Confessions of a Recovering Micromanaging Perfectionist Martyr

A look back to a post I wrote in 2017 that still completely applies to my life today.  Sometimes the simplest needs, like rest, make all the difference. In this episode, I’m sharing how sleep (or lack of it) affects my ability to stay patient and present with my family. Join me as I explore the importance of rest and the surprising toll that summer’s long days can take on kindness—and how a little extra sleep might just be the best self-care. 💤

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A look back at when life cranked up the heat (literally)—sometimes the simplest things bring relief. In this episode, I’m sharing a lesson learned on a 90-degree day with no AC, an open highway, and a Spotify playlist that changed everything. Tune in as I reflect on finding unexpected joy and how a bit of loud music and fresh air helped me rediscover an old self-care trick right when I needed it most. 🎶 🚗

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A look back at how we make summer plans we’ll actually enjoy. With open days and a calendar full of invites, I’ve come up with a simple set of questions to help us choose plans that bring joy, not stress. Join me as I share my “summer framework” for filling our days with meaning, a little calm, and some laughs along the way. 🌞✨

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Summer planning doesn’t have to mean over-scheduling. In this episode, we reflect on the evolution of “CampPetris” and explore how to create a loose, flexible plan that balances family time, independence, and rest. By blocking family events, letting teens make their own plans, and being intentional with downtime, this year’s summer strategy is all about living peacefully and being present. Join us as we prepare for a summer filled with flexibility, connection, and #redirection from screen time!

Posts referenced in this episode:
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Summer is the perfect time to tackle clutter with a fresh approach! In this episode, we revisit the “Room by Room” decluttering strategy and share tips for making home organization a self-care mission rather than a chore. Whether it’s chatting with a friend, binge-watching while sorting, or getting lost in an audiobook, we’re embracing the joy of a well-planned, relaxed summer clear-out. Join us for simple ways to declutter with ease and purpose—and maybe feel a little lighter come fall!

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As summer approaches, it’s time to rethink the plan—without overcommitting! In this episode, we discuss the common mistake of trying to do too much in the summer and explore ways to create a balanced, serene season. From setting boundaries with work and technology to creating a weekly “mind, body, spirit” plan, this year’s goal is a calm, connected summer. Tune in for tips on crafting a conscious, realistic summer plan and discover the joys of freeing yourself from the usual hustle.

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It’s “birthday week” and Confessions’ 6th Anniversary! This week, we celebrate the journey by looking at the power of planning and how it can transform our lives. From marriage to family life to personal growth, having a “Please Love and Nurture” Plan has helped me flow toward my goals without micromanaging every step. Join us as we discuss why planning is less about control and more about creating space for growth, and follow along as I start planning for a peaceful summer with my family.

Slow is the New Fast - Learning How to Heed My Speed

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It can be tough when others meet our joy or success with negativity, but embracing the Ubuntu philosophy can help us shine through. In this episode, we explore how not letting envy dim our light aligns with the Ubuntu spirit: "If you are brighter, I am brighter, we are all brighter." Join us as we discuss the power of letting go of others' judgments, focusing on shared joy, and living unapologetically in our own light.

Ubuntu, I Am because We are - The African Philosophy that Can Set Me Free

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Inspired by the philosophy of Ubuntu, as highlighted by NBA coach Doc Rivers, this episode explores how focusing on collective well-being can unlock personal growth. We dive into the concept of Ubuntu: “I am because we are,” and how embracing this mindset can help us shift from self-limitation to shared joy and connection. Join us as we discuss the power of Ubuntu in overcoming fear and spreading love.

The Fear of Embracing My Blessings - What My Magical Thinking Could Do to My Family

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Do you ever hold onto issues as a way to protect yourself or others? In this episode, we dive into the concept of “Magical Thinking”—the belief that focusing on problems can somehow shield loved ones from harm. We explore why it’s so hard to let go of old fears, how they create an illusion of security, and what it means to truly embrace abundance. Join us for a candid conversation about breaking free from self-imposed limitations.

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