Surviving Abuse: Patrick Leary's Four-Year Legal Battle and Advocacy for Male Victims

In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant talks with Patrick Leary, a college professor, coach, and domestic violence survivor. Patrick shares his harrowing experience of enduring false charges, navigating the legal system, and rebuilding his life after years of abuse from his former partner.

Throughout the conversation, Patrick discusses the systemic challenges men face when falsely accused, the emotional and financial toll it took on his life, and his journey toward healing and helping others in similar situations.

Patrick emphasizes the importance of speaking out, seeking help, and the need for changes in the legal system to support male victims better.

00:00 Introduction to Real Men Feel

00:19 Meet Patrick Leary: A Survivor's Story

00:44 The Legal Battle Begins

01:42 Enduring Abuse and Seeking Help

05:39 The Turning Point: Protecting the Children

07:21 False Accusations and Arrests

08:15 Navigating the Legal System

12:26 The Struggle for Justice

20:53 Life Impact and Continued Legal Challenges

28:27 Life Under House Arrest

30:28 Support System and Coping Mechanisms

32:26 False Charges and Legal Battles

35:19 Final Charge and Ongoing Harassment

38:47 Reflections and Moving Forward

46:17 Advice for Male Victims of Abuse

55:58 Conclusion and Resources

Connect with Patrick Leary

LinkedIn -- https://www.linkedin.com/in/patrick-leary-ed-d-2857323/

Resources

Ann Silvers, The Abuse of Men by Women on Real Men Feel -- https://realmenfeel.org/2021/02/16/the-abuse-of-men-by-women/

The Abuse of Men by Women, Ann Silvers -- https://amzn.to/41sHYeI

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