Brown Girls Do It Too

Poppy and Rubina are back for a new series of raucous sex and relationships chat!

In a packed series finale, Poppy and Rubina are joined by former EastEnders and Goodness Gracious Me star, Nina Wadia. They also take on the challenges they set themselves over the course of the series and discuss the topic of 'What Will People Say?' If you're an Asian who is going to have sex, you have to worry about those four words and for Poppy and Rubina the impact of what the community around them may say has impacted their lifestyles.

Nina Wadia also talks about the importance of sex in her life, her first time, an elusive orgasm and what has become the bane of her life, the dreaded aubergine!

Would you ever use the phrase 'Who's Your Daddy', in the bedroom? Poppy & Rubina discuss daddy issues and the effect that has on their sex lives. They also speak with model, Alexa Singh, whose own dad had a very unique job which influenced her career choice as a model who does glamour modelling and Page 3.

Alexa goes on to talk about her Indian identity and reclaiming the name Singh for herself despite the criticisms she gets, and Poppy takes on another challenge ahead of the Brown Girls Do It Too series finale.

Poppy & Rubina are joined by comedian and writer Sadia Azmat to talk about dressing seductively. Sadia says her look often confuses guys and she struggles to let them know that she is open to sex! In an amazingly open and honest discussion about what you wear and what it says about you, Poppy, Rubina and Sadia talk about the expectations of Asian women, losing your virginity in an Essex hotel, and very very messy sex.

Curry smells during sex? Keeping the spice alive and loosing your virginity twice are all covered in this episode of Brown Girls Do It Too.

How does your sex life change over time and in a long term relationship? Poppy and Rubina, both talk about how they've had to keep the spice alive in a relationship. They are joined by Mia Weston who, as a transgender woman, has had an amazing change in her sex life over time, to the extent that she has lost her her virginity both as a guy and as a girl. Mia also talks about her sex life as a gay man, growing up in a Punjabi family, being treated as an Asian fetish by partners and also talks about her gender re-assignment surgery.

Poppy & Rubina have both dated men outside of their race and have been called race traitors because of it. They discuss this with Burnt Roti magazine editor, Sharan Dhaliwal, who has dealt with it herself.

Both Poppy and Rubina talk of making sacrifices in their culture in order to continue dating non Asian guys. Similarly, our guest Sharan, was made explicitly aware, growing up, that she should be only dating within her race, and on top of that she had the added pressure of being bi. We hear how she has only recently come out to her family and how her mother in particular dealt with the news.

Poppy and Rubina discuss the funny parts of sex and the inevitable after sex fart, negotiating sexual positions and leaking fluids! They're joined by comedian, writer and actor, Sukh Ojla who talks about the value of humour in a relationship, being 'on the shelf' (or in the bin outback as she puts it) and the importance of masturbation

Poppy & Rubina get into the highs and lows of oral sex. Today's guest, presenter of the new 'Thank You Next' podcast, offers tips from an oral sex class she took, and also talks about being on a sex break.

Poppy and Rubina talk about everything there is to discuss around the area of oral sex, from the techniques they use to the tastes and smells. Poppy relives the comical trauma of her first attempt at it and Rubina reveals her aversion to swallowing. They are joined by guest, Hardeep Dhadda, who offers some tips she learned when she attended an oral sex class. Hardeep also talks about taking a break from sex and some of the reasons behind that choice.

Sex Parties, oyster tasting vulvas and confronting nosy uncles are all included in this discussion about sexual preferences.

Poppy and Rubina talk about feeling pressured into some of their sexual choices and identity and even being judgmental themselves about others. They are also joined by writer and spoken word artist, Amani Saeed, who reveals how she learned about her queer identity, and also the role her religion plays in complementing her lifestyle.

Where do you keep your sex toys? Our guest, Masala Podcast's Sangeeta Pillai, just about fits them all in, in a massive trunk under her bed!

Poppy and Rubina discuss their use of sex toys with Sangeeta Pillai who is a proud sex toy user and someone who has conducted a sex toy use survey among Asian women