This episode is not for kinderlach 🚫👶

Chava sits down with Lauren Hofstatter, a licensed therapist known online as The Orthodox Therapist, for a raw, candid conversation about marriage, intimacy, dating, and the things people are afraid to say out loud 🎙️🔥

We talk about:

👉 Why intimacy breaks down👉 Dating with potential vs. dating with delusion👉 Marriage expectations vs. reality👉 Emotional vs. physical connection👉 Fertility pressure, boundaries, and communication

Whether you’re married, single, divorced, religious, not religious, or just trying to figure people out 🤷‍♀️ this episode goes there.

⚠️ Not a halacha podcast⚠️ Not filtered for comfort⚠️ Very much for adults only 🔞

⏱️ Timestamps

⏱️ 00:00 🚫 Not for Kinderlach (You’ve Been Warned)⏱️ 04:30 💬 Why Relationships Actually Break Down⏱️ 11:00 🧠 Dating With Potential vs. Dating With Delusion⏱️ 20:30 🚩 Red Flags, Green Flags & What People Ignore⏱️ 32:00 💍 Marriage Expectations vs. Reality⏱️ 44:00 🔥 Why Intimacy Is the First Thing to Go⏱️ 58:30 📱 Emotional Affairs, Boundaries & Temptation⏱️ 1:15:00 👶 Fertility Pressure & When to Have Kids⏱️ 1:32:00 🛏️ Sex, Shame & What No One Teaches You⏱️ 1:55:00 🎯 What Every Couple Needs to Hear

In this episode of Call Her Tatty, Lizzy Savetsky takes a rare break from the political battlefield and brings us back to her OG influencer days. Together with her husband, top plastic surgeon Dr Ira Savetsky, the couple opens up about fame, marriage, Real Housewives drama, plastic surgery myths, and what really goes on behind their viral videos.

Lizzy shares how she went from “Excessories Expert” to outspoken Jewish activist, and how being unapologetically herself changed everything. Ira breaks down the truth about cosmetic procedures, the dangers of discount surgery trips, and how social media has transformed the beauty industry.

It is honest, hilarious, and full of the chaos only the Savetskys can bring.

Episode Sponsor

This episode is sponsored by Luxury Passover Group.
If you want a truly elevated, stress-free Pesach experience at a five-star resort filled with incredible food, activities, and luxury programming, visit LuxuryPassover.com to secure your spot. Space is extremely limited.

Dress on Chava provided by Blended Aventura Mall

00:00 Welcome Lizzy and Dr Ira
03:00 Lizzy returns to her OG influencer era
10:00 The viral videos and who really pushes who
17:00 Real Housewives and why she walked away
24:00 Plastic surgery truths and myths
32:00 Being frum and public in today’s world
45:00 Marriage, teamwork, and building a platform together
55:00 The Savetsky effect on social media and business
01:05:00 Final thoughts and life updates

In this episode of Call Her Tatty, Chava sits down with London-based Orthodox Jewish playwright and lyricist Estee Stimler. They talk about her journey from Monsey to London, the world of musical theater, the shidduch crisis, why Jews wrote the greatest Christmas songs, and how a modern orthodox woman thrives in a very un-frum industry. Expect humor, honesty, and plenty of Jewish flavor.

01:00 Meet Estee Stimler
05:00 Muncie to London
10:00 Smother Musical
14:00 Being Religous in Theater
17:00 Shidduch Crisis Deep Dive
24:00 British vs American Comedy
27:00 Jews and Christmas Music
38:00 AI and Writing
47:00 Marriage and Dating Advice
59:00 Closing Thoughts and Where to Find Estee

If you’ve ever followed @bircheventdesign on Instagram, you know the vibe: million-dollar weddings, celebrity-level setups, and florals that take your breath away.

Josh Spiegel is the man behind it all - and on this episode of Call Her Tatty, he finally sits down to talk.

We cover everything from wild wedding trends to clueless clients, what makes a wedding unforgettable, and what it’s like designing events for the elite of the elite.

Josh doesn’t hold back - and we’re not mad about it.

0:00 – Intro: Meet the man behind Birch
4:42 – This or That: Wedding Edition (Josh unfiltered)
12:33 – The moment weddings became productions
18:05 – What makes a wedding feel actually good
25:17 – TikTok brides, “aesthetic,” and losing the plot
30:50 – Why mismatched bridal parties should be illegal
39:40 – The client stories you never see on IG
44:01 – What fuels Josh (besides caffeine & chaos)
48:12 – Brides who want ‘unique’ but give no vision
51:20 – Dream clients vs. the ones who need to be blocked

Subscribe for more!

#CallHerTatty #JoshSpiegel #BirchEventDesign #JewishPodcast #WeddingTikTok #EventPlanner #LuxuryWeddings #HotTakesOnly #Jewish

What do duck fat, divine timing, and the kosher restaurants have in common? They’re all on the menu in this week’s Call Her Tatty.

Chava sits down with chef and restaurateur Olivia Ostrow, the force behind Miami’s new kosher fine dining spot, to talk about food, faith, and why most kosher restaurants are serving mediocrity with a blessing on top.

They dive into the secret sauce of running a high-end kosher kitchen: staff drama, supervision chaos, and whether non-kosher food actually tastes better or people just haven’t met a real chef yet.

There’s Michelin-level insight, bouillabaisse banter, and more shade than a sukkah in July.

👩🏻‍🍳 For foodies who want flavor and halacha
🕯️ For tatties who think “French” means garlic bread
🎧 For anyone who’s ever whispered “is this even pareve?”

CHAPTERS
00:00 Intro and Olivia’s story
03:15 Opening a kosher fine dining restaurant in Miami
08:00 What kosher really means behind the kitchen door
13:40 The myth that non-kosher tastes better
18:50 Why most kosher menus are a disaster
26:30 Staff, supervision, and Shabbos sanity
33:45 Building a restaurant with real heart
40:10 Weekly haute cuisine menus and wine pairings
47:00 When guests cross the line
51:30 French words Jews can’t pronounce
56:00 The blue cheese revelation
1:03:00 Final course: faith, food, and female fire

📲 Follow @callhertatty and @maisonostrow
🎧 Watch on YouTube or listen on Spotify and Apple
💬 Comment your favorite kosher restaurant and what it should be doing better

From the Dominican Republic to the mikvah, Madeline Malka Garcia shares her powerful journey of faith, hustle, motherhood, and jewelry. In this episode of Call Her Tatty, host Chava Feigen sits down with the founder of MG Fine Jewelry to talk about growing up with nothing, converting to Orthodox Judaism, and building a life she once only dreamed about.Madeline gets real about love, culture clash, building a brand from scratch, and why she feels “more Jewish than people born Jewish.”🎙 Hosted by Chava Feigen🎧 Powered by the Studio App : http://studioapp.studio 🎧 Produced by Short Form Media : http://shortformmedia.co💎 Shop MG Fine Jewelry: https://www.mgjewelries.com💸 Use code TATTY10 for 10% off your first order⏱️ Chapters & Topics00:00 – Meet Madeline: Latina, loud, and loving Jewish life04:00 – From poverty in the Dominican Republic to NYC grind08:30 – Falling in love with a Jewish man and converting16:40 – Becoming Orthodox in Miami and raising Jewish kids25:00 – Food, fashion, and finding identity in Jewish spaces30:00 – Building MG Fine Jewelry and owning her success👍 Like this episode if it inspired you📩 Drop a comment: What part of Madeline’s story hit home for you?🔔 Subscribe for more real convos with women who keep it 100#LatinaConvert #JewishPodcast #OrthodoxJudaism #FaithJourney #CallHerTatty #MGFineJewelry #MadelineGarcia #JewelryBusiness #ConversionStory #DominicanJewish #KosherQueen #Jewish

What do sheitels, sample sales, and settlement agreements have in common? They’re just part of the plot in this week’s Call Her Tatty.

Chava sits down with powerhouse frum divorce attorney and longtime bestie Gity Kogan to talk real Jewish divorce. They cover the messy stuff no one warns you about: Gett refusals, courtroom chaos, and the emotional rollercoaster that comes with breaking up and moving on.

There’s legal advice, kol isha moments, and surprisingly deep girl talk. One minute they’re fighting over dishes from Macy’s, the next they’re unpacking the difference between hate and indifference.

👠 For girls who get it
📜 For tatties who don’t
🎧 For anyone who’s ever yelled "WHERE’S BEIS DIN?"

00:00 Intro and Gity’s vibe check
04:15 The real process behind a frum divorce
10:10 When things get petty (sheitels, china, and the group chat)
18:30 Beis Din breakdowns and Gett refusal
31:50 Sample sales, music therapy, and retail teshuva
41:00 What healing actually looks like

📲 Follow @callhertatty and @gitykogan
🎧 Watch on YouTube or listen on Spotify and Apple
💬 Comment below if you’ve ever considered billing someone for emotional labor

What happens when you mix Upper West Side shidduch trauma, yeshiva nostalgia, and a side of milchigs? You get this banger of an episode with our favorite comedian (and lowkey deep thinker), Dovie Neuberger.

We unpack the conveyor belt that is frum dating, get spicy about Purim parties, debate whether a rich Tatty beats a hot kallah, and expose why girls be posting their manicured nails at the Ohel. You’ll laugh, you’ll cry, you’ll never look at meal trains the same way again. 💅

Subscribe so you don’t miss our next episode of raw, unfiltered frum girl chaos + deep hashkafic takes.

👇 Highlights 👇

00:00 – Dovie joins the chaos: Upper West Side takes & Purim party drama
05:30 – Why dating in NYC is a broken buffet line
11:00 – Build-a-Bae: What Dovie’s really looking for
19:00 – Worst dates, pet peeves & the price of La Maré
30:20 – Hot kallah vs. rich Tatty—choose your hishtadlus
38:00 – Posting your nails at the Ohel: Is it mutar?
44:30 – Dovie’s Netflix dreams & frum Matt Rife energy
49:30 – The Shidduch Crisis: Mathematical problems need math solutions

🔗 Follow Dovie on IG: @dovineuberger
🎧 Follow Call Her Tatty on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever you ignore your therapist
📲 Tag us on Instagram with your fave quotes @call.her.tatty

What’s up sheifelehs. In the first episode of Call Her Tatty, Chava sits down with her husband, Zoli Honig. They talk about their wild love story, how a friend made their shidduch to other people, and how they ended up together after divorce.

They get into yeshivish childhoods, Bais Yaakov rules, marriage at 21, the Upper West Side myth, Miami life, and why this podcast had to happen. Zoli tries to be smart. Chava calls him out.

If your Tatty wouldn’t want you listening, this one’s for you.