The KYLO Show

Building Boundaries and Belonging


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Whether you’re single, parenting adult children, or recovering from relational pain, this episode is packed with wisdom for staying powerful in the face of disconnection. Recorded live at Eden Church in Newcastle, Washington, Danny and Brittney answer real audience questions about singleness, narcissism, motherhood, boundaries, and healing from toxic relationships. They share stories, scriptures, and practical tools for cultivating healthy identity, confronting manipulation with courage, and protecting connection without enabling dysfunction. This is a must-listen for anyone who wants to build strong relationships without losing themselves.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • Why the KYLO 5 is essential—especially when you’re single.

  • How to create joy-filled, life-giving relationships that align with your purpose.

  • What real boundaries look like when dealing with manipulative or toxic adult children.

  • How to differentiate between your role and God's role in your child's life.

  • Why Jesus is the ultimate model of healthy boundaries.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Singleness isn’t waiting—it's preparation: Cultivating self-love, healthy community, and clear boundaries now sets the stage for healthy connection later.

    • Love isn’t enabling: Setting boundaries with someone you love—even your child—isn’t cruelty, it’s wisdom.

    • You are not your child’s savior: Your job is to love them, not rescue them. Trust Jesus to be who only He can be.

    • Boundaries aren’t rejection: They’re protection—for you, and for the relationship.

    • Jesus had perfect boundaries: He never violated another person’s will, even in crisis. He honored self-control and invited ownership.

      Join the Conversation:

      Have you had to set a hard boundary with someone you love? How did you stay connected without being controlled? We’d love to hear your story. Connect with us online or submit a question at www.thekyloshow.com.

      Stay Connected:

      Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com
      Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose
      Instagram: @brittneyserpell

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