Dark Mind Detective

We chat about dating, relationships, her history with narcissistic abuse, her podcast, and her profession as a 911 operator in Tucson, Arizona.

Hush! started off as a passion project for her and has since evolved.

Kim chose to digitize storytelling and holds a bachelor's degree in journalism.

She founded Hush! as a forum for a candid discussion of growing up sex, dating, relationships, and other topics that are typically kept on the hush

In this episode, I interview @narcissist_survivor, who shares her experience and expertise dealing with these monsters.

Please follow her on Instagram at narcissisit_survivor

Love bombing is a tactic used in some forms of manipulation and emotional abuse where a person will shower their partner with excessive affection, attention, and gifts in order to control and manipulate them.

This type of behavior can be used to create a sense of dependency in the partner and can be part of a pattern of manipulation and control in a relationship.

WARNING: This story contains details that may disturb some readers.

Leonard Krekic, who worked in Penticton and other cities in B.C., was found to have committed professional misconduct and unprofessional conduct while treating multiple female patients between 2012 and 2019 by a disciplinary panel on Aug. 5.

On Dec. 21, the College of Massage Therapists of B.C. rendered their decision on what Krekic’s punishment would be.

That punishment will be a ban from registering with the College to work as a massage therapist until January 1, 2048, and a fine and costs totalling $105,952.51.

Six different former clients of Krekic had filed allegations against him with the College, beginning with an allegation filed in 2019.

“This is one of the most serious cases to ever come before the Discipline Committee due to the nature and gravity of multiple instances of misconduct involving many different patients extending over a period of years,” reads part of the Aug 5 decision.

“Sexual misconduct is a particularly serious form of misconduct because it involves a breach of trust and abuse of patients. The duration and frequency of Mr. Krekic’s conduct was serious, and its impact on the complainants was profound.”

Krekic lived or worked in White Rock, Surrey and Penticton over the time where he treated the patients, though only the last patient is identified as having been treated specifically in Penticton.

The decision stressed sexual touching of patients will not be tolerated and must be denounced.

“Where this occurs, registrants of CMTBC will be met with the most serious penalties available,” the college stated.

If you or someone you know is a victim of sexual assault, help is available.

In an emergency, call 9-1-1

In a crisis, call 1-800-563-0808

To report a person under 19 who needs protection to the Ministry of Children and Family Development, call 310-1234 (no area code required)

The nature of evil intentions is a complex and multifaceted topic that has been studied by philosophers, theologians, and psychologists for centuries.

Generally speaking, evil intentions can be defined as deliberate actions or motives that cause harm or suffering to others.

Some people believe that evil intentions stem from a lack of empathy or compassion, and that individuals who engage in evil actions do not fully understand or care about the impact of their actions on others.

Emotional abuse can be just as harmful as physical abuse.

Emotional abuse can be difficult to recognize, as it often involves subtle tactics such as manipulation, gaslighting, and verbal abuse.

Hypnotherapy can be an effective tool for helping individuals who have been in a relationship with a narcissist to heal from the emotional and psychological trauma caused by the abuse. Here are some hypnotherapy techniques that can be used in the treatment of narcissistic abuse: I end the podcast with a hypnosis script for overcoming emotional abuse and trauma:

Dark psychology is the study of the human mind and behavior in relation to negative or harmful aspects of human nature, such as manipulation, deception, and power. It encompasses a wide range of topics, including:

Many of the concepts and techniques that fall under the umbrella of dark psychology can be used for positive purposes such as therapy and personal development.For example like Neuro-linguistic programming. Criminal and deviant psychology: the study of criminal and deviant behavior, including the psychological motivations and methods used by criminals and other deviant individuals.

I also included 90s TV News clips and interviews regarding Paul Bernardo. Paul Bernardo, also known as the "Scarborough Rapist" and the "Schoolgirl Killer," is a Canadian serial killer and rapist who committed crimes in the Toronto area in the late 1980s and early 1990s. He was convicted of the kidnappings, rapes, and murders of several young women, including his wife Karla Homolka's younger sister Tammy Homolka. Bernardo also committed a series of sexual assaults known as the "Scarborough Rapist" attacks prior to the murder of Homolka and the other girls. He was arrested in 1993 and sentenced to life in prison without the possibility of parole for 25 years.

My late wife Alexandra worked very hard to become a Clinical Hypnotherapist, I helped write many of her assignments. This track will repair emotional pain frequency, heal emotions, recover from narcissism, heal from emotional abuse, heal the emotional pain body, and how to heal from emotional pain through emotional release hypnosis, emotional healing hypnosis Deep Sleep Hypnosis for Emotional Healing and Happiness, emotional heal, Sleep hypnosis, guided meditation for emotional pain relief, sleep hypnosis for emotional healing repair your emotions, healing from mental suffering, healing from trauma

The Barnardo Trail was Justice Served?

Paul Kenneth Bernardo also known as The Scarborough Pedo Rapist and The Schoolgirl Killer, is a Canadian serial killer and serial rapist. He is known for initially committing a series of rapes in Scarborough, Ontario, a suburb of Toronto, between 1987 and 1990, before subsequently committing three murders with his then-wife Karla Homolka; among these victims was her young sister Tammy Homolka.

After his capture and conviction, Bernardo was sentenced to life imprisonment and was later declared a dangerous offender, thus making it unlikely that he will ever be released from prison.

At his October 17, 2018 parole meeting, evidence from expert psychiatric reports found that he had "deviant sexual interests sexual sadism, voyeurism, and paraphilia narcissistic personality disorder

Bernardo scored 35 out of 40 on the Psychopathy Checklist, a psychological assessment tool used to assess the presence of psychopathy in individuals

In this podcast, I talk about narcissistic abuse and toxicity where people utilize strategies of motivation, persuasion, manipulation, and coercion to acquire what they want.

I explore if today's culture and society cause mental illness.

Many mental health professionals believe that these elements contribute significantly to many of the issues that plague our society and way of life.

The circumstances of modern life, with increasingly complex systems of social organization, are becoming more complex, and contradictory, necessitating potentially unsettling cognitive demands

There are life events that increase the risk factor, like abuse, trauma, stress, domestic violence, adversity during childhood, bullying, conflict, social isolation, or substance abuse (which can have a cause-and-effect relationship).

Can being in a relationship with a Narcissist can destroy your health?

I included

A police interview with the serial killer Paul Barnardo, is a prime example of a, manipulate narcissistic psychopath with their ability to lie and be extremely convincing.

In this podcast, I have the honour of speaking with Sergeant Major Sebastien Lavoie. He served as a police officer with the RCMP for over 20 years in specialized and elite units as an in-flight safety officer (air marshal)

A full-time member of the BC Lower Mainland Emergency Response Team. (ERT) both as a breacher and later as a team leader.

He retired in 2021 as the Divisional Sergeant Major for “E” Division

He is now CEO of Raven Strategic Inc. @ravenstrategic which provides leadership and performance training as well as security-related services.

Co-Owner Ascension Martial Arts

Brazilian Jiujtisu Instructor and Black Belt

You can find Seb on Instagram @slavccmdr

In this episode, I was a conversation with self-defence expert Jonathan Fader, of Urban Tactics Krav Maga.

Started Instructing Krav Maga in 2012.

Jonathan is a brown belt in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu BJJ.

He served in the military with The Israel Defence Forces, IDF in Israel.

Jonathan, talks about “situational awareness” and how it's an important tool to keep you safe when out in public, we talk about the many benefits of learning self-defence.