Fr. Roger J. Landry
Church of the Annunciation, Houston, Texas
Nuptial Ceremony for Ruben Flores and Amanda Pereira
October 16, 2021
Eccl 4:9-12, Ps 112, 1 Cor 12:31-13:8, Mk 10:6-9
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The following text, part of which was preached in Spanish, guided the homily:
Nine years ago, Amanda and her parents Lucy and Al, my parents Roger and Midge, about 50 others and I went on pilgrimage to the Holy Land. One of the places we were privileged to visit was Cana in Galilee, where Jesus worked his first miracle, at the intercession of his mother, on behalf of a young, newly married couple, who had run out of wine for their eight-day wedding reception. The Church has always looked at the great miracle Jesus worked as more than just a wedding gift to couple, converting 180 gallons of water into precious wine, the equivalent today of 912 750-ml bottles or 76 cases of wine! The Church has understood its deeper significance as Jesus’ elevating the “water” of the natural love between a man and a woman — the primordial “sacrament” or sign of the divine image in the union of Adam and Eve in the beginning — into the “wine” of his divine love and life, a sign and means of intimate supernatural communion with him.
In Cana, it’s customary, after pondering the various elements of miracle, for everyone to pray in gratitude to God for the gift of marriage and the family and for priests to give a special blessing to all married couples, asking God to renew them in their covenant of love with each other and with God. It’s also a place where everyone prays in a special way for those who believe they have the vocation to marry but have not yet met the person with the corresponding vocation. It was that day, after having the privilege to bless Al and Lucy, my own mom and dad, and all of the other married couples present, I asked those who were single but hoping to marry to come forward before the altar. We prayed for God to strengthen them in the grace of patience and hope during the difficult, but indefinite period of waiting. We prayed that God would nourish them during this time with the virtues they would need to be a great future husband or wife. And we prayed for whoever God had given the complementary vocation to marriage, that God would preserve the person free from harm, prepare the person inwardly, make the person strong in faith, and bless that person with the same gift.
Amanda was among those that day before the altar. She told me during marriage preparation, “For the longest time, I would always pray to God, asking Him to let me meet the man that I was meant to marry, a man who was kindhearted, respectful, good, strong and prayerful, someone who would treat me well and with respect. I stayed patient, as patient as I could, because I knew when the time was right, God would bring that person into my life, when I and my future husband were ready to be in a mature, loving relationship.” But that time was long in coming. In Cana, after I had prayerfully given the blessing and everyone had said “Amen” and lifted up their bowed heads, I noticed that Amanda wiped away a small tear, which was a tear of hope, a sign of how intensely she was praying body and soul for whoever that person was.
That day, February 25, 2012, without knowing it explicitly, she and all those present in Cana were praying for you, Ruben, that Jesus bless, preserve, protect and strengthen you. And together with her, all of us here in this beautiful Church of the Annunciation are so grateful that God heard that prayer.