In this initial conversation with author and podcaster John Atak, we explore the complex nature of cult-like organizations, referencing his almost 40 years of research and experience alongside my experience in Landmark, a group rooted in Werner Erhard’s controversial teachings. We discussed how intense devotion to a charismatic leader OR ideology can subtly transform into devotion to an organization and “the work,” masking manipulation, abuse, and trauma under the guise of self-improvement and personal responsibility.

Together, they examine broader questions about why society tolerates exploitation in such settings, the parallels between groups like Landmark and Scientology, and the urgent need to rethink what ethical, evidence-based, and truly beneficial personal development could look like.

RESOURCES & LINKS: 

Check out Jon’s Show www.youtube.com/@jonatackfamilyfriends6176

Read Anne’s Book Is This A Cult: Confronting the Line Between Exploitation and Transformation and find other pods and resources →  https://isthisacultbook.com/ 

If you or someone you know is wrestling with recovery after being involved in a high-control group, relationship or any organization, check out the Healthy Healing and Recovery Group w/ Rachel Bernstein  https://ilumn8.life/op/lgat-recovery-group/ 

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In this conversation, resident expert and author on transformational methodologies, Ed Gurowitz, and I explore the nuances of transformation methodologies, the distinction between technology and methodology, and the complexities surrounding the concept of responsibility. 

We discuss his recent book, Transformation: From Potential to Practice and the historical context of transformational practices, the potential for misuse, and the importance of shared goals in organizational settings. The dialogue emphasizes the need for a relational approach in both personal and organizational transformation, while also addressing the challenges and misconceptions that arise in the self-help and coaching industries.

Some Takeaways ..

• Transformation methodologies have evolved since the EST era.

• Understanding the difference between technology and methodology is crucial.

• Responsibility should not be conflated with blame or guilt.

• Peak experiences can overshadow the ongoing practice of transformation.

• Coping mechanisms can become survival strategies that limit growth.

• Organizations are moving from transactional to relational models.

• Transformation is a lifelong practice, not a one-time event.

• The misuse of transformational concepts can lead to harm.

• Experience can easily turn into dogma if not critically examined.

• The future of transformation lies in collaborative and relational approaches.

  
  

RESOURCES & LINKS: 

To get Ed’s book visit his author page →  https://tinyurl.com/yzb7xf76 

Go through Ed’s book chapter by chapter with Ed and Anne and discuss the principles and their application → https://vc217.infusionsoft.com/app/orderForms/i8-EG-TPP 

Read Anne’s Book Is This A Cult: Confronting the Line Between Exploitation and Transformation and find other pods and resources →  https://isthisacultbook.com/ 

If you or someone you know is wrestling with recovery after being involved in a high-control group, relationship or any organization, check out the Healthy Healing and Recovery Group w/ Rachel Bernstein →  https://ilumn8.life/op/lgat-recovery-group/ 

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In this conversation, Anne is joined by Rachel Bernstein, LMFT, MSEd, Podcaster, and Cult Education Expert, to explore the complexities of healing and recovery, particularly in relation to high control groups, exploitative employers and abusive partners. They discuss the manipulative use of language, the concept of authenticity versus inauthenticity, and the misconceptions surrounding pain as a necessary component of personal growth. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of examining both the positive and negative aspects of past experiences, as well as the dangers of oversharing and trauma bonding in recovery contexts. They also explore the complexities of authenticity within self-help programs, the emotional toll of self-discovery, and the dangers of formulaic approaches in therapy and self-help. Covered in the discussion is the impact of hiding one's true self, the challenges of navigating group dynamics, and the potential weaponization of self-help tools. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of finding joy in simplicity and recognizing personal responsibility in relationships, ultimately advocating for a more nuanced understanding of personal growth and transformation.RESOURCES & LINKS: Check out Rachel Bernstein's excellent Podcast for deeper understanding about what is healthy vs harmful when seeking growth https://www.podpage.com/indoctrination/ If you or someone you know is wrestling with recovery after being involved in a high-control group, relationship or any organization, check out the Healthy Healing and Recovery Group w/ Rachel Bernstein https://ilumn8.life/op/lgat-recovery-group/ . Supported via a gifting model to make it as accessible as possible. Read Anne’s book - Is This A Cult: Confronting the Line Between Exploitation and Transformation and find other pods and resources → https://isthisacultbook.com/ FINALLY Please consider supporting this channel which helps us to offer more and better content and resources such as the healing group w/ Rachel. Contributing also supports the learning and healing needs of folks, no matter their ability to pay, who are waking up to and leaving high demand and cult(ish) groups. Learn what you can do HERE. https://ilumn8.givingfuel.com/ilumn8givingMODERATION NOTE: While healthy debate and discussion regarding the topics being discussed is encouraged, personal (ad hominem) attacks on people, places or things will be deleted.

In this episode, Anne and fellow deconstructionist Chris Shelton delve into the dynamics of high-control groups and gurus. They explore how language, choice, and context can play crucial roles in manipulation and personal experiences. They discuss the dangers of the distortions of everyday notions about choice, responsibility, and context that are often taught by self-development groups and gurus can and do play out. They address the importance of acknowledging victimhood, and the impact of social pressure on individual choices. They emphasize the need for critical examination of ideas and the interconnectedness of personal and collective experiences in the journey of healing and transformation.TAKEAWAYS: High control groups often use specific language to manipulate members.The concept of choice can be weaponized in high control environments.Distinctions in language can obscure the dangers of certain ideologies.Understanding manipulation requires examining both leaders and systems.Context is crucial in shaping our perceptions and experiences.Language can create a false sense of responsibility and choice.Personal experiences in high control groups can lead to complex feelings of empowerment and victimhood.Healing from trauma often requires acknowledging victimhood and systemic issues.Social pressure can significantly influence individual choices in group settings.Critical examination of ideas is essential for personal growth and understanding.ABOUT Chris Shelton, MSc, Coercive Control Expert, Show Host & Podcaster. Chris was a Scientologist who escaped in 2013. In realizing just how deep the rabbit hole of manipulation and deceit of Scientology was, Chris created videos outlining how Scientology works. He then began talking to psychologists, sociologists and former cult survivors across the spectrum as part of his own recovery. This led to completing a Masters degree in the Psychology of Coercive Control. Coercion and abusive practices are routine in far too many religious and self-help practices. His YouTube channel and Podcast is an effort to warn, educate and help others navigate their post cult healing.RESOURCES & LINKS: Check out Chris’s Podcast/Show Speaking of Cults https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCF326xyA0QHI7Z5xAwKQDJgRead Anne’s Book Is This A Cult: Confronting the Line Between Exploitation and Transformation and find other pods and resources → https://isthisacultbook.com/ If you or someone you know is wrestling with recovery after being involved in a high-control group, relationship or any organization, check out the Healthy Healing and Recovery Group w/ Rachel Bernstein https://ilumn8.life/op/lgat-recovery-group/ MODERATION NOTE: While healthy debate and discussion regarding the topics being discussed is encouraged, personal (ad hominem) attacks on people, places or things will be deleted. FINALLY Please consider supporting this channel which helps us to offer more and better content and resources such as the healing group w/ Rachel. Contributing also supports the learning and healing needs of folks, no matter their ability to pay, who are waking up to and leaving high demand and cult(ish) groups. Learn what you can do HERE. https://ilumn8.givingfuel.com/ilumn8giving

In this conversation, Brandon Hurst discusses his journey from initial involvement with Landmark Worldwide at a VERY young age and leaving high school early to become a Staff member by the age18! He shares his experiences of the emotional manipulation, high-control dynamics, and pressures individuals face within such organizations.

The conversation explores themes of personal choice, responsibility, and the normalization of abusive behavior.He recounts his experiences leaving Landmark, and the challenges and successes he encountered afterward. He describes his rebellion against authority, the emotional distress of losing his job and perceived mission, and his realization that others shared similar experiences after leaving.

Furthermore, Brandon reflects on the trauma he experienced, the importance of understanding these types of high-control work environments, and the process of reclaiming his identity. He highlights the significance of self-love, authenticity, and the process of personal deconstruction as he navigated life after Landmark.

RESOURCES & LINKS:

Connect with Brandon via TikTok or instagram @brandontheplantguy

Read Anne’s Book Is This A Cult: Confronting the Line Between Exploitation and Transformation and find other pods and resources → https://isthisacultbook.com/

If you or someone you know is wrestling with recovery after being involved in a high-control group, relationship or any organization, check out the Healthy Healing and Recovery Group w/ Rachel Bernstein https://ilumn8.life/op/lgat-recovery-...

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In part two of their conversation, Anne and Brian Arbor delve into the complexities of trauma and PTSD. They explore the efficacy of personal development in addressing PTSD and emphasize the importance of healing rather than merely transforming trauma.

Brian shares his personal experiences with PTSD and the limitations of self-help tools, highlighting the need for professional support and the acknowledgment of emotional responses. The discussion underscores the significance of understanding trauma as a progressive condition that requires ongoing attention and care.

RESOURCES & LINKS: 

From Brian Arbor if you are a Veteran and you need help please go to https://www.veteranscrisisline.net/ 

Read Anne’s Book Is This A Cult: Confronting the Line Between Exploitation and Transformation and find other pods and resources →  https://isthisacultbook.com/ 

If you or someone you know is wrestling with recovery after being involved in a high-control group, relationship or any organization, check out the Healthy Healing and Recovery Group w/ Rachel Bernstein  https://ilumn8.life/op/lgat-recovery-group/ 

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In this conversation we invited former Landmark Staffer and Army combat veteran Brian Arbor to delve into the complex interplay between personal transformational tools and the toughest of living circumstances, deployment to an active war zone. We explore Brian's journey through PTSD recovery, his experiences with the Landmark Worldwide, and the impact of both in war including identity and purpose. The discussion highlights the dangers of disassociation, the importance of hope and purpose in healing, and the challenges faced by individuals in high-control environments. Ultimately, they reflect on the burdens of trauma and the necessity of addressing the emotional and psychological aspects of recovery with the proper tools. CONTENT Advisory: Please be aware that in this episode, Brian discusses challenging experiences involving children from his combat deployment. This content may be sensitive or distressing. We encourage you to listen at your own pace, taking breaks as needed, and prioritize your well-being. Part two, which will be released later this week, will delve deeper into the recovery strategies and techniques Brian has utilized.RESOURCES & LINKS: From Brian Arbor if you are a Veteran and you need help please go to https://www.veteranscrisisline.net/ Read Anne’s Book Is This A Cult: Confronting the Line Between Exploitation and Transformation and find other pods and resources → https://isthisacultbook.com/ If you or someone you know is wrestling with recovery after being involved in a high-control group, relationship or any organization, check out the Healthy Healing and Recovery Group w/ Rachel Bernstein https://ilumn8.life/op/lgat-recovery-... MODERATION NOTE: While healthy debate and discussion regarding the topics being discussed is encouraged, personal (ad hominem) attacks on people, places or things will be deleted.

In this conversation I (Anne) invited Dr. John Hunter and Dr. Ed Gurowitz to delve into the complexities of transformational methodologies, particularly focusing on large group awareness trainings (LGATs).

We discussed the potential benefits and risks associated with these methodologies, the ethical implications of their practices, and the importance of informed consent.

Our conversation emphasizes the need for regulation and accountability in the personal development industry, advocating for a more educated consumer base and safer practices.

RESOURCES & LINKS You can check out Dr. John Hunters work at https://johnhunterphd.com/#about-me

Dr John’s Article explaining LGATS in 1000 words or less https://thoughtleader.co.za/the-first-rule-of-large-group-awareness-trainings/?amp

Read Anne’s Book Is This A Cult: Confronting the Line Between Exploitation and Transformation and find other pods and resources → https://isthisacultbook.com/

If you or someone you know is wrestling with recovery after being involved in a high-control group, relationship or any organization, check out the Healthy Healing and Recovery Group w/ Rachel Bernstein https://ilumn8.life/op/lgat-recovery-group/

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In this episode we meet up with Ann Betz, Co-founder of BEabove Leadership and an expert on the intersection of neuroscience, coaching, trauma and human transformation. Ann speaks, trains and coaches internationally, and writes about neuroscience and coaching as well as relational trauma.

TRIGGER Warning … In this episode we discuss employment abuse, domestic abuse and strangulation specifically from the 38m - 43m mark. If you have experienced these types of behaviors in any environment this discussion could be triggering or upsetting. Please take care of yourself.

Together we explore the nuances of coaching, the impact of neuroscience on personal development, and the challenges of navigating toxic relationships. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding the line between genuine coaching and manipulation. Through our personal experience and professional insights, we aim to shed light on the complexities of enrollment in transformational programs, the impact of self-worth on personal growth, and the nuances of long-term transformation. We discuss the importance of perception shifts, the four levels required to integrate any “transformation” or new understanding as well as the role of emotions in personal development. The dialogue emphasizes the need for integration and stabilization in the growth process, while also questioning who truly benefits from these transformational spaces.

RESOURCES: Learn more about Ann’s coaching www.beaboveleadershsip.com You can also follow her blog about narcissism www.butnowIknowyourname.wordpress.com

Read Anne’s Book Is This A Cult: Confronting the Line Between Exploitation and Transformation and find other pods and resources → https://isthisacultbook.com/

If you or someone you know is wrestling with recovery after being involved in a high-control group, relationship or any organization, check out the Healthy Healing and Recovery Group w/ Rachel Bernstein https://ilumn8.life/op/lgat-recovery-...

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I LOVED this conversation with my book publisher Angela Kingdon. On this one year anniversary of writing my first book Is This A Cult? Angela and I explore the complex dynamics of personal transformation, the fine line between empowerment and exploitation, and the impact of cult-like structures in personal development.

We reflect on VERY serendipitous meeting as well as our own journeys of writing, coaching, and navigating the challenges of authenticity and privilege. Our discussion emphasizes the importance of self-reflection, community support, and the need for ethical practices in coaching and leadership.

RESOURCES & LINKS: Check out Angela’s SubStack & Podcast https://www.autisticculturepodcast.com/podcast

Read Anne’s Book Is This A Cult: Confronting the Line Between Exploitation and Transformation and find other pods and resources → https://isthisacultbook.com/

If you or someone you know is wrestling with recovery after being involved in a high-control group, relationship or any organization, check out the Healthy Healing and Recovery Group w/ Rachel Bernstein https://ilumn8.life/op/lgat-recovery-group/

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