Fr. Roger J. Landry
St. Anthony of Padua Parish, New Bedford, MA
Saturday of the 30th Week in Ordinary Time, Year I
Day of Recollection for Men on “Saint Joseph and the Call to Manly Holiness”
October 30, 2021
Rom 11:1-2.11-12.25-29, Ps 84, Lk 14:1.7-11
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The following points were attempted in the homily:
* Today as we host here at St. Anthony’s a Day of Recollection for Men dedicated to the theme of Saint Joseph and the Call to Manly Holiness, Jesus, in the Gospel, speaks to us of one of the virtues in which St. Joseph excelled: the virtue of humility. The path of manly holiness on which St. Joseph seeks to lead us, the path of eternal exaltation, is a path of humility. By means of a parable on seats at a dinner gathering, Jesus teaches us about the humility necessary for us to come to the eternal banquet. The parable flat contradicts the way many in the world, including sometimes many of us Christians, behave. We see it in the ever-growing number of award shows indulging the egos of those in film, television and music, all giving out awards for best actors, actresses, directors, producers, graphic artists, costume designers, film editors, hairstylists, production designer, sound mixers, screen play writers, you name it. We see it in the honors we give to the students who are “Most Popular” “Most Friendly, and “Most Likely to Succeed,” to the “Best Looking” women in pageants, to the “Most Successful” sales representatives, to the “Most Valuable Player” not just of the year but of the week, and even to the “best groomed” dogs. So many of us have been raised with a burning desire to be the best, and even more so to be acknowledged as the best. And if we recognize begrudgingly that we’re not the best, we at least want to be better than those with whom we come into contact or are in competition. We want to get our own way, rather than conceding to the wishes of another. We want everyone to acknowledge our rights and their responsibilities. We want to get the last word, rather than concede it to someone else. We want to be the ones noticed and thanked, and resent it if others get the credit we think we deserve. In short, we hunger to be noticed, esteemed, and exalted. We want the places of honor at table, first class seats on airplanes and front row seats and back stage passes at concerts. We want waiters and butlers to serve us, chauffeurs to drive us, and the rich, famous and important to call us. We long for positions of power and influence and titles of status and worldly honor. This is particularly a problem for men in our uber competitiveness. St. Joseph is a remedy. As we’ll have a chance to ponder a lot today, he was a quiet man of action, who humbly cared for Mary and Joseph, content to remain in the background, to allow them to shine and remain in their shadow.
* Today, however, Jesus calls us to that standard of Saint Joseph, a higher standard that is at the same time, paradoxically, a lower one. He tell us, “Everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, but the one who humbles himself will be exalted.” Jesus, who elsewhere in the Gospel told us, “Learn from me, for I am meek and humble of heart” (Mt 11:29) and whose whole life was a lesson in humility, wants to help us learn from him how to serve rather than to be served, to seek the lowest place rather than the highest, to treasure God’s esteem rather than others’ adulation so that God may say to us, in this world and the next, like he said to St. Joseph, “My friend, come up higher!” The way to be exalted at Jesus’ right side forever is humbly to serve at Jesus’ side here on earth, and to follow him not just in seeking the lowest pla...