it-yourself consumer: DIY motivations and outcomes | AMS Review

Was punk DIY? Is DIY punk? Interrogating the DIY/punk nexus, with particular reference to the early UK punk scene, c. 1976–1984 - George McKay, 2024

What's the Matter with Men?