In this episode, I talk with psychologist and author Hillary McBride about her powerful book Holy Hurt. We explore what spiritual trauma really is, how it shows up in our bodies and beliefs, and what healing can look like. We also talk openly about my own past as a pastor—how I once taught things that caused harm—and why I believe it’s so important to have these honest, healing conversations now.

Topics We Cover

• What makes something “spiritual trauma”

• Why it’s so hard to name trauma that’s systemic, not just event-based

• The cost of being told you're broken at the core

• How our bodies remember what our minds try to forget

• The difference between real healing and spiritual bypassing

• What leaders and former leaders can do when they realize they’ve hurt others
• Hope for anyone starting to rebuild after religious pain

Freeman Voyles is a young Catholic writer, podcaster, and creator of Kneutrality, a platform where she blends traditional Catholic beliefs with fresh, sometimes provocative, cultural commentary. With her signature blend of sex appeal, sacred conviction, and aesthetic honesty, Freeman is reimagining what modesty, sensuality, and spirituality can look like, especially for Gen Z.

Conversation highlights:

About Freeman Voyles:
Freeman is a Catholic writer, podcaster, and creator of Kneutrality — a space for faith, culture, and sexuality rooted in honesty, beauty, and bold devotion. Through content, liturgical journals, and her podcast, she’s helping young adults live boldly for God and think critically about the messages they’ve inherited.

Connect with Freeman:

• Kneutrality website
• Instagram @kneutrality
• Liturgical Planner

About Clear & Loud

Clear & Loud is the coaching and creative consultancy of Josh Harris. Through one-on-one coaching and brand strategy work, Josh helps individuals and organizations find clarity in the messiness: clarity of message, purpose, and direction. Whether you’re navigating a major life shift or building a brand that reflects your evolving story, Clear & Loud offers practical tools, thoughtful guidance, and engaging storytelling. Learn more at www.clearandloud.com.

In this episode, Britt Hartley shares her journey from a deeply religious upbringing to becoming an atheist spiritual director, exploring what it means to find purpose, meaning, and inner peace outside of traditional faith. With a background in theology, Britt brings a unique perspective on how to navigate life’s biggest questions without relying on religious frameworks. Together, we dive into her approach to secular spirituality, where she guides others through deconstructing old beliefs and building lives rooted in authenticity and personal values. Join us as we unpack her transformative insights on rethinking spirituality, free from dogma.

Topics Covered:

• Britt’s journey from religion to secular spirituality and how it shaped her approach to spiritual direction
• Understanding the three main paths for interpreting life—Religion, Occult, and Science—and exploring the strengths and pitfalls of each
• The impact of cognitive biases on our beliefs and why we’re often so certain of our personal “truths”
• Practical steps for crafting a life of meaning and purpose beyond religious structures
• Tools and rituals for navigating existential crises, building identity, and cultivating a grounded, secular sense of spirituality

About Britt Hartley:
Britt Hartley is an atheist spiritual director with a master’s degree in theology and a focus on the future of American religion. She is the author of No Nonsense Spirituality, a bestselling Amazon book that brings a clear, grounded approach to finding meaning and purpose beyond religious belief. Britt’s work centers on secular spirituality and tools for navigating existential crises.

Connect with Britt

• Website: nononsensespirituality.com
• TikTok
• Instagram

About Clear & Loud
Clear & Loud is the coaching and creative consultancy of Josh Harris. Through one-on-one coaching and brand strategy work, Josh helps individuals and organizations find clarity in the messiness—clarity of message, purpose, and direction. Whether you’re navigating a major life shift or building a brand that reflects your evolving story, Clear & Loud offers practical tools, thoughtful guidance, and impactful storytelling. Learn more at www.clearandloud.com.

In this episode of Clear & Loud, we dive into the extraordinary story behind the documentary "Mom & Dad's Nipple Factory" with Emmy-winning filmmaker Justinsuperstar. This isn't just a tale about an unusual family business – it's a powerful love story that spans four decades and touches on faith, identity, and the impact of breast cancer on families and communities.

Interview Highlights:

About Justinsuperstar:

Justinsuperstar is an Emmy-winning filmmaker with over two decades of experience creating popular web content. His work has been featured on major television networks and viewed hundreds of millions of times online. With "Mom & Dad's Nipple Factory," Justin beautifully captures his parents' love story while exploring the broader impact of breast cancer on family, community, and society at large.

Watch the Film:

Visit www.nipplefactoryfilm.com for links to Amazon Prime, Apple TV, Fandango at Home, Google Play, and more.

Don't forget to leave a review and share this powerful documentary with others!

In this episode, we dive into the world of reinvention with Lisa McGuire, a reinvention strategist. Lisa shares her journey from corporate life to helping people align their purpose with their paycheck. If you've ever felt stuck in a job that doesn't resonate with who you are, or you're curious about how to align your work with your true self, this conversation is for you. Tune in to explore the challenges of shifting from corporate to entrepreneurship, and learn how to build a fulfilling career that reflects your unique gifts and talents.

Interview Highlights:

Bio: Lisa McGuire is a fractional CMO and reinvention strategist who helps individuals and businesses discover their true selves and align their purpose with their paycheck. With a background in corporate and education, Lisa now focuses on helping others build fulfilling careers that reflect their unique gifts and talents. She is passionate about identity, human design, and navigating the challenges of transitioning from corporate to entrepreneurship.

Connect with her at:

Website

LinkedIN

Instagram

Have you ever wondered what makes a TED Talk so captivating? Today, we're diving into the art of crafting unforgettable speeches with Devin D. Marks, also known as "The TED Talk Whisperer." Devin has coached hundreds of speakers, including Harvard's Dr. Robert Waldinger, helping their ideas go viral and reach millions. In this episode, Devin shares his secrets to creating a TED Talk that resonates, the importance of storytelling, and how to stay authentic while delivering powerful messages. Whether you're an entrepreneur, a thought leader, or simply someone with a compelling idea, this conversation will equip you with the tools to connect and compel your audience like never before. 

Interview Highlights:

Guest Bio: Devin D. Marks is the nation’s leading TED-style speaking coach. Known as "The TED Talk Whisperer" by media outlets and clients, Devin has trained hundreds of speakers for TED, TEDx, and TED-style messages—including Harvard’s Dr. Robert Waldinger for his breakout talk, "What Makes a Good Life?" which has garnered over 47 million views. As the founder of CONNECT to COMPEL, a story training and speaker coaching firm, Devin helps clients create spread-worthy ideas that captivate audiences worldwide. He regularly encourages clients to "Let the world LIVE your message!" Connect with Devin at ConnectToCompel.com and on LinkedIn at linkedin.com/in/thetedtalkwhisperer

Discover the secrets behind creating a hit podcast and balancing entrepreneurial success with personal well-being. Join me as I chat with Jacob Bozarth, a podcasting pioneer who has transformed the industry and helped countless creators find their voice.

Jacob has spent over a decade in the industry, helping create and produce some of the most successful podcasts out there, including the hit show Culpable. We dive deep into his journey, exploring how he balances the demands of entrepreneurship with personal well-being and the lessons he's learned along the way.

Whether you're a seasoned podcaster, an aspiring entrepreneur, or someone interested in storytelling and authentic leadership, this episode has something for you. Jacob shares valuable insights on how to start and sustain a successful podcast, the importance of staying true to yourself, and how to avoid burnout in a demanding industry. 

Interview Highlights:

Abouto Jacob Bozarth:

Jacob Bozarth has been a full-time podcast professional for over 10 years, serving as the executive producer of two #1 podcasts and launching two companies in the podcasting space. He graduated from Middle Tennessee State University with a degree in recording and production and stumbled into entrepreneurship by using his production skills to help people with their podcasts as a side project.

In 2014, Jacob founded Resonate Recordings, a podcast production agency that has worked with over 3,500 podcasters, including 16 number-one shows on Apple Podcasts. In 2019, he launched Culpable, a podcast that achieved over 45 million downloads and hit #1 in Apple Podcasts. In 2022, he started Resound, an AI audio tool for podcasters, which automates tedious parts of production for over 13,000 creators. Most recently, he launched Podcast Primer, an online course designed to help aspiring podcasters beat their inner critic and start a podcast without burnout.

Jacob is also a devoted father of three and has been married to his wife, Whitney, for over 14 years. His main goal in life is to work less and spend more time on what matters most, especially his relationships with his family.

Learn More About Jacob’s Work: 

Resound.fm

Resonaterecordings.com

podcastprimer.com 

Have you ever felt like there's a constant tug-of-war happening inside your mind? A clash of different personalities, desires, and fears? Well, that's exactly what Internal Family Systems (IFS) aims to explore and understand.

In this illuminating episode, we dive deep into the world of IFS with our special guest, April Sunshine Hawkins. Prepare to have your perspectives shifted as we uncover the intricate "family" of parts that make up our psyche.

April, a passionate advocate for personal growth and self-discovery, takes us on a journey through IFS. From its core principles to practical applications, she shares her insights and experiences, helping us understand how this approach can untangle the complexities within.

Whether you're a seasoned seeker or simply curious about the untapped corners of your mind, this conversation is sure to be a revelation. Join us as we explore the fascinating world of Internal Family Systems and gain a deeper understanding of ourselves in the process.

About April:

April Sunshine Hawkins is a multifaceted individual with a passion for connecting people and fostering personal growth. From teaching young minds to guiding adults through dance, marketing, and pickleball, her infectious energy and curiosity have touched many lives.

Currently, April is undergoing training to become an IFS practitioner, driven by a desire to share this transformative approach with others. With her warm presence and deep understanding of the human experience, she's the perfect guide to introduce us to the world of Internal Family Systems.

Work with April: 

To find out how you can work with April visit her website where she helps clients curate a unique therapeutic journey. 

Website: https://mmm.page/therapytravelagent.main

Instagram: instagram.com/april_sunshine_

In today's landscape, creatives find themselves navigating entrepreneurial waters to thrive, while entrepreneurs increasingly rely on creativity to expand their reach and impact.

Heather Parady holds on to both (though she shares in this interview which way she leans). By day, she's a master of implementation, a Fractional COO who intricately designs systems and operations to propel businesses forward. By night, she transforms into a creative force, whose insightful video content on leadership, creativity, and spirituality captivates audiences across social media.

This episode dives into the heart of a pressing question: Are you a creative or an entrepreneur? 

Join us as Heather Parady unravels this intersection. Discover how she merges her operational expertise with her passion for creativity, and how this unique blend fuels her success. We'll explore the essence of being a fractional COO, the thrill of content creation and what it looks like to find a sense of mission post-religion.

Learn More:

Website: www.heatherparady.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heatherparady/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@heatherparady?

Twitter: https://twitter.com/heatherparady

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heatherparady/

About Clear & Loud

We’re a boutique creative team that specializes in launching websites, products, and big ideas. We craft words that reach people and systems that sustain growth. Schedule a free strategy call to talk about your project: https://clearandloud.com/

In this episode, Josh Harris has a thought-provoking conversation with Stephanie Stalvey, a gifted comic book artist who is using her art to navigate and critique the complexities of purity culture. Stephanie shares the inspiration behind her graphic memoir "PURE," a deeply personal exploration of growing up within and ultimately questioning the evangelical purity movement.

Listeners will dive into:

Whether you’re fascinated by the intersection of art and activism, curious about the effects of purity culture, or a fan of graphic storytelling, this episode offers insightful perspectives on how personal narratives can challenge societal norms and promote healing. Join us to discover how Stephanie Stalvey is making waves with her comics and sparking important discussions around faith, freedom, and the right to own one’s story.

Learn More:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephanie.stalvey.artist/

Website: stephaniestalvey.com

Patreon: patreon.com/stephaniestalvey