Remember when Facebook’s Sheryl Sandberg told women to “lean in?” This week, Michelle Obama said that stuff doesn’t always work, and she got a big round of applause when she said it. We talk to a panel of women about the concept of “leaning in.” In studio: Patricia Cruz-Irving , director of communications for Senator Rich Funke Rebecca Leclair , former broadcast journalist now running her own communications consulting business Jen Lunsford , attorney with Segar & Sciortino and former