Consider Yourself Hugged

Consider Yourself Hugged

By Tami West and Michelle KixmillerHealth & FitnessMental Health
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Consider Yourself Hugged episodes

  • Episode #40: Today's Hug - A Pastor’s Story: Addiction, Loving God, Loving People
    There’s something Christians do that is not biblical but it is destructive. I’m not going to quote scripture but I think intuitively, Christian or not, you will know that it’s just not right. I see it. I hear it. And I'm embarrassed to say, I’ve done it. Here it is: We think or we say, "How can so & so be a Christian when he or she ___" fill in the blank: Gossips, gets angry, parties, smokes, had an affair, had an abortion, has an addiction. I have a chat today that will change your life. If you are not a Christian, if you have been judged by Christians, if you are a Christian who judges or who has been judged, this story is for you! It’s one of mistakes, consequences, overcoming, transparency, touching people’s lives, and love. I have a very special guest today, my pastor, Dan Smith. I'm so excited for you to hear his message: Whatever your weak spot, you are loved and you can heal! (Show notes at http://bit.ly/32GGDAgCYH40)

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    • Women’s Group: A Place for Women—ongoing conversation

    **The information shared in this episode is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care.
    If you or someone you know is struggling, please seek help from a qualified professional. If you’re in crisis, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, or visit 988lifeline.org for chat and resources.

    General Resources 
    National Alliance of Mental Illness: https://www.nami.org 
    Mental Health America: https://mhanational.org 
    Mental Health First Aid Resources: https://www.mentalhealthfirstaid.org/ 

    About Tami & Michelle:
    Michelle Kixmiller, PMHNP
    Michelle is a Board Certified Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner 

    Tami West, PhD
    Stress & Mental Health Expert Dr. Tami West uses research & fun to help transform your life.

    51 min
  • Episode #39: Today's Hug - Our Inner Critics Part II
    Well, I didn't know I'd be recording a Part II of "Our Inner Critics," but I just had to! I'm doing a book study with a friend, and Ch. 1 just screamed some thoughts I had to share with you. Join me today as I talk about 3 steps to getting on track with your self esteem. I'll post a link to the book if you'd like to join! Enjoy and let me know what you think :) (Show notes at http://bit.ly/2JNZ7byCYH39)

    Connect with us

    • Instagram: Consider Yourself Hugged (new account!)
    • TikTok: Short clips and stories
    • YouTube: Full episodes + video snippets
    • Women’s Group: A Place for Women—ongoing conversation

    **The information shared in this episode is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care.
    If you or someone you know is struggling, please seek help from a qualified professional. If you’re in crisis, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, or visit 988lifeline.org for chat and resources.

    General Resources 
    National Alliance of Mental Illness: https://www.nami.org 
    Mental Health America: https://mhanational.org 
    Mental Health First Aid Resources: https://www.mentalhealthfirstaid.org/ 

    About Tami & Michelle:
    Michelle Kixmiller, PMHNP
    Michelle is a Board Certified Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner 

    Tami West, PhD
    Stress & Mental Health Expert Dr. Tami West uses research & fun to help transform your life.

    17 min
  • Episode #38: Today's Hug - BounceBackAbility With Special Guest Sarah Steele
    I have a very special guest today, international speaker and author, Sarah Steele! Sarah and I met in 2009 (I think 😅) when we spent 2 weeks together traveling and speaking across England, Scotland, and Wales. As you will hear (or you already know if you watched my teaser!) she is from England, so you’ll love listening. Sarah has worked globally as a facilitator and keynote and has been lucky enough to work with clients such as L’Oreal, Geico, Johns Hopkins, NASA, MIT as well as awesome faith-based organisations and non-profits. Her passions are around Managing Self and the power of intentionality when deciding how to respond to tough situations (and you are REALLY going to hear this today!).Recently I learned something I didn’t know much about while we were traveling together. At 20 years old, Sarah was involved in a car accident that still affects her today. You’re about to hear the powerful lessons she has learned through that experience. She'll talk about the concept of BounceBackAbility – bouncing back from setbacks, catching yourself when you are on a downward spiral, and managing your own attitude in tough times. Enjoy! (Show notes at http://bit.ly/2MU2TlyCYH38.)

    Connect with us

    • Instagram: Consider Yourself Hugged (new account!)
    • TikTok: Short clips and stories
    • YouTube: Full episodes + video snippets
    • Women’s Group: A Place for Women—ongoing conversation

    **The information shared in this episode is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care.
    If you or someone you know is struggling, please seek help from a qualified professional. If you’re in crisis, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, or visit 988lifeline.org for chat and resources.

    General Resources 
    National Alliance of Mental Illness: https://www.nami.org 
    Mental Health America: https://mhanational.org 
    Mental Health First Aid Resources: https://www.mentalhealthfirstaid.org/ 

    About Tami & Michelle:
    Michelle Kixmiller, PMHNP
    Michelle is a Board Certified Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner 

    Tami West, PhD
    Stress & Mental Health Expert Dr. Tami West uses research & fun to help transform your life.

    38 min
  • Episode #37: Today’s Hug - "I'm so OCD! Are You Too?!"
    Today I wanted to give you a short reminder of the importance of not identifying yourself in debilitating ways! It's just a short story of an interaction I had and how it really made me think about my own mental health and OCD. Let me know what you think! (Show notes at http://bit.ly/31BwmVFCYH37).

    Connect with us

    • Instagram: Consider Yourself Hugged (new account!)
    • TikTok: Short clips and stories
    • YouTube: Full episodes + video snippets
    • Women’s Group: A Place for Women—ongoing conversation

    **The information shared in this episode is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care.
    If you or someone you know is struggling, please seek help from a qualified professional. If you’re in crisis, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, or visit 988lifeline.org for chat and resources.

    General Resources 
    National Alliance of Mental Illness: https://www.nami.org 
    Mental Health America: https://mhanational.org 
    Mental Health First Aid Resources: https://www.mentalhealthfirstaid.org/ 

    About Tami & Michelle:
    Michelle Kixmiller, PMHNP
    Michelle is a Board Certified Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner 

    Tami West, PhD
    Stress & Mental Health Expert Dr. Tami West uses research & fun to help transform your life.

    10 min
  • Episode #36: Today’s Hug - What Type of Coffee Are You? Well-being and your personality style
    So excited about today's episode! Maybe you've taken the Enneagram test or DiSC or one of the many other personality assessments available "out there"! Years ago I wrote one called "What Type of Coffee Are You?" Today I'll walk you through a general overview of personality assessments, briefly describe the 4 styles from my Coffee quiz, and give you 3 tips to help you use your style for mental and emotional well-being. Be sure to download the quiz - links are in the show notes :) (Show notes at http://bit.ly/2VJeHtLCHY36).

    Connect with us

    • Instagram: Consider Yourself Hugged (new account!)
    • TikTok: Short clips and stories
    • YouTube: Full episodes + video snippets
    • Women’s Group: A Place for Women—ongoing conversation

    **The information shared in this episode is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care.
    If you or someone you know is struggling, please seek help from a qualified professional. If you’re in crisis, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, or visit 988lifeline.org for chat and resources.

    General Resources 
    National Alliance of Mental Illness: https://www.nami.org 
    Mental Health America: https://mhanational.org 
    Mental Health First Aid Resources: https://www.mentalhealthfirstaid.org/ 

    About Tami & Michelle:
    Michelle Kixmiller, PMHNP
    Michelle is a Board Certified Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner 

    Tami West, PhD
    Stress & Mental Health Expert Dr. Tami West uses research & fun to help transform your life.

    22 min
  • Episode #35: Today’s Hug - Q & A From My Fabulous Listeners
    Tami put out a call for questions YOU want answered, and today she answers 2 of the many that came through. The first involves how we see ourselves, and the 2nd, dealing with others' emotional pain. The plan is to keep doing Q & A sessions in the future, so enjoy! (Show notes at https://www.tamiwest.com/post/show-notes-cyh-episode-35-q-a-from-my-fabulous-listeners).

    Connect with us

    • Instagram: Consider Yourself Hugged (new account!)
    • TikTok: Short clips and stories
    • YouTube: Full episodes + video snippets
    • Women’s Group: A Place for Women—ongoing conversation

    **The information shared in this episode is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care.
    If you or someone you know is struggling, please seek help from a qualified professional. If you’re in crisis, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, or visit 988lifeline.org for chat and resources.

    General Resources 
    National Alliance of Mental Illness: https://www.nami.org 
    Mental Health America: https://mhanational.org 
    Mental Health First Aid Resources: https://www.mentalhealthfirstaid.org/ 

    About Tami & Michelle:
    Michelle Kixmiller, PMHNP
    Michelle is a Board Certified Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner 

    Tami West, PhD
    Stress & Mental Health Expert Dr. Tami West uses research & fun to help transform your life.

    20 min
  • Episode #34: Today’s Hug - Rest, Emotions, Choices, Thoughts & More – Another Chat With My Son
    You’ve heard one chat already with Tami's oldest son Jamie (well, James to everyone else but probably never to her 😁). The plan today was to focus on rest, which they did, but they also veered into so many other cool areas, so please enjoy! (Show notes at https://www.tamiwest.com/post/show-notes-cyh-episode-34-rest-emotions-choices-thoughts-more-another-chat-with-my-son).

    Connect with us

    • Instagram: Consider Yourself Hugged (new account!)
    • TikTok: Short clips and stories
    • YouTube: Full episodes + video snippets
    • Women’s Group: A Place for Women—ongoing conversation

    **The information shared in this episode is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care.
    If you or someone you know is struggling, please seek help from a qualified professional. If you’re in crisis, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, or visit 988lifeline.org for chat and resources.

    General Resources 
    National Alliance of Mental Illness: https://www.nami.org 
    Mental Health America: https://mhanational.org 
    Mental Health First Aid Resources: https://www.mentalhealthfirstaid.org/ 

    About Tami & Michelle:
    Michelle Kixmiller, PMHNP
    Michelle is a Board Certified Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner 

    Tami West, PhD
    Stress & Mental Health Expert Dr. Tami West uses research & fun to help transform your life.

    45 min
  • Episode #33: Today’s Hug - Our Inner Critics Are Winning! Why, and How to Get a Grip
    Today, Tami will give you some great insight and tips from one of her favorite self-help books, "Self-Esteem" by Dr. Matthew McKay and Patrick Fanning. If you battle your inner critic and would like relief, tune in!! (Show notes with links at https://www.tamiwest.com/post/show-notes-cyh-episode-33-our-inner-critics-are-winning-why-and-how-to-get-a-grip?fbclid=IwAR0OHxFKWwhyFd4MrS9lmZB2NCAyYzsvwevTPoRppW_bWMkIhOrSzkoGGYc)

    Connect with us

    • Instagram: Consider Yourself Hugged (new account!)
    • TikTok: Short clips and stories
    • YouTube: Full episodes + video snippets
    • Women’s Group: A Place for Women—ongoing conversation

    **The information shared in this episode is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care.
    If you or someone you know is struggling, please seek help from a qualified professional. If you’re in crisis, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, or visit 988lifeline.org for chat and resources.

    General Resources 
    National Alliance of Mental Illness: https://www.nami.org 
    Mental Health America: https://mhanational.org 
    Mental Health First Aid Resources: https://www.mentalhealthfirstaid.org/ 

    About Tami & Michelle:
    Michelle Kixmiller, PMHNP
    Michelle is a Board Certified Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner 

    Tami West, PhD
    Stress & Mental Health Expert Dr. Tami West uses research & fun to help transform your life.

    28 min
  • Episode #32: Today’s Hug - "I About Killed My Dang Wife!": Choosing Your Words
    Today's episode focuses on language and the word choices we make. Tami will share a story from her latest trip and then give you a tip to become a better, more confident, more aware communicator! (Show notes at https://www.tamiwest.com/post/show-notes-cyh-episode-32-i-about-killed-my-dang-wife-choosing-your-words).

    Connect with us

    • Instagram: Consider Yourself Hugged (new account!)
    • TikTok: Short clips and stories
    • YouTube: Full episodes + video snippets
    • Women’s Group: A Place for Women—ongoing conversation

    **The information shared in this episode is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care.
    If you or someone you know is struggling, please seek help from a qualified professional. If you’re in crisis, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, or visit 988lifeline.org for chat and resources.

    General Resources 
    National Alliance of Mental Illness: https://www.nami.org 
    Mental Health America: https://mhanational.org 
    Mental Health First Aid Resources: https://www.mentalhealthfirstaid.org/ 

    About Tami & Michelle:
    Michelle Kixmiller, PMHNP
    Michelle is a Board Certified Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner 

    Tami West, PhD
    Stress & Mental Health Expert Dr. Tami West uses research & fun to help transform your life.

    19 min
  • Episode #31: Today's Hug - The Spot on My Face: A Lesson in Decision Making
    Today Tami shares a personal story that forced her to make a decision based on thought and processing - not fear and emotion. First she'll share just the story. Then she'll walk you through her processing. Then she'll give you some steps to take when you're faced with tough decisions. (Show notes at https://www.tamiwest.com/post/show-notes-cyh-episode-31-the-spot-on-my-face-a-lesson-in-decision-making).

    Connect with us

    • Instagram: Consider Yourself Hugged (new account!)
    • TikTok: Short clips and stories
    • YouTube: Full episodes + video snippets
    • Women’s Group: A Place for Women—ongoing conversation

    **The information shared in this episode is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care.
    If you or someone you know is struggling, please seek help from a qualified professional. If you’re in crisis, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, or visit 988lifeline.org for chat and resources.

    General Resources 
    National Alliance of Mental Illness: https://www.nami.org 
    Mental Health America: https://mhanational.org 
    Mental Health First Aid Resources: https://www.mentalhealthfirstaid.org/ 

    About Tami & Michelle:
    Michelle Kixmiller, PMHNP
    Michelle is a Board Certified Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner 

    Tami West, PhD
    Stress & Mental Health Expert Dr. Tami West uses research & fun to help transform your life.

    21 min

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