Fr. Roger J. Landry
Basilica of Old St. Patrick, New York, New York
Nuptial Mass for Andrew Lev Shemin and Anna Florette Fata
May 13, 2023
Gen 2:18-24, Ps 103, 1 Cor 12:31-13:8, Mt 5:13-16
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The following text guided the homily:
* Today’s beautiful day, which Anna, her parents, brothers and many cousins, her friends, Archbishop Auza, her fellow coworkers and I from the Holy See Mission, and so many others have long awaited, and a day on which Andrew, his parents, family members and friends have awaited far longer, has finally arrived. And it has a long prehistory, one that goes back far beyond last October 16, when Andrew, astride the Seine River next to Notre Dame Cathedral in Paris, asked Anna to spend the rest of her life with him in a consortium of love and life. It extends beyond when they first started dating in June 2018, or when they first met through friend groups in 2015. It goes back far beyond their births in 1991 and 1980. It goes back to the beginning, as we heard in today’s first reading. In the Book of Genesis, when God created Adam, Adam had God all to himself in the garden. All of creation had been made for him to govern. He was perfectly in right relationship with God. Even though he seemed to have everything one could ask for, something — more specifically, someone — was missing. And after God had said in the first six phases of creation, “It was good,” “It was good,” “It was good,” “It was good,” “It was good,” “It was good,” and with the creation of the human person, “It was very good,” God finally thundered, “It is not good…for man to be alone.” So he created Eve, whom today’s first reading called a “suitable partner,” symbolically out of his side, to show that they stand side-by-side, equal, before God. When Adam saw her, he rejoiced and exclaimed, “Finally this is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh!,” a Hebrew idiom saying that they shared the same strengths and weaknesses. As Jesus would later say in the Gospel, this is the reason why a man leaves his father and his mother and clings to his wife and they become one flesh in love. The upshot of the Creation account is that God, who is love, has created the human person in his image and likeness … in love and for love. Since no one can love in a vacuum, God could not be solitary, there needed to be a Lover and a Beloved, and in God the eternal love between them was so strong as to take on personality. In creating the human person, therefore, God created not just a “him, male and female” but a “them,” a communion between man and woman, whose love for each other could be so strong as literally to “make love,” to generate new life, as a fruit of their loving communion of persons. From the first marriage of Adam and Eve, to your marriage today, Andrew and Anna, marriage was created by God to be a sacrament of love, to help you to grow to be more and more like God and at the same time more fully human. Today you will not only receive a Sacrament but become a Sacrament for as long as you both shall live, a visible sign, as St. John Paul II used to say, pointing to the invisible reality of the Trinitarian loving communion of persons, a living reminder of the fruitful, faithful, indissoluble love of God and an icon of Christ’s love for his bride the Church.
* Jesus spoke about the matrimonial vocation to be a sacrament of God’s love in the Gospel you chose for today. Christian marriage is never just about two people, the husband and the wife. It’s not even merely about the family that, with God’s help and encouragement, they will together raise up,