As someone with several long term relationships with white men, I'm often criticized for not having relationships with black men. This has often put me into a position where I'm having to measure if I'm willing to stick to my general standard of a man who wants to claim me, or shift my standards "for the cause". It seems as though some people would rather me be in a secretive relationship with a black man than a public one with a white man and I wanted to unpack that as I embark on this path in life where I'm trying to date more men of color. 

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