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In this episode I talk about how much I hate the term BBC for black men. It’s so overused, cringy, weird and gross.. I wish that term would be thrown into the depths of hell. 

That’s how much I hate it, but I also talk about how other fetishizing terms are harmful for black men and for men of color. 

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What's good!! In this episode I talk about some of my cringy and funny experiences with dating and the weird things that I've had said to me. Enjoy and grab your snacks and wine:) 

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In this episode I talk about the lessons learned throughout my life. I also rant about how people sharing their trauma stories on social media get backlash from people who project onto to them.  I think it's so messed up and wrong on so many levels and this is the reason why people aren't open to being vulnerable and sharing their stories because some people like to get on social media and rant and give their useless and stupid opinions about someone's life. I think it's pathetic and I can't stand people like that and those are the type of people you can't be around.

I am an empath and can always empathize with others who share their trauma on Tik Tok, Youtube, Instagram, etc. So I went on a rant about this and talked about many other things going on in the world that needs to be addressed. So this episode is an eye opener and a tough one so if this isn't for you, I don't blame you for not tuning in. At this point I don't want to try and be nice about genocides happening globally and America is threatening our democracy everyday. 

But for those who understand and are open to listening to this episode feel free to stick around:)

P.S. I mentioned a market that I think you guys will want to check out. It sells healthy and sustainable products and is an amazing place that shouldn't go unnoticed. So go check out Thrive Market. 
Here is the link https://thrivemarket.com/myaisle

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Welcome back y'all it's been a hot minute since I've done a episode, I hope y'all are doing well:) 

Today I discussed about the TikTok ban that is being pushed and, also other important issues that the government needs to be worrying about. There is so many issues going on in the country but also around the world. But instead they are worrying about an app. 

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This is the first podcast video I did on Instagram live with my two friends:) I wanted to upload the audio version of the video so y'all can enjoy it:)

In this episode we talk about the creepy experiences we had with guys and more topics. 

You can find my friend Meklit's instagram @meklitxx_424

Thank you so much Meklit and Joy for joining me and making my first video fun and we were cracking up... but I appreciate y'all very much for that and I had a good time talking with y'all. 

In this episode I talked about my experiences of going through different friendships and learning lessons from them. I even go into how some people can be energy vampires and I think y'all need to cut these type of people off. They are not worth stressing over. 

Also side note this is the audio version of Energy Vampires and Friendships, I did a video for this episode on my Youtube. 

Feel free to check it out on my channel it's @dejathepeacemaker

Hey black excellence fam!! It feels like it's been a minute since I've done an episode, but you know I had to focus on getting my college transfer application done. But also what's crazy was there was a fire at my apartment last weekend on Saturday. The fire happened on the 7th floor. So that was pretty hectic and terrifying but I am so glad that me and my family are safe and, that we made it out of the apartment okay.

But anyways I hope that you guys enjoy this Record Show and Tell episode. You guys can feel free to check out the video version of this episode on my YouTube channel. Or you guys can listen to the audio version, it's up to you. But enjoy y'all and let me know what songs or albums did you like from this episode.

P.S don’t mind the music not sounding clear or loud enough. I had used zoom for my video so that’s why it sounds funky. But I hope you guys can still enjoy the episode. In the future I will definitely be using my phone from now on.
Here is the link to my Record Show and Tell video, enjoy<3
https://www.youtube.com/@dejathepeacemaker/videos

Welcome back kings and queens! 
Today I talked about my different experiences of just having pretty privilege and, how sometimes it's gotten me in some weird situations. Some are weird, funny and it's like I can't help but just laugh... cause I've had some people say some out of pocket stuff to me it be catching me off guard lol.

So I created a subscription page for anyone that wants to become a subscriber to my show. You have the option of choosing to be charged monthly $3, $5, $8 or $10. It's up to you and, you can cancel the plan anytime. But I just want to say I appreciate all of you guys for always tuning into my episodes. Thank you so so so much! I am so happy that y'all enjoy my show that makes me happy!
 My show would not be where it is today without y'alls support. So thank you black excellence fam<3

 Here is the link to my subscription page
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Been working on this episode for a couple hours and couldn't get my intro and outro music in. But it's all good I'm glad that the episode is edited and done. But hope y'all enjoy this episode and let me know your thoughts on this topic.

Here is my link to access my website, YouTube channel and more content:)

https://pico.link/evolvedeja

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I go off in this episode y'all so be prepared.. I tried my best not to curse so much lol but this had me pissed off to be honest. But I am so glad that before doing recording this episode, I went ahead and did a 15-minute meditation with Kirsten Michelle on Peleton. But let me know your thoughts on this topic.. I went in on a lot of things even with the fact that I hate that some men look up to Andrew like he's some god. He's not a icon this dude has brainwashed those guys into thinking that treating women like shit is okay, when it's not.


Resources from the News Outlet "Impact"

https://www.vice.com/en/article/wxn3dm/andrew-tate-whatsapps-arrest

https://www.instagram.com/p/CnVK1qPKYT/?igshid=YWJhMjlhZTc=

https://www.vice.com/en/article/wxn3dm/andrew-tate-whatsapps-arrest

National Sexual Assault Hotline (US)

1-800-656-4673

Live Chat: online.rainn.org

Rape & Sexual Abuse Support Line (UK)

0808-500-2222

Survivor’s Trust

0808-801-0818

Live Chat: thesurviortrust.org/live-chat-service

Rape Crisis & Information Line (Canada)

604-255-6344