Confessions of a Recovering Micromanaging Perfectionist Martyr

Like a tiger pacing in an imaginary cage, we sometimes limit ourselves with patterns of negative thinking. In this episode, we explore how easy it is to trap ourselves in cycles of stress and frustration, overlooking the expansive freedom available in our lives. Join us as we discuss ways to recognize these mental cages and embrace a more open, positive perspective on the world around us.

And some more about getting unstuck…
A River Runs Through It - How I Get Myself Unstuck

And this, which has really been a golden nugget of recovery for me…
If I Want Self-Confidence I Just Have to do THIS?

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Sometimes, pretending is more than just play—it’s a powerful tool for handling life’s unexpected spills (like oatmeal everywhere). In this episode, we explore how “faking it till you make it” can help you manage difficult moments, build confidence, and grow into the person you want to be. Tune in for a lighthearted take on using the art of pretending to handle frustrations, challenges, and everyday moments with a little extra grace.

Apparently, I dig this topic…
Fake It Till You Make It – When Playing Pretend is the Best Option

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Family life can feel like a whirlwind of shifting moods and cycles, especially with teenagers in the mix. In this episode, we discuss the value of recognizing life’s natural rhythms instead of jumping to fix every minor crisis. By learning to ride out the ups and downs, we can reduce stress and find peace amidst the chaos. Tune in for insights on managing family dynamics with patience, perspective, and self-compassion.

And a link to my inspiration for riding “The Cycle”…
Reacting - Getting Schooled by My Husband in Parenting 101

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Generosity can be tough when fears of scarcity creep in. Inspired by singer Jewel's perspective on generosity, this episode explores the struggle with sharing what’s closest to us and the deeper faith it requires. Join us as we examine the value of giving, the illusions of control, and the journey to believe that, in life, there’s always enough to go around—even if it means holding our "stuff" a little more loosely.

More on sharing (I love the quote in this post)…
Are You Good At Sharing? You Must Be the Oldest

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Weight gain and self-acceptance can feel at odds, especially when societal pressures linger. In this episode, we explore a new perspective on embracing life’s changes with compassion. From stepping into family photos to easing self-criticism, this journey is about finding peace with your body at any size. Tune in to discover how self-acceptance can empower us to live freely—no matter the stage we’re in.

This is how I put it together that we learn from one another…
Monkey See Monkey Do - If I don’t know what it looks like, I can’t do it.

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Sometimes, we blame ourselves when things go wrong, whether in the kitchen or in life. In this episode, we explore how a broken oven became an unexpected teacher, revealing the importance of examining the “systems” around us instead of always blaming ourselves. Join us for a lighthearted look at why sometimes, it’s not you—it’s the oven—and how shifting our perspective can open new doors in life, work, and yes, even cooking!

How I learned to get help with every problem…(Thank you Aunt Maureen!)
Throw Money - The Solution To Almost Every Problem

When I vowed to never cook…(maybe this is how long my crappy oven’s been broken!)
Crappy Mom List - 5 Things I’m Never Gonna Change

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Ambition isn't just about career milestones or financial success—it’s the quiet, everyday determination to show up in every area of life. In this episode, we redefine ambition beyond society’s standards, exploring how it shows up in relationships, home life, personal growth, and all the little, repeated efforts that keep us moving forward. Tune in for a refreshing perspective on success and the power of simply showing up.

Post referenced in this episode:
Slow Is The New Fast - Shifting My Perspective on Speed

And, another look at Ambition:
Ambition Came to Talk to Me and this Is What She Said

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Parenting often feels like a game of Operation, where every misstep can "zap" our connections. In this episode, we explore how adjusting our reactions can transform our relationships with our kids. Instead of expecting children to change, what happens when we adapt our approach? Join us as we share insights on building trust, respect, and patience—one careful move at a time. This episode is for anyone who wants to improve family dynamics with empathy and a steady hand.

And here’s more on honoring my kids inner knowing…
 The Art of Disappointment: It's Not You, It's Me

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Winter blues and close quarters can amplify even the smallest frustrations—like a “borrowed” clipboard! In this episode, we discuss how seasonal shifts impact our patience, especially in parenting, and explore how keeping ourselves “filled” with self-care can make those annoyances easier to handle. Whether you're feeling drained or just need a reminder that "this too shall pass," this episode brings a lighthearted take on embracing the season’s challenges.

It must be something in the March air, I wrote this post in March too…
 What to Remember when I've HAD IT with my Children

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Ever feel like everything, even the fun stuff, is just draining? In this episode, we explore the concept of an energy list—a tool to help you identify what drains and restores you. We discuss how shifting focus to activities that bring balance can transform your day-to-day, making it easier to say “no” when needed and rediscover joy in simple moments. Tune in to find out how a little awareness can bring a big boost to your overall serenity.

And if you need more support saying “no”...
Trying to Prove Myself

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