If your horse likes to stand a little too close for comfort, you know how fast "friendly" can turn into "please step back."

In this episode of Groundwork Guys, Tik Maynard and Nick Rivera unpack what's really going on when a horse ignores your space and why calling it bad manners might be missing the point.

They dig into the difference between respect and fear, and how to build a boundary that feels fair, not forceful. The conversation moves from the science of horse behavior to the art of staying calm when things get crowded.

Here's what they explore:

• Why "manners" are taught, not instinctive

• How to hold your ground without creating a standoff

• The importance of catching the first subtle "no" from your horse

• What it means to enter a horse's space politely

• How emotional neutrality becomes your most powerful training tool

Tik and Nick bring humor and honesty to a universal challenge, reminding us that groundwork is never about control. It's about communication, timing, and the kind of calm energy your horse can trust.

Listen to Groundwork Guys: The Pushy Horse Problem wherever you get your podcasts, and explore the full series for a limited time on NF+ or inside Camp Horse World, the new equestrian learning marketplace.

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If you've ever been late to a lesson because your horse suddenly decided the trailer is lava, welcome. Tik Maynard and Nick Rivera are here to help.

In this first episode of Groundwork Guys, the duo tackles listener Megan's question about her semi-feral mare who has made her feelings about trailer loading very clear. What follows is part training plan, part therapy session, and part two horsemen trying to out-joke each other.

Tik and Nick talk through why trailer loading usually isn't about the trailer at all, how to spot the moment your horse starts thinking instead of panicking, and why you should probably practice before show day. They cover everything from "sending vs. leading" to reading ear flicks like body language PhDs.

Along the way, you'll learn:

• The difference between a reward and a bribe (and why your horse totally knows the difference).

• How to help your horse find curiosity instead of chaos.

• Why calm energy gets you farther than fancy gear.

• And how Tik somehow turned a groundwork lesson into a plan to build a horse-sized suspension bridge.

Key takeaway: Trailer loading is 20% technique, 80% emotional regulation (mostly yours).

Quote of the episode:

"If you go out two hours early, your horse walks right on. If you go out five minutes before, it takes two hours. Do the math." — Tik

So grab your coffee, your sense of humor, and maybe a cookie (for you and the horse). It's time to load up.

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Season One of Dear Horse World changed the way so many of us think about riding and about ourselves. But there was no way to fit all the mic-drop moments into one episode, so here is Part Two.

This is an honest look at what it truly takes to grow with your horse, not just to train harder. We're talking about the uncomfortable but transformative shifts that distinguish simply "riding" from genuine partnership.

You'll hear:

• Josh Nichol on why leadership isn't control. It's learning to be calm when everything in you wants to tense.

• Animal communicator, Deleah, on vulnerability, surrender, and the purpose horses are quietly asking us to find.

• Dr. Jenny Susser on confidence, goal setting, and why every rider (yes, even you) deserves to own their space in the arena.

• Karl Cook on cutting through schemes and taking responsibility for the basics of great horse care.

• Dewey Freeman and Dr. Connie on looking deeper than "bad behavior" to what our horses are really experiencing.

• William Fox-Pitt on believing in the horse you have and adapting with humility when plans change.

These are the conversations that shift you from overthinking and reacting to leading with clarity, trust, and purpose. It is honest, it is challenging, and it might just change how you ride forever.

Want to be first to know when Season Two drops? Join the mailing list here and stay connected to a community of riders rethinking what great horsemanship can be.

If these conversations inspired you, you'll find even more at noellefloydplus.com—our learning community for riders who want to deepen their horsemanship, connect across disciplines, and grow alongside world-class trainers. Explore courses, resources, and tools designed to bring the wisdom of Dear Horse World into your everyday riding.

Season One of Dear Horse World has been nothing short of transformative. In this special finale, Noëlle Floyd revisits the conversations that cracked open our understanding of what it means to be in true partnership with horses—and with ourselves.

From Jochen Schleese revealing how saddle fit can numb a horse's body, to Nikki Simpson dismantling the "pose" in favor of authentic effectiveness in the saddle, to Anne Kursinski reminding us that patience and repetition are the real keys to mastery—each guest has left an indelible mark. We'll hear from Mark Rashid about the weathered cowboy who unknowingly set him on his path, from Cristóbal Scarpati reading a colt's plea to be trained with kindness, and from Dr. Steve Peters on the neuroscience of curiosity, learning, and flow.

Some moments are raw, like Jerri Scherff's story of confronting horse abuse at a barrel race. Others are poetic, like William Fox-Pitt's reflections on congruency, or Nick Dowers on the power of presence. Together, they weave a tapestry that shows just how deeply interconnected our horsemanship, values, and humanity really are.

This season was born from a mission: to unite the horse world through conversation. Along the way, it has transformed Noëlle—heart, mind, and soul. The hope is that somewhere in these voices, every listener will hear a piece of their own story, and leave with a sense that the messy middle we all occupy is where transformation begins.

Join Noëlle in revisiting the moments you voted as your favorites, alongside a few that shaped her forever.

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Matt Brown has ridden at the top of the sport. But when he watched a replay of one of his proudest rounds, he didn't see a confident partnership—he saw a horse responding to pressure, not trust. That moment changed everything. In this episode, Matt joins us to talk about why he stopped carrying a whip in eventing competitions—and how that decision opened the door to something deeper: leadership, vulnerability, and the quiet reckoning that happens when tradition no longer aligns with who you want to be.

Matt names what so many riders feel but rarely say out loud, from internalized pressure to the shame of past mistakes to the fear of evolving in public.

You'll walk away with:

• Language for the subtle forms of pressure that can go unnoticed in training
• A deeper understanding of how systemic norms shape personal choices
• Insight into what real partnership with a horse can look like, without force
• Encouragement to rethink tradition with nuance, empathy, and clarity

This is a conversation about the beliefs we absorb without knowing, the pressure we pass down without meaning to, and the kind of rider we become when we stop trying to prove we belong—and start listening instead.

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• 🐴 Training & Clinics: Learn more about Matt and Cecily's coaching, clinics, and horses for sale at East West Training Stables

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Trailer loading isn't just about getting your horse from A to B—it's a skill. And like any skill, it depends on trust, preparation, and practice.

In this episode of Dear Horse World, you'll hear the first video from Tik Maynard's Trailering 101 & Common Trailering Problems Masterclass on NF+. Tik explains why most "loading problems" are really relationship problems, how to set your horse up for success, and why rushing almost always backfires.

This is just one lesson from a 19-part, 3.5-hour masterclass, now updated with four rider case studies that show exactly how Tik works through common trailering struggles.

👉 Watch the full course on NF+ at and use code DHW for 15% off your annual membership.

Because a horse that loads quietly isn't just convenient—it's peace of mind.

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Equine Neuroscience in Action: Turning Science into a Stronger Bond

In Part 2 of our conversation with Dr. Stephen Peters, we move from theory to application — how to take the neuroscience of learning and connection and put it to work with your horse.

We explore:

• Why drilling a task can reduce dopamine and motivation

• How reward-based training works at the chemical level — and its limits

• The difference between externally resourced and internally resourced horses

• What habits like cribbing reveal about stress and coping

• How oxytocin withdrawal drives "herd bound" behavior — and how to replace it

• Why shorter, well-timed training sessions can outperform hours in the saddle

• How to expand a horse's "window of tolerance" without overwhelming them

This is where brain science becomes a practical, humane training advantage — building a smarter, more resilient, and more connected horse.

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From the Navy to Neuroscience: What Horses Can Teach Us About the Brain Before he became one of the most sought-after voices in equine neuroscience, Dr. Stephen Peters lived an entirely different life — growing up between Japan and England in a military family, serving as a Navy officer, and even working at Goldman Sachs. But a personal tragedy pulled him into the world of brain science, setting him on a path that would change not just his career, but the way thousands of horse owners understand their animals. In this conversation, Stephen reveals how a clinical neuroscientist's view of the brain reshapes everything we think we know about training horses. You'll learn:

• Why attention is a finite resource in young horses — and the surprising age when their brains can actually sustain it.
• How fear rewires the brain and why "making it happen" often comes at a long-term cost.
• The three essential ingredients for learning that apply to horses and humans alike.
• Why "dwell time" isn't just downtime — it's the brain's most powerful consolidation tool.
• How stable design, sensory deprivation, and even whisker clipping can make a horse less capable of learning.
• The simple science-backed approach that can literally make a horse smarter.

It's a masterclass in connection, not control — rooted in evidence, but brought to life with the kind of cowboy wisdom you can only learn in the round pen. Whether you've never sat on a horse or you've spent a lifetime in the saddle, this episode will change how you think about brains, learning, and the delicate art of trust.

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Stay tuned for part 2.

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You love your horse—but your bank account? Not so much. If you've ever found yourself thinking "Can I really afford this?" while clicking "checkout" on supplements or showing fees, you're in good company. Most riders are doing their best to make the numbers work in a sport that doesn't exactly favour modest budgets. In this episode of No Stupid Questions, Noëlle sits down with equestrian finance coach Mary Hurston of Budgeting with MH to talk candidly about the financial side of horse life—the part we rarely say out loud but all feel behind the scenes. Mary brings a shame-free approach to budgeting that's made for real equestrians with real goals. We dig into:

• How much of your income should actually go to horses?
• Is horse insurance worth the monthly premium—or not?
• Can you really write off horse expenses?
• What does it actually cost to show for a week at an "A" circuit venue?
• How to plan for big goals like buying land, building a barn, or affording shows—without burning out

If you're dreaming big, feeling stretched thin, or just want to take the guesswork out of your horse expenses, this episode will leave you feeling clear, capable, and way more confident. Because in this community? There are no stupid questions—especially when it comes to money.

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What If the Calmest Person in the Arena Was the Most Powerful? Nick Dowers is a cowboy, a colt starter, a reined cow horse champion—and one of the most quietly revolutionary horsemen in the game. In this episode, 2016 Road to the Horse Champion and NRCHA finalist Nick Dowers joins Noëlle to break down how foundation, feel, and trust can take a horse from its first ride to world-class performance. But this conversation goes deeper than competition. Nick shares how growing up on a remote Nevada ranch shaped his "horse-as-teacher" mindset, why staying calm under pressure is a learned skill, and how real progress comes from rewarding the try, not chasing perfection. Whether you're starting fresh or rebuilding the foundation, Nick's approach offers clarity, grounded wisdom, and a whole new way to see your horse. You'll walk away with: – A clearer sense of timing and feel – Permission to slow down and build better – Practical insights from one of the top horsemen in the Western world – A fresh perspective on what calm, connected horsemanship really looks like This is horsemanship that transcends disciplines—and transforms relationships.

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