June 01, 2023

Collision in Marriage | A Catalyst For Growth

31 minutes

We collide intermittently in our marriage and have realized that if we’re growing really quickly and we’re trying to up-level, often there’s a belief that needs to shift and the only way that the belief can come up is if you come up ahead. One of the best things of our marriage has always been our communication and we will often check each other. So many couples get to that point where someone needs to be checked, and then they'll disengage and pretend it wasn’t an issue, covering it up, and then it keeps reoccurring. Collision is often a necessary part of growth and development that has to happen in order for a marriage to work.

Collision is necessary 1:45
Valuing judgment and deflecting 6:15
Working together with each other’s strengths 10:50
Stories, questions, and details 16:35
Trying to be efficient vs detailed 21:00
Finding out the detail 28:20

“I love our collisions because we sort of come together, clash, bounce away, come back together, but each time we’re on an upward trajectory.” “We don’t worry about our collisions because we know that we’re gonna solve the collision.” 23:06

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