With the popularity of BDSM, S&M parties and the influx of many excited newbies to the Lifestyle, asking questions is an essential power tool! NEVER letting a fetish over-rule logic. I will discuss how to be smart, safe, what edge-play is and the smartest strategy BEFORE engaging in a CNC/consensual non-consent scene. I will share an example of RED FLAGS, when asking questions and two personal stories, of how listening to answers can save you a world of hurt. You will also see how BDSM party organizers should behave and when avoiding questions or getting touchy, is a huge RED FLAG and you should run! I discuss high protocol behaviour, the difference between the freedom of the swingers' mentality versus how BDSM should be approached and the VETTING process in BDSM.
Try to connect with your local BDSM community. Fetlife is a great way to see others in similar FLR and chastity lifestyles. You can check out Mine in Fetlife at Chastity-Queen. It’s a free to join. Hugs, Chastity Queen
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With the popularity of BDSM, S&M parties and the influx of many excited newbies to the Lifestyle, asking questions is an essential power tool! NEVER letting a fetish over-rule logic. I will discuss how to be smart, safe, what edge-play is and the smartest strategy BEFORE engaging in a CNC/consensual non-consent scene. I will share an example of RED FLAGS, when asking questions and two personal stories, of how listening to answers can save you a world of hurt. You will also see how BDSM party organizers should behave and when avoiding questions or getting touchy, is a huge RED FLAG and you should run! I discuss high protocol behaviour, the difference between the freedom of the swingers' mentality versus how BDSM should be approached and the VETTING process in BDSM.
Try to connect with your local BDSM community. Fetlife is a great way to see others in similar FLR and chastity lifestyles. You can check out Mine in Fetlife at Chastity-Queen. It’s a free to join. Hugs, Chastity Queen
Locked In Lust 15% OFF:CHASTITYQUEENSupport the show
https://www.linktr.ee/ChastityQUEEN
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