Every rider knows the feeling.

That moment when you and your horse are so in sync, it's like you're breathing together. No pulling, no gripping, no second-guessing—just presence, softness, and trust. But then there are the other days.

You overthink. Your horse resists. Your leg tenses, your hands take instead of give. The connection frays. The confidence dips. And you wonder… Why does it feel so hard? According to five-time Olympian Anne Kursinski, it's not about strength. It's not even about talent. It's about feel—and feel is something you can learn. In this intimate, wisdom-packed conversation, Anne opens up about the journey behind her Olympic career: the mentors who doubted her, the tough moments that shaped her, and the deep presence she brings to every ride, clinic, and teaching moment today. We explore:

• Why "talent" is the most overrated concept in riding
• How to develop feel by listening to your horse—on the ground and in the saddle
• The difference between pressure and micromanagement
• How your energy, focus, and self-worth affect your horse's performance
• Why presence—not perfection—is the real path to progress

Whether you're in the barn before sunrise or riding once a week between life's responsibilities, Anne's insights will help you ride with more clarity, softness, and purpose. Because connection isn't something you force—it's something you create.

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