Our guest today is Beth Pinsker, CFP®-- seasoned financial journalist, MarketWatch columnist and author of the new book, My Mother's Money: A Guide to Financial Caregiving. She represents the sandwich generation and gives us tips, advice, and cautionary tales about her firsthand experience after finding herself caring for her mother and her finances. She explains that caregiving isn't just forms and bank calls—it's love, logistics, and a dash of stubborn grit. Beth also shares:

• The "death file" story that changed everything
• How to survive bank pushbacks on powers of attorney
• Why a tiny funeral policy became an act of love
• The must-do digital steps that make caregiving possible in a two-factor world

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Mom and Dad, We Need to Talk | Cameron Huddleston | 048

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50 people (now friends), 9 countries... all in one room, speaking the same language: Financial Independence! This is a special episode recorded live from in beautiful Bali, Indonesia at the FI Freedom Retreat. Australian blogger and podcaster, 'Captain FI', joins Jackie as guest co-host to share the FI stories of three of the extraordinary individuals we met at the retreat:

• Claire (Dubai via Ireland)- Restarting and living by the philosophy of 'trust your gut'
• Michael (Seattle)- Newly nomadic, choosing FI-enough over perfection
• Val (Hong Kong)- Taking a gap year that feels like several lifetimes

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Dr. Brad Klontz is a leading expert in financial psychology, professor, bestselling author, and, oh yeah — an internet influencer with millions of followers who tune in for his mix of straight talk and practical money wisdom. He joins Bill for a deep dive into why most money problems aren't math problems. Instead, they are about what's going on in our heads and in our habits. In this episode, Brad discusses:

1. Why smart people still make dumb money mistakes
2. The difference between poor and broke
3. The 4 money scripts (avoidance, worship, status, vigilance)
4. Why he argues that an internal locus of control is the ultimate wealth engine
5. A no-nonsense roadmap for breaking bad money patterns and building real financial freedom

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On July 4th, 2025 an 870-page tax bill called the 'One Big Beautiful Bill Act' (OBBBA) was signed into to law. Some parts have been heavily discussed and others not so much. So we dug around ourselves and pulled out some hidden messages you may have missed that could have major implications to your FI (Financial Independence) journey.

👉🏽 Updates to 2017 'Tax Cuts and Jobs Act' Makes permanent the lowered individual tax brackets established by the Tax Cuts and Jobs Act and keeps the larger standard deduction in place. Also makes permanent the higher lifetime estate gift tax exemption and increases it to $15 million for single & $30 million for married couples in 2026 (indexed to Inflation).

👉🏽 Updates to 2021 'American Rescue Plan' Expiration of the Enhanced ACA premium subsidies (not directly in the bill, it's just not being extended). The lowered premiums will expire and revert back to pre-covid levels. The Subsidy Cliff will be back in play starting 1/1/26. This is a major part of the negotiation with the current federal government shutdown so may be subject to change.

We cover these topics in the new law:

1. Increased Standard Deduction
2. Extra Senior Deduction
3. SALT (State And Local Tax) Deduction Cap Raised
4. Changes with HSA (Health Savings Account) qualifications
5. Child Tax Credit, Dependent Care FSAs, & Dependent Tax Credit
6. Introduction of Child Savings Accounts
7. 529 College Savings Plan Enhancements
8. Deduction for Charitable Contributions Deduction (even if you take the standard deduction)
9. New Temporary Deductions (2025–2028), Even for those who don't itemize
10. Overhaul of Student Loans

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🌐Full Text of the Bill signed into law on 7/4/25

Newsletter with OBBBA Tax Law Toolkit Includes additional content from trusted resources & experts)

IRS Factsheet for OBBBA

Key Elements: 'One Big Beautiful Bill Act' from CFP Board

Newsletter with OBBBA Tax Law Toolkit (Includes additional content from trusted resources and experts)

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Banishing The Burden of Student Loan Debt | Travis Hornsby | 122

A Hero's Journey: Krista & Ed, The Mother of All Case Studies! | Krista and Ed Kim | 97

Millennial Revolution is in The House! | Kristy Shen, Bryce Leung & Little Matchstick | 93

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Jackie joins our friends to the north in Canada for a live taping of TD Direct Investing's 'Inside Investing', turning her late-starter playbook into a friendly masterclass for Canadians and Americans alike. Host Rob Moysey tees up her arc—divorce in her 30s with ~$20k in retirement savings, millionaire a decade later, retired at 49. Jackie fills in the human bits: purpose after FI, why 'precision is not required,' and how a BetterInvesting club cured her market fear.

She also walks through:

• The simple engine that did the work: Maxing out an employer retirement plan, Roth IRA, and HSA in low-cost index funds
• The math behind her Financial Independence target (25× annual expenses ≈ $1M on ~$40k/yr)
• How she kept joy in the journey while saving ~$3k/month

The kicker: despite five years of withdrawals in retirement, her net worth rose from $1.3M (Dec 2019) to ~$2.1M (July 2025). The message lands like a hug and a nudge—know your numbers, automate the boring stuff, and retire TO something.

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📕F.I.R.E. For Dummies

📘Money Letters 2 My Daughter

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From Poverty to Wealth and Early Retirement | Jackie Cummings Koski | 007

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Today's episode is something TRULY special— something that's never happened before!

For the first time ever… we're joined by two remarkable women who've lived alongside one of the most influential voices in the FI community, JL Collins. In this one-of-a-kind episode we introduce you to his wife, Jane Collins and daughter, Jessica Collins. This is their first-ever joint podcast appearance. We're pulling back the curtain to hear their perspectives. What was it like living with someone so passionate about financial independence? How did his philosophy shape their lives, their choices, and their own views on wealth and freedom? This isn't just a conversation about finance—it's about family, legacy, and the ripple effects of good financial education in a household. You're about to hear a side of the story that's never been told before.

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The Adopt-A-Nation-Elder Food Runs are the heart of the organizations program and community. Twice a year they travel to the reservation in service to the Elders whose lives, culture and traditions they cherish. Because of the trust built between the Elders and their families, the staff and volunteers are allowed to travel to the Elders remote homelands and distribute assistance directly to the Elders in their communities. The Food Runs involve hundreds of volunteers transporting hundreds of thousand pounds of food and supplies to the most remote lands in the United State.

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Pathfinders: Stories of Success and Financial Independence | JL Collins | 069

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m-iKa32_xI8&t=27s

F-You Money Part 1 & 2 | JL Collins | 023 & 024

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If you're within ten years of retirement (early or traditional age) or just want to get a head start on going from being a saver to a spender, this episode is for you. Decumulation without drama—that's the mission as retirement pros Dana Anspach (Sensible Money) and Fritz Gilbert (The Retirement Manifesto) join the show to turn "build-your-own paycheck" into a repeatable process. Dana lays out why drawdown is a hundred small decisions, not one big leap; and Fritz brings in the field notes. Together they demystify:

• Tax Pitfalls
• Timing Social Security
• Asset Allocation and Location
• Why Most Retirees Underspend

The big takeaway: document the plan, automate the paycheck, and give yourself permission to enjoy the "go-go" years—because money's job is to fund a life, not gather dust.

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Charity: Freedom for Fido

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📄 Dana's breakdown of OBBBA

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Hard & Soft Sides of Retirement | Fritz Gilbert | 019

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Carl Richards is one of the leading voices when it comes to money and emotions. For over a decade, he was the creator of the Sketch Guy column in The New York Times, where his hand-drawn sketches made financial complexity surprisingly simple—and deeply emotional. He joins us to ask the question that instantly ties our brain in knots: 'What is money, really?' From there, he discusses:

• Why we unknowingly organize life around money and work
• Why 'enough' is a way of being (not a number)
• How we keep handing money jobs it can't do—like self-worth, love, and happiness

Come for the doodles; leave with a gentler, saner way to align your calendar, your checkbook, and your life.

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🌐 BehaviorGap.com

📗 Your Money: Reimagining Wealth in Simple Sketches

📕 The Behavior Gap

📘 The One-Page Financial Plan

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We are welcoming back the man behind the most debated number in retirement, Bill Bengen- this time with a special appearance from his lovely wife, Barbara. We take a brief detour to hear their love story and how they met, before getting into his new book, 'A Richer Retirement: Supercharging the 4% Rule to Spend More and Enjoy More'. He joins us in this episode to:

• Break down the primary goals of the book
• Help you understand what's required to create and manage a successful personal retirement withdrawal plan
• Step us through all the tools required to make your money last your entire lifetime

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🌐 Bill Bengen

📘A Richer Retirement

Charts and Tables from 'A Richer Retirement'

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Mr 4% is now Mr 5% | Bill Bengen | 111

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The average financial planner is about 56 years old, but 25-year-old Emma Von Weise got a running start learning about money as a teenager and is now one of the youngest CFP professionals in the US. She shares how she became money savvy so early and what influences impacted her the most. She isn't here to judge the rest of us who started late, but to help us make up for lost time—with humor, heart, and practical advice that meets you exactly where you are. In this episode, we discuss:

• Emma's money story and early financial literacy
• The spark that led to a career in financial planning at such a young age
• Why she is an old soul that just loves working with retirees
• Modern day Continuing-Care Retirement Communities

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Charity: 3rd Decade

🌐 Focus Partners Wealth

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