Never Been Promoted Podcast with Thomas Helfrich
Mel Reyes, an entrepreneur, coach, and cybersecurity expert, uncovers how mindset, self-care, and massive action can transform both personal and professional lives. Mel shares his journey from corporate IT and cybersecurity to coaching, revealing the power of introspection and how to cut ties with what's holding you back.
About Mel Reyes
Mel Reyes has over 30 years of experience in IT and cybersecurity. In recent years, he transitioned from the corporate world to coaching, focusing on helping teams and individuals achieve success through mindset shifts, cultural transformation, and psychological safety. His mission is to help people educate and elevate themselves by focusing on core values and taking massive action.
In this episode, Thomas and Mel discuss:
- Mel's Journey from Corporate to Coaching
Mel reflects on his 30-year career in IT and cybersecurity and shares how introspective work led him to transition into coaching. His focus is on building a mindset for living the best life through self-care, cultural understanding, and psychological safety.
- The Importance of Self-Care and Mindset Shifts
Mel explains how taking care of yourself can lead to taking care of others. He introduces the concept of going from "selfless to selfish" and how that shift in mindset can help you prioritize your values and achieve your goals.
Mel introduces his framework of the "5 V's"—Views, Values, Vulnerability, Voice, and Vision—and explains how each element plays a role in personal and professional development. He emphasizes the importance of vulnerability in leadership and building trust within teams.
- Massive Action for Real Change
Mel shares his belief in taking massive action to achieve goals, recounting how he moved his family from New York to California in pursuit of a better life. He encourages listeners to take bold steps, make hard decisions, and stay aligned with their personal vision.
Key Takeaways:
- Mindset and Self-Care Are Critical for Success:
Mel stresses the importance of prioritizing yourself to be able to help others, and how adopting a proactive, performance-oriented mindset can lead to personal and professional breakthroughs. - The 5 V’s for Transformation:
The "5 V’s" framework—Views, Values, Vulnerability, Voice, and Vision—helps individuals identify their strengths, understand their values, and take action toward achieving their goals. - Massive Action Leads to Change:
Change doesn’t happen by chance. Mel emphasizes the need to take massive action, make difficult decisions, and continually evolve to achieve the life and career you want.
"You can't sit back and wait for life to change. You have to take massive action and be willing to cut ties with the things that are holding you back." — Mel Reyes
CONNECT WITH MEL REYES:
Website: https://etc.limited/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melreyes/
CONNECT WITH THOMAS:
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