Fr. Roger J. Landry
Espirito Santo Church, Fall River, MA
Nuptial Mass of Cody Knight and Kimberly Abgrab
May 22, 2021
Sir 26:1-4.13-16, Ps 34, Phil 4:4-9, Mt 5:1-12
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The following text guided the homily:
“Rejoice in the Lord always,” St. Paul tells us in his Letter to the Philippians, which Cody and Kimberly chose for today’s wedding Mass. “I shall say it again: rejoice!” We are filled with joy and abundant gratitude to God for getting you to this day — despite a pandemic, despite some serious health challenges — and for making it possible for us to be here with you as he prepares to join you in one flesh for the rest of your lives. Jesus came into the world so that his joy might be in us and our joy might be complete. And since God-with-us is with us until the end of time, in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health, in poverty and prosperity, it is indeed possible, in fact our duty and salvation, to rejoice in him at all times and always and everywhere give him thanks and praise.
Joy is a fruit of the action of the Holy Spirit in us (Gal 5:22). To rejoice always, we must cooperate with the work of the Holy Spirit. And it is impossible to miss the imprint of the Holy Spirit, Kimberly and Cody, on your marriage day. You are getting married in this beautiful Church dedicated to the Holy Spirit. You are being wed on the Vigil of Pentecost, celebrating that day on which the Holy Spirit came down upon Mary and the Apostles in the Upper Room, as depicted in the beautiful stained glass window in the choir loft. This sanctuary is full of the bandeiras (flags) and coronas (crowns) reflective of Portuguese piety toward the Divino Espirito Santo, the third Person of the Blessed Trinity. And the priest celebrating your wedding was here on April 12, 2010, as Kimberly’s Confirmation sponsor, Kimberly, as she was sealed with the gift of the Holy Spirit, as the Holy Spirit came down upon her as her helper and guide and as she were filled with his gifts of wisdom, understanding, knowledge, reverence, prudence, courage and fear of the Lord. This is the same Holy Spirit who likewise strengthened you in faith, Cody, on March 8, 2010 at St. Dominic Parish in Swansea.
We know what happened on Pentecost. The Holy Spirit worked a moral miracle in the lives of the apostles in the Upper Room. On Holy Thursday, despite their promises that they would never betray the Lord, the apostles left the Last Supper and all of them let the Lord down. 53 days later, after the Holy Spirit descended upon them as tongues of fire, they left that same Upper Room and courageously bore witness to Christ even to the point of death. That’s the difference that the Holy Spirit makes. He does the same thing in marriage. He takes the natural love of a man and woman for each other and strengthens it, raising marriage up to the dignity of a sacrament, a sign and means of intimate loving communion with God. Here the Holy Spirit who came down upon each of you in Confirmation wants to come down upon your marriage to fortify you to love each other not just with human love, but with the very love of God.
In the first reading from the Book of Sirach, we hear sung the praises of a good, worthy and virtuous wife, who brings joy to her husband and radiance to her home. That’s the type of wife and generous gift you want to be, Kimberly, for Cody. The Holy Spirit wants to help you become that type of wife and mother.
In the second reading, St. Paul instructs you, “Have no anxiety at all, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, make your requests known to God.