Date Yourself

Date Yourself

By Amber AardenburgHealth & FitnessMental Health
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Date Yourself episodes

  • Ep 11 What if it's not you babe? It's society

    Men need to show emotions, but if they express "too much" then they're considered feminine, if you start a business you shouldn't show it yet because it's not yet "successful", so that's cringy. Why does this world have so many weird unspoken rules? 

    In this episode, I talk about how to stick to your own lane. And the mental prisons we seem to want to put each other in. 

    But do we benefit from them? Queeny, an insta friend, found out that most of us don't care about Instagram anymore... What's up with that? Listen to this episode to free yourself from all the SHOULDs (what you should be doing, loving, look like, etc.) And tune into what it is that you feel and want. Because maybe it's not you... It's the pressure of society.

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    18 min
  • Ep 10 Why you let your mind hold you back & how to take charge

    Hi my love, thank you so much for tuning in to the Date Yourself podcast!

    Did you know that 95% of our thoughts are repeated? We are only aware of 5% of what is happening in our minds, during the day. So much wasted potential! Because our mindset determines how we see the world and what we attract.
    We´re talking about all things subconscious mind. To empower you so you can take back charge of your life. No matter where you´re at in life. I share these practices because I feel so passionate about the potential we ALL HAVE, to get so much more out of life. By looking at what´s going on in our mind, the subconscious part...


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    32 min
  • Ep 9 How to start attracting more miracles & luck ✨

    Why do some people seem to have so much luck & miraculous things happen to them? What can you do to empower yourself when you feel jealous? And what is a quick way to shift your energy and attract something better? All of that and more I discuss in this podcast. I hope you have a beautiful week! As always ask me questions over at Instagram @amberaardenburg or email me at [email protected]

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    17 min
  • Ep 8 Trust your intuition they said...

    Thank you for tuning in & happy 2024 my loves! I hope you had a good start to your year so far. In this episode, we discuss why you should listen to your intuition. With real-life examples of my 2023, and how my intuition saved my a** big time lol. And also:

    - how do you know to trust that voice?

    - What does it sound like and when is it the mind?

    - How can you start to build a strong relationship with it and use it to heal yourself and attract the most beautiful growth opportunities

    and more...

    I'm so excited for you to listen to this one. Don't forget to tell me what your thoughts are about this episode over on insta. Please send me a DM at @amberaardenburg https://www.instagram.com/amberaardenburg/


    Hope you enjoy listening, and until the next one!

    Love,

    Amber

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    19 min
  • Ep 7 Why are you hiding?

    This episode turned into a little storytelling/pep-talk episode that you didn't know you needed 😉

    Thank you for listening! In this episode, I discuss the importance and struggle of expressing yourself fully and living authentically. Why we need you to accept yourself and show yourself, so the right people can find you. And so much more!

    With love,

    Amber

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    21 min
  • Ep 6 Shapeshift into your dream self in 2024

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    Hi lovelies! Excited to bring the last episode of the year to you! I hope 2023 has been good to you. In this episode, I explain how you can shape-shift into your dream self, and start manifesting your dreams in 2024. I love this process and use it daily! We discuss:

    - the importance of asking for what you want & being clear about it (and no you are not self centred for wanting the best for yourself)

    - how to know when to do NOTHING and let the universe handle it (and how it has your back)

    - why you should lean in, and build, your TRUST muscle

    - how to start expecting the best instead of waiting for something bad to happen

    + some juicy manifestation examples from my own life

    Let me know what you learned while listening or if you have any remaining questions, I'd love to chat! I'm wishing you a blessed 2024 with a lot of laughter, love, and opportunity.

    With love,

    Amber


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    31 min
  • Ep 5 Taking cacao, letting my walls down & living in the woods

    Hi my loves,

    I've just come back from a beautiful trip that has been a rollercoaster. I've come home with so many beautiful insights and an open heart. I felt like it would be valuable to share with you also, what has happened on this special trip. And with that also share some tips on how to keep your heart open. Because mine was closed and during this trip I've been really able to let my walls down. And it feels SO GOOD to be in this state of mind instead!
    I would love to hear from you in the comments 💗
    Love,
    Amber

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    39 min
  • Ep 4 Friend breakups, the sisterwound and comparing

    Today's episode is about our friendship dynamics. What to do if your friend is comparing themselves to you? Has different expectations about friendships? And how to get through a friend breakup?

    I am so excited to get into the reasons why I think we still try to compete with other women and compare. This is, I believe because of the sisterwound. I explain what it is, how it's holding us back in our friendships and how we can change that!

    Thank you for tuning in!

    Be sure to tag me on Instagram @amberaardenburg and share this episode with your community or someone you know who would love to hear this episode. Your support means the world! Also, I would love to hear your thoughts on this episode! What do you think about this and what has been your experience?

    Have a magical week and see you in the next episode!

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    25 min
  • Ep 2 Are our standards too high?

    Are my standards too high?

    Have you ever asked yourself that question? I definitely have!

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    In this episode, I talk about

    - why I believe you can get anything you want, yes anything

    - How what I call "contrast" can guide you to the right experiences for you

    - my "contrast" when it comes to my dating & relationship dynamics

    - why you should stick to your dream and even dream bigger (reiki & guys that can cook have something to do with it)

    - some winks of the universe that showed my lately why I shouldn't settle

    - How positive momentum can be your ladder to manifesting what it is you want

    - why the timing is at play and different ways that you can still get what you want in other people as well

    - Why I want you to dream bigger

    and more...


    Listen to how Kathrin manifested her husband (using her list) if you need a little bit more convincing :)

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    33 min
  • Ep 3 Become a pro in dealing with difficult emotions

    Knowing yourself and being there for yourself also means allowing yourself to feel your emotions. Easier said than done for most of us right? That's why in this episode I talk about:

    - how we are not our feelings we experience them and how this works

    - how our body stores suppressed emotions and how this can make us physically sick as well

    - how I process difficult emotions and how to make it easy for yourself

    - and more

    I would love to hear from you! Share this podcast and tag me if you do or DM me on ista with your questions or any insights you had. While listening to this episode.

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    Some articles and studies about the forming of cancer through stress and suppressed emotions

    https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3939772/

    https://medicine.yale.edu/news-article/stress-triggers-tumor-formation-yale-researchers-find/

    https://drgabormate.com/book/when-the-body-says-no/

    I also recommend reading this book by someone who healed her tumor by processing her deeply suppressed emotions. It´s a personal story and a super interesting read.

    https://www.amazon.nl/Journey-Practical-Healing-Setting-Yourself-ebook/dp/B007UK7Y3O/ref=sr_1_1?__mk_nl_NL=%C3%85M%C3%85%C5%BD%C3%95%C3%91&crid=3ESGZ6BF9NV6S&keywords=brandon+bay+the+journey+english&qid=1698761219&sprefix=brandon+bays+the+journey+english%2Caps%2C83&sr=8-1

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    20 min

About Date Yourself

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Welcome to Date Yourself, I´m your host Amber and no matter if you´re married or single I think the world would be a better place if we all dated ourselves. During this podcast we discuss being unapologetically yourself, ditching the bullshit & tuning into more peace by making joy a choice. Through listening to this podcast you might create a lifelong glow up, just saying. It´s time you start to appreciate yourself more, date yourself!