Clear & Loud with Josh Harris

Building Community Without Church (with Sarah Wildeman)


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Community. It’s a word we throw around a lot, but what does it really mean? And what does it look like specially if you’re no longer part of a church or faith-based group?

In this episode, I talk with Sarah Wildeman, a leadership and relationship dynamics coach, community builder, and founder of Our Common. Sarah has spent years living in intentional communities, leading women’s circles, and guiding people through the art of authentic connection. Drawing from her background in forest ecology, permaculture, and a love for all things rooted in nature, she helps people grow relationships with the same care you’d give a thriving garden—intentionally, patiently, and with deep respect for what each season brings.

We explore:

  • The difference between having friends and actually being part of a community.
  • Why so many people are craving deeper connections right now.
  • How shared values, rituals, and commitments create belonging.
  • What we can learn from nature about building relationships that last.
    • The grief and longing that can come when we lose a sense of community.


  • Sarah’s insights are practical, hopeful, and refreshingly honest about the effort it takes to create and sustain meaningful connection. Whether you’ve left a faith community or are simply hungry for more intentional relationships, this conversation offers both inspiration and tangible ideas for reimagining what community can look like.


    Connect with Sarah:

    • Website: our-common.com
    • Course: Our Common Life
    • Instagram: @our__common
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