Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula

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In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli sits down with Sheila Martello, founder of Stephy’s Place, a nonprofit grief support center dedicated to providing free, peer-led support for those navigating loss. 

Sheila shares her journey of loss following the events of September 11th, and how her experiences inspired her to create a community where people can grieve openly, find connection, and heal together. They discuss the power of peer support, the myths and misconceptions about grief, and why community plays a vital role in the mourning process. 

Key takeaways from this episode: 

• The story behind Stephy’s Place and how it offers free, peer-led grief support. 
• The difference between grief and mourning—and why both are necessary. 
• Common grief myths and why there’s no "right way" to grieve. 
• How society can better support those who are grieving. 

This episode is a powerful reminder that grief doesn’t have to be faced alone. 

Links & Resources: 

• Stephy’s Place: https://www.stephysplace.org 
• Host: Traci Arieli’s Website: https://www.comfortingclosure.com 

Recommended Resources: 

• Stephy’s Place donation & support page: https://www.stephysplace.org/donate 
• Follow Stephy’s Place on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stephysplace 
• Follow Stephy’s Place on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephysplace 

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In this episode of Comforting Closure – Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli sits down with Erica Baccus to share a deeply personal and powerful story about Death with Dignity. When Erica’s husband was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease, he knew he wanted control over his end-of-life journey. But with restrictive laws in the U.S., they were forced to travel to Switzerland, one of the few places where non-residents can legally choose an assisted death.  

Together, we discuss:  

• What Death with Dignity means and why it was important to Erica’s husband.  
• The legal and logistical challenges of seeking assisted dying in Switzerland.  
• The emotional journey of supporting a loved one through this choice.  
• The impact on grief, healing, and societal perceptions of end-of-life decisions.  

This conversation is about love, loss, and honoring someone’s final wishes. Whether or not you agree with Death with Dignity, Erica’s story is a powerful reminder that every individual deserves autonomy, dignity, and compassion at the end of life.  

Links & Resources  

• Guest's Substack: https://ericabaccus.substack.com/p/a-promise-kept 
• Host: Traci Arieli's Website – https://www.comfortingclosure.com  
• Resource Mentioned: In Love by Amy Bloom – https://www.amybloom.com  

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#DeathWithDignity #EndOfLifeDoula #DeathDoula #Alzheimers #AssistedDying #GriefSupport #ComfortingClosure 

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What happens after we die? How does faith shape the way we grieve? In this episode of Comforting Closure – Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli sits down with Jeff Pedersen, a former practicing Mormon turned agnostic atheist, to explore the unique and deeply rooted beliefs of Mormonism regarding death, grief, and the afterlife. 

Together, they discuss: 

• Pre-mortal existence & the three levels of heaven – What Mormons believe about life before birth and where souls go after death. 
• Resurrection & Eternal Families – The Mormon concept of physical resurrection and the idea that family bonds extend beyond the grave. 
• Grief & Community Support – How the Mormon faith helps families process loss and why community plays a crucial role. 
•  Faith Transitions & Changing Perspectives – Jeff’s personal journey from belief to atheism and how his views on death and grief have evolved. 

Whether you’re curious about Mormon beliefs or simply want to better understand how faith impacts our relationship with death, this episode offers a compelling and thought-provoking discussion. 

Links & Resources: 

• Host: Traci Arieli – https://www.comfortingclosure.com 

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#DeathDoula #EndOfLifeDoula #GriefSupport #MormonFaith #Afterlife #FaithAndGrief #LegacyAndLoss 

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In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli speaks with Danielle Cristofano Schwartz, founder of Love From Lydia. After the devastating loss of her daughter Lydia, Danielle turned her grief into action, creating a compassionate community that provides support for grieving parents. 

Together, they discuss: 

• The unique challenges of child loss and the grief journey. 
• How Love From Lydia provides comfort, resources, and connection for bereaved parents. 
• The power of random acts of kindness in healing and remembrance. 
• Why community and peer support are crucial for those navigating grief. 
• Ways to honor a lost child while still moving forward in life. 

This episode aims to normalize the conversation around child loss, grief, and healing, offering hope and tangible support for families facing the unimaginable. 

Links & Resources: 

• Guest: Danielle Cristofano Schwartz – Love From Lydia – https://lovefromlydia.com 
• Host: Traci Arieli – Comforting Closure – https://www.comfortingclosure.com 
• COPE Program for Bereaved Parents – https://lovefromlydia.com/cope 
• One Last Wave Project – https://onelastwaveproject.com 

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#DeathDoula #EndOfLifeDoula #ChildLoss #GriefSupport #BereavedParents #HealingAfterLoss #ActsOfKindness 

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Navigating Medicare can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to do it alone. In this episode of Comforting Closure – Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli sits down with Medicare expert Sharon Knox to break down the essentials of Medicare & Medicaid, enrollment periods, common pitfalls, and how to choose the right coverage. 

Whether you’re approaching Medicare age, helping a loved one, or planning for the future, this episode will give you practical insights and expert advice to help you make informed healthcare decisions. Sharon shares valuable information on Medicare Advantage vs. Original Medicare, penalties to avoid, and tips for maximizing your benefits. 

Key Takeaways: 

• What Medicare covers and how to qualify 
• The differences between Medicare Advantage, Original Medicare, and Medicaid 
• Enrollment periods and penalties to watch out for 
• How to find the best coverage for your needs 
• Recent changes in Medicare and how they affect you 

This episode is essential for anyone looking to better understand the complex world of Medicare while planning for long-term healthcare needs. 

Links/Resources: 

• Guest: Sharon Knox – Medicare Specialist | Visit Meta Insurance Solutions at https://www.meta-insurancesolutions.com 
• Host: Traci Arieli – Learn more at https://www.comfortingclosure.com 
• Medicare.gov: https://www.medicare.gov 
• CMS Official Site: https://www.cms.gov 

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#DeathDoula #EndOfLifeDoula #Medicare101 #MedicareHelp #AgingWell #HealthcarePlanning #Medicaid #MedicareAdvantage 

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In this episode of Comforting Closure – Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli sits down with Matt Jacobson, founder of LifeBooks, to explore the profound impact of storytelling and legacy documentation. 

Have you ever wondered how to preserve your loved one’s memory for future generations? Matt shares how reflecting on life stories fosters healing, connection, and a sense of continuity. From the emotional and therapeutic aspects of life review to the practicalities of capturing memories, this episode will inspire you to start documenting today. 

Key Takeaways: 

• Why life review is essential for emotional healing and grief processing 
• How legacy documentation can keep a loved one’s memory alive 
• Practical tips for starting a LifeBook and encouraging family participation 
• The role of storytelling in strengthening intergenerational bonds 

This episode is perfect for anyone navigating grief, seeking a way to honor a loved one, or wanting to create a timeless keepsake for their family. 

Links & Resources: 

Guest: Matt Jacobson | LifeBooks – https://www.lifebooks.io 

Host: Traci Arieli | Comforting Closure – https://www.comfortingclosure.com 

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#DeathDoula #EndOfLifeDoula #Legacy #LifeReview #Storytelling #GriefSupport #MemoryPreservation 

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In this episode of Comforting Closure: Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli sits down with Lindsay Hurty, founder of Everwell and Self School, to explore the impact of Forever Letters. These letters are more than words on a page—they’re expressions of love, wisdom, and connection that become part of a lasting legacy. 

Lindsay shares her thoughts on crafting Forever Letters, offering simple and practical tips to help you get started, even if writing feels overwhelming. From using photographs to spark memories to the emotional power of handwritten notes, this episode looks at the joy and healing these letters bring to both the writer and the recipient. 

Key takeaways include: 

• How Forever Letters help preserve your unique voice and legacy. 
• Why the act of writing is as meaningful for the writer as it is for the recipient. 
• The profound impact of sharing your love and wisdom with those who matter most. 

This episode is a beautiful reminder that it’s never too early—or too late—to let the people you love know how much they mean to you. 

Links/Resources: 

• Guest: Lindsay Hurty's Website - lindsayhurty.com 
• Substack: Becoming Everwell with Lindsay Hurty 
• YouTube: Becoming Everwell with Linz 
• Instagram: @lindsay_everwell 
• Host: Traci Arieli's Website - https://www.comfortingclosure.com 

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In this episode of Comforting Closure: Conversations with a Death Doula, Traci Arieli is joined by Lindsay Hurty, Ed.M., a Harvard-educated self-development specialist and founder of Everwell and Self School. Lindsay shares her inspiring journey and how she developed the concept of Forever Letters—a powerful practice of writing deeply personal messages of love, wisdom, and connection to leave a lasting legacy. 

Discover how Forever Letters can transform relationships, provide comfort in times of grief, and create meaningful connections across generations. Lindsay shares touching personal stories, practical advice for getting started, and the profound impact these letters have on both writers and recipients. 

This two-part episode is perfect for anyone interested in exploring legacy work, finding new ways to connect with loved ones, or gaining insights into the emotional benefits of writing. 

Links/Resources: 

• Guest: Lindsay Hurty 
• Substack: Becoming Everwell with Lindsay Hurty- https://open.substack.com/pub/lindsayhurty 
• YouTube: Becoming Everwell with Linds - https://www.youtube.com/user/lindsayhurty 
• Instagram: @lindsay_everwell 
• Host: Traci Arieli's Website - https://www.comfortingclosure.com 
• Book mentioned: Cassandra Speaks by Elizabeth Lesser 

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#DeathDoula #EndOfLifeDoula #LegacyLetters #ForeverLetters #GriefSupport #LoveAndConnection 

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In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli sits down with Jennifer Leal to talk about stem cell donation. Jennifer shares her personal journey with acute myeloid leukemia, the challenges of finding a donor, and how these experiences inspired her advocacy work. 

Together, they discuss the basics of stem cell donation, its life-saving potential, and the barriers that prevent more people from joining the registry. The conversation also highlights the importance of diversity in donor recruitment and the ongoing research expanding the uses of stem cells to treat rare diseases and beyond. 

Key takeaways from this episode include: 

• How to register as a stem cell donor. 
• Addressing misconceptions about stem cell donation. 
• The impact of donor shortages on patients in need. 
• Ways to get involved, even if you’re not eligible to donate. 

This episode aims to raise awareness, inspire action, and normalize conversations about life-saving medical opportunities like stem cell donation. 

Links/Resources 

• Learn more about stem cell donation at https://www.nmdp.org. 
• Host: Traci Arieli's Website - https://www.comfortingclosure.com 

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In this powerful episode of Comforting Closure: Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli sits down with Lori Mars, director at the National Center on Elder Abuse (NCEA). Together, they explore the silent epidemic of elder abuse, covering its various forms—physical, emotional, financial, and neglect—and the devastating impact it has on older adults and their families. 

Key takeaways include: 

• How to recognize the signs of elder abuse. 
• Understanding the risk factors that make older adults vulnerable. 
• Practical steps caregivers and communities can take to prevent abuse. 
• Resources available for victims and their loved ones. 

We all play a role in protecting older adults and creating a safer, more compassionate world. Whether you’re a caregiver, a professional, or someone who loves an aging family member, this is a conversation you won’t want to miss. 

Links/Resources: 

• Guest: Lori Mars, National Center on Elder Abuse – https://ncea.acl.gov 
• Host: Traci Arieli, Comforting Closure – https://www.comfortingclosure.com 
• Resources Mentioned: 
• National Elder Fraud Hotline – 855-500-3537 
• Federal Trade Commission (FTC) – https://www.ftc.gov 
• Consumer Financial Protection Bureau – https://www.consumerfinance.gov 
• Alzheimer’s Association – https://www.alz.org 

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