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Own it. Model it. Demand it.
"It" being EXCELLENCE.
That's the leadership philosophy of one of the best coaches I've had in my life and career.
And I'm bringing him and his reservoir of wisdom to you on the Coming Up Clutch with J.R.™ show today!
Join me and Hall of Fame coach, Terry Ayers, as we dig into his philosophy and talk about what…
…and so much more.
Coach Ayers has spent over FIVE decades coaching athletes and coaches at every level and has impacted so many lives and careers, including mine.
If you want a few extra nuggets to get the best out of you and the people around you, check out today's episode.
You're going to LOVE Coach Ayers!
[00:00 - 14:43] Introducing Terry to the Show
[14:44 - 24:13] The Original 5-Minute Drill
[24:14 - 38:41] Own it. Model it. Demand it.
[38:42 - 45:24] Ask Questions
[45:25 - 48:49] What It Takes To Be The Person Who Can Consistently Come Up Clutch
[48:49 - 59:45] Wrapping Up!
KEY QUOTES
"We all should be practicing to be the best person we can be." - Terry Ayers
"Leaders: you set up the environment to bring out the best in those who follow you." - Terry Ayers
"The people who make it are the ones that see it, take small bites out of it, and enjoy every bite." - Terry Ayers
"Leaders listen. Bosses dictate." - Terry Ayers
"Others make your legacy based on how you treat them." - Terry Ayers
"Talk less, listen more." - Terry Ayers
CONNECT WITH TERRY
CONNECT WITH J.R.
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How hard is it for you to sit on a decision?
You know you need to make it, but you just don't know what to do.
It's SOOOOO dang hard for me to be in this place, especially if it's a BIG decision.
But I've learned that if I don't have peace about a decision, that's God telling me he doesn't want me to make it…yet.
He wants me to WAIT.
But when do you go?
Because this is another thing I've learned…
If you start moving in the direction of where you're NOT supposed to go, chances are you'll get that uneasy gut feeling.
It's the CRAZIEST thing I've ever experienced. But that's when I know I'm hearing from God…that, "hey, man, hold up here."
In today's 5-Minute Drill, I share my go-to strategy for when I'm just not sure what to do…it's something you can use when you don't have clarity and peace around a decision.
Just know this…
God doesn't want you confused. He wants you CLEAR.
LET'S GET IT!
[00:01 - 09:25] Opening Segment
[09:26 - 15:25] What's The Drill?
[15:26 - 17:37] Wrapping up!
KEY QUOTES
"We have to SLOW DOWN and disengage in order to activate our intuition more often." - J.R.
"If you want to access the deepest parts of yourself, you'll have to quiet your mind and get into your heart." - J.R.
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Trust is a scary thing sometimes.
Especially when it comes to following the advice from someone you trust.
There have been several instances where I followed someone else's advice and didn't ask why they gave the advice they gave…
Because I was in a pinch.
I didn't have "time" to ask why. I just needed to go.
I went all right - in some cases, it worked out well. In others, I fell into a hole and spent more time, money, and energy to get out.
In one case - I missed an opportunity to learn.
In the other case, I learned all right - the hard way.
KNOWLEDGE is power. It can prevent you from falling into the proverbial hole.
So that's why asking WHY is such a powerful tool. It's followed by knowledge.
In today's episode of Coming Up Clutch™️, I summarize the Top 3 nuggets from Monday's interview with Richie Schmock - advisor to some of the wealthiest people on the planet.
We get into the WHY question and so much more.
If you want to learn how the wealthiest people in the world make decisions around their money and life, lock in to get the cliffs notes version of my interview with Richie.
[00:01 - 07:20] Richie's BIG Three
[07:21 - 09:14] Wrapping Up!
KEY QUOTES
"Communicate your expectations to your people." - J.R.
CONNECT WITH RICHIE
CONNECT WITH J.R.
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How many times have you heard about the little things?
Even the Bible has something to say about it: "Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much…" (Luke 16:10)
Are you seeking abundance? Or lack?
I know which one I'm seeking, so that's why I've had to lock in on stewarding my time.
And one of the most overlooked and undervalued tools in sports and business these days is helping me be a great steward of my time…
It's called my calendar.
It may not seem like a big deal to you because, let's face it, it's just a calendar.
But what I've learned - your calendar holds the keys to better decisions. And each of those small decisions you make about how you spend your time adds up to make BIG difference in your performance and impact at home and in your career.
In today's 5-Minute Drill, I wrap up my 4-Part Series on creating and implementing a calendar that will help you come up clutch more often in the moments that matter…
So YOU can experience the abundant life.
LET'S GET IT!
[00:03 - 03:44] Opening Segment
[03:45 - 13:37] What's The Drill? Part 4 of the Clutch Calendar™ Design Process
[13:38 - 15:33] Wrapping up!
KEY QUOTES
"It's the little things that make a BIG difference. " - J.R.
"The calendar is one of the most overlooked and undervalued tools in sports and business." - J.R.
CONNECT WITH J.R.
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How's that saying go?
"Show me your friends and I'll show you your future."
I can say from firsthand experience, there's so much truth to that.
For nearly four years, I was hanging around scarcity-minded people and in very toxic environments.
And it almost cost me my career, marriage, and life.
It's so easy to just go with the flow, thinking better days will come.
Until they don't.
In today's Recap, I summarize the Top 3 nuggets from Monday's interview with addiction and mental illness recovery expert and author, Dr. Robb Kelly.
This man has one of the greatest comeback stories I've ever heard - and he's made it his mission to help others write theirs.
If you want some practical insight on how to NOT fall over the common hurdles that pop up along your path to success, then lock in to this recap of my interview with Dr. Robb.
[00:01 - 11:13] Dr. Robb's BIG Three
[11:14 - 13:22] Wrapping Up!
KEY QUOTES
"Isolation almost cost me everything. Stop hiding in a corner." - J.R.
CONNECT WITH DR. ROBB
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Could you imagine going from collaborating with some of the greatest musicians in music history to homeless?
How could one possibly go from that high of a high to that low of a low?
That's part of Dr. Robb Kelly's story.
But here's the other part of his story - he overcame that dark period of his life and has become a sought-after addiction and mental illness recovery expert and the author of "Daddy, Daddy, Please Stop Drinking."
People have referred to him as "The Gordon Ramsay of the Addiction World."
In this episode, we talk about…
…and so much more.
Don't miss out on today's conversation. This is exactly what you or someone you love needs to hear.
Dr. Robb gets raw and real and provides practical insight that you could use whether you have an addiction or not.
[00:03 - 08:53] Introducing Dr. Robb to the Show
[08:54 - 19:43] The Difference Between Alcoholics and Addicts and What It Means to You
[19:44 - 24:54] What To Do When You're Feeling Isolated And Alone
[24:55 - 28:25] When You're Stuck Listening To Other People's (Negative) Stories
[28:26 - 33:44] The Terminal Illness That You Must Get Rid Of If You Want To Excel In Life
[33:45 - 41:53] What It Takes To Break Addictions
[41:54 - 51:34] Wrapping Up!
KEY QUOTES
"You can change someone's life in 3 seconds." - Dr. Robb Kelly
"Miracles are around you everyday…you just need to know where to look." - Dr. Robb Kelly
"You are born with a 1 million dollar mind - stop hanging around 10 cent minds." - Dr. Robb Kelly
"Show me your friends and I'll show you your future." - Dr. Robb Kelly
CONNECT WITH DR. ROBB
CONNECT WITH J.R.
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Have you ever caught yourself saying, "I wish I had more time for ________."
What's in your blank?...
Family?
Golf?
Friends?
Improving what I do for a living?
I was living the "I wish" life on the daily not too long ago.
And if I'm being honest, that statement still creeps in every once in a while.
Bottom line, if I'm not intentional about my calendar and structuring it in a way that serves me, those I WISHes come around more often.
In today's 5-Minute Drill, I continue my 4-Part Series on creating your Clutch Calendar. When you lock into today's strategy, you'll feel more in control, more confident, and start seeing direct results in your life and career…
You'll feel a greater sense of self-worth and freedom…
Your levels of focus and energy will get a major upgrade.
You want that. I want that for you. So, check out today's Drill.
LET'S GET IT!
[00:03 - 17:22] Opening Segment
[17:23 - 19:48] What's The Drill? Part 3 of the Clutch Calendar™ Design Process
[19:49 - 21:14] Wrapping up!
KEY QUOTES
"The less thinking you have to do about everyday tasks and decisions, the more focus and energy you could put towards your craft, passions, and the people you love." - J.R.
"Whenever you say YES to something, you say NO to something else." - J.R.
"Don't underestimate the power of your calendar and how it can help you come up clutch more often on every field of play you're on. " - J.R.
CONNECT WITH J.R.
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Imagine what would happen to your relationships and career if you adopted the same mindset of Yankees legend, Yogi Berra…
Think, believe, and act as if you're the best…
WITHOUT treating others like they were lower than you.
Now it makes sense why Yogi was one of the greatest sports figures of all-time AND one of the most beloved teammates and players in sports history…
WHILE being a cherished father and grandfather.
In today's episode of Coming Up Clutch with J.R.™️, I summarize the Top 3 nuggets from Monday's interview with Lindsay Berra - expert sports and fitness writer and the first granddaughter of Yankees Legend, Yogi Berra.
We get behind the scenes and into the mind of Yogi, but also dig into what he did to inspire Lindsay to become a trailblazer in her own right.
If you want insider's access to the mind of a sports legend, check out today's episode to get the cliffs notes version of my interview with Lindsay.
[00:01 - 08:28] Lindsay's BIG Three
[08:29 - 11:29] Wrapping up!
KEY QUOTES
"It's therapeutic just to get everything out of your head and on to paper." - J.R.
CONNECT WITH LINDSAY
CONNECT WITH J.R.
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Ever wonder about what made some of the world's greatest sports legends tick? What REALLY happened behind the scenes with their lives and impact on their families?
I do…ALL the time.
Since Kobe Bryant's passing, I'm starting to see a lot more come out about him - his approach to his sport, his life, and his family.
It's inspiring.
So that's why I wanted to get my friend, Lindsay Berra, on the mic.
Her grandfather, Yogi Berra, didn't become a sports legend and icon just because of the way he played…
He became a legend because of the way he LIVED.
And the legacy he left with his family was inspiring to say the least.
Not only will Lindsay and I talk about what Yogi was like off the field, we're going to dig into the traits he instilled in her…
Because Lindsay is a trailblazer in her own right…
In this episode, we talk about…
And, of course…
If you want to learn from one of the greatest sports figures of all time, this is the interview for you!
[00:03 - 19:44] Introducing Lindsay to the show
[19:45 - 25:28] What Helped Yogi Berra Come Up Clutch Over And Over Again
[25:29 - 29:59] The Common Trend When It Comes To Nutrition And High-Achievers Falling Short Of Their Ultimate Best
[30:00 - 31:59] How To Handle Pressure
[32:00 - 41:37] What It Was Like Growing Up With Yogi Berra As Your Grandfather
[41:38 - 48:06] Wrapping Up!
KEY QUOTES
"Yogi Berra believed he was the best at what he did without ever thinking that he was better than everyone else." - Lindsay Berra talking about her grandfather
"If you're going to be a leader, you need to be worthy of the respect of the people you're leading. You're not going to get that if you're being a jerk." - Lindsay Berra
"Don't attach ANY emotion to a negative outcome." - Lindsay Berra
"There's nothing more important than your family and your relationships with people - TAKE CARE OF YOUR PEOPLE!" - Lindsay Berra
CONNECT WITH LINDSAY
CONNECT WITH J.R.
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Busy is an excuse.
Took me 30+ years and a LOT of coaching to realize that.
For some reason, being busy has become a badge of honor.
In reality, it's a right of passage…to BURNOUT.
The ultra-successful aren't burned out…they're bold when it comes to what goes on their calendar. It's how they achieve BIG things.
In today's 5-Minute Drill, I share a strategy that will help you get more of what you want done and eliminate all the BS causing chaos on your calendar…
So YOU can achieve BIG things.
CHAOS leads to CRISIS…
CONTROL leads to CLUTCH.
I know which one you prefer, so let's get after it today.
Part 2 in my 4-Part Series on creating your Clutch Calendar has officially dropped.
LET'S GET IT!
[00:03 - 08:19] Opening Segment
[08:20 - 16:49] What's The Drill? Part 2 of the Clutch Calendar™ Design Process
[16:50 - 18:20] Wrapping up!
KEY QUOTES
"Your calendar is one of your primary sources of control and focus in life." - J.R.
"Your focus and focused attention is a precursor to FLOW state." - J.R.
"Let your days work for you instead of against you. " - J.R.
CONNECT WITH J.R.
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