Boldly Becoming You Podcast

In this episode, I sit down with Keely Stawicki, a badass entrepreneur whose passion for turning "junk into treasure" led her down the path of entrepreneurship at an early age. From horses to vintage clothing, and soon launching her online business where she helps small business owners to become empowered in their businesses through Facebook advertising and digital marketing systems.

Although her professional successes are impressive, I think what you will find to be the most remarkable is her willingness to not give in or give up on herself as she navigated her way through narcissistic relationships and codependency to be able to find the boldest version of herself. Stay in touch with Keely on Instagram and Facebook and check out her new business at https://www.rebelfunnels.com. In this episode we discussed: - why you should think twice before homesteading (rats the size of Chinchillas!) - Codependency - identifying and overcoming narcissistic relationships - anxious attachment styles - the power of recognizing and acknowledging what is holding you back To dig a little deeper check out: - BBY podcast Ep 11 Boundaries, Codependency and Interdependence in Partnership - BBY podcast Ep 9 Communications and Conflict in Partnership - Cutting Through Codependency and the Crap that Comes With It - Boldly Becoming You FB group where we talk about real shit in a real way

Who you think you are is a collection of ideas and feedback you received over your lifetime. You are also responsible for encouraging or discouraging the people in your life: how to exist, what to pursue, what to avoid ever doing again.

Feedback is subtle and blatant but most importantly, it can be liberating if you are aware of the way it works and how it's happening in your life every day.

If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, I'd LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Boldly Becoming You @boldlybecomingyou or @TashaSkillin.

Make sure you grab our free mini course to stop the people pleasing, perfectionism and constant accommodating you are habitually doing in your relationships without flipping your world upside down:

Cutting Through Codependency and the Crap that Comes with It.

Who you think you are is a collection of ideas and feedback you received over your lifetime. You are also responsible for encouraging or discouraging the people in your life: how to exist, what to pursue, what to avoid ever doing again.

Feedback is subtle and blatant but most importantly, it can be liberating if you are aware of the way it works and how it's happening in your life every day.

If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, I'd LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Boldly Becoming You @boldlybecomingyou or @TashaSkillin.

Make sure you grab our free mini course to stop the people pleasing, perfectionism and constant accommodating you are habitually doing in your relationships without flipping your world upside down:

Cutting Through Codependency and the Crap that Comes with It.

Who you think you are is a collection of ideas and feedback you received over your lifetime. You are also responsible for encouraging or discouraging the people in your life: how to exist, what to pursue, what to avoid ever doing again.

Feedback is subtle and blatant but most importantly, it can be liberating if you are aware of the way it works and how it's happening in your life every day.

If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, I'd LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Boldly Becoming You @boldlybecomingyou or @TashaSkillin.

Make sure you grab our free mini course to stop the people pleasing, perfectionism and constant accommodating you are habitually doing in your relationships without flipping your world upside down:

Cutting Through Codependency and the Crap that Comes with It.

Ronnisha Anderson struggled with codependency and it limited her ability to find and feel her most confident. Now she is a certified life coach, getting her masters in Marriage and Family therapy and a "Personal Purpose Pusher."

In this episode we geek out about the impact of finding your purpose and Ronnisha gives solid advice to start moving toward the meaningful impact you are meant to have.

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If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, I'd LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Boldly Becoming You @boldlybecomingyou or @TashaSkillin.

Make sure you grab our free mini course to stop the people pleasing, perfectionism and constant accommodating you are habitually doing in your relationships without flipping your world upside down:

Cutting Through Codependency and the Crap that Comes with It.

Selfish is the undercurrent for so much of what we don't do. This belief that selfLESS is the ultimate good so by default, anything for the self is selfish.

Are you being selfish by answering that pull from within to DO something new? To BE more than what you've been?

In today's episode, we dig into what all of this means, and the purpose of life.

If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, I'd LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Boldly Becoming You @boldlybecomingyou or @TashaSkillin.

Make sure you grab our free mini course to stop the people pleasing, perfectionism and constant accommodating you are habitually doing in your relationships without flipping your world upside down:

Cutting Through Codependency and the Crap that Comes with It.

Kathleen Glen, LCSW, is a kidney transplant medical social worker in NY. She's a mom, a wife, sister, and friend to many. But to me? She's my soul sister for 22 years and my number one teacher about how to be the friend I want and need to be. We hash out our friendship values, how we navigated lost friendships and the expectations we have at 40., uncensored.

If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, I'd LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Boldly Becoming You @boldlybecomingyou or @TashaSkillin.

To get started on your journey to uncover who you are, check out the 16 Questions to Jumpstart your journey to Boldly Becoming You.

The relationship we NEVER talk about enough is Friendship. Today I dig into why friendships are essential for your journey to become the boldest version of yourself and I share what my core values are in a friendship. We have more friendships in our lifetime than we do parents, children and partners combined - it's time to elevate this relationship and acknowledge weight it actually has in our lives.

If this episode lights you up in some way or inspires you to question something, I'd LOVE to hear about it! Take a screenshot of your listening on your device, post in to your stories on FB or IG and tag Boldly Becoming You @boldlybecomingyou or @TashaSkillin.

Make sure you grab our free mini course to stop the people pleasing, perfectionism and constant accommodating you are habitually doing in your relationships without flipping your world upside down:

Cutting Through Codependency and the Crap that Comes with It.

Jackie Lee found herself losing faith after being diagnosed with Myalgic Encephalomyelitis (M.E.) in 1992 when she was told she'd be in a wheelchair and prescribed painkillers to numb her experience. She battled guilt and poured her energy into her mindset shifts and now lives in Lanzarote, which is on a Spanish island off the coast of Africa with the life, and man, she dreamed up for herself. In addition to being a well known wedding celebrant on the island, she is the fairy godmother to women age 45+ helping them to reconnect with themselves, to feel supported and safe whilst creating their best life and having fun.

You can find her on Facebook and Instagram, and on her website.

** in this episode we discuss the ability to manifest what you desire and the life you are meant to live. Although this is true for many, this concept has not always been easily executed by those who exist in marginalized communities who are systemically oppressed or discriminated against based on race, religion, gender, ability, etc.

I recognize the white privilege filter used in many current spiritual and "achievement" based conversations, including my own in the past, and the problematic application of these ideas to "all" people when "all" people aren't safe to walk outside their home, much less take bold and unapologetic action. When all people are treated with respect, this idea of manifesting and pursuing your dream with the steps we discuss, will be the magic for all that is has been for privileged white, and many but not all others, for hundreds of years in this country.**

Regardless of how you became a parent, how you show up is completely up to you; this includes the mom and dad, as well as the bonus mom and bonus dad,. And the weight you feel to do it right is warranted because how we parent does determine how our kids feel about themselves and what they believe they can do or achieve, at least initially. This sometimes translates into the desire to perfect our parenting approach, be the perfect mom or dad in every moment of our children's lives but I want to propose a different option: Intentional parenting.

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